Can I bring my family to MEPS?
No they can not enter MEPS unless they have official business there. It is an official government building. Your recruiter will provide you with a hotel room the night before so you do not have to drive there. You will stay there with everyone else going to MEPS that day. Yes you will have a roomate at the hotel. You have to be there at 0500.
My Family is so Boring, How Do I Have Fun?
It’s not like we have money issues, because my dad just bought a new house so it’s not like we can’t afford to go places. I’m 17 and my family is immensely boring. Monday-Friday I just stay at home and do my homework. Then comes the weekend and my dad just wants me to continue doing my homework and practice for the SAT, even on Saturday. I would like to have some fun after studying so much during the weekday, you know? But my family, mostly my dad, never even wants to leave the city. All the other people in my grade have families that actually go out together, but my dad just keeps me enclosed at home. I can’t drive either, because my dad won’t let me until the summer comes.
What should I do if my family doesn't love me?
First-just accept it. Take it on fully - no hope involved. It will never change.They have nothing emotional to give you. Nothing! Whether they were damaged or not doesn’t matter to how you are being treated.It’s not the end-for in the end all anybody has is him/herself.Love yourself and put yourself first. Go after what you want even if your life is just a journey there. Your on the right road.Yes, there will be bumps and set backs, but you have you. Realize everyone has bumps along the way.Limited or no contact with the ones who show you no love is the right move I think - it’s your choice.But make your first choice YOU!
What should I do if my family keeps taunting me?
Don't spend a single penny for the family. If taunted again,directly say to them, "if you wouldn't have been taunting me, I wouldn't have been so selfish. This shows what your parents have taught you, you are still immature. Don't force me to disrespect you and bring embarrassment to the family."Still they continue,either go away to your room and don't talk to anyone. Just make your home as a hotel where you just go to eat food and sleep and rest of the day you are out.Or you could indulge in taunting them in return.
How do you deal with your family ignoring you?
Shut that door. If they don’t want to have anything to do with you—-why would you think one more moment about what their concerned with? Hey - my brothers want nothing to do with me? Hey that’s all well and good. They’re neurotic.Just because their our family - doesn’t mean they have a big portion of “act right”. Sometimes our families are more hurtful to us than strangers.Feel your feelings of loss and separation, everything because it not healthy to keep having people that diminish your worth hon. Those people are toxic. They operate on Fear Obligation and Guilt. All negative, controlling — and accusation that your the problem - that’s a lovely fear tactic that gets used. Then there’s what’s called either “Grease” or “Spinning”. Both of those tactic’s are when a man will change the subject over and over to confuse you. You know what he is doing but he’s really trying to make you unsettled — he might ask you if you are sick? It’s a diversion tactic. Predators do it. They are good at what they do- and it’s a craft, I know I was just memorized. Man they have no moral fiber - at ALL. So be careful of anyone that’s too friendly. Too eager to help you —I’ve taught myself how to drive with a map in four major cities. I was scared, I don’t have a problem admitting that- we all have fears - it’s only human that we need to feel our way through life. It’s called BEING PRESENT. It’s the most courageous thing you can do. And I cannot tell you everything you need to know. Lord knows that. but one thing be kind to people as you can, and courteous . Be a good person. Stand for something. It’s okay if people decide to leave your life - it’s their loss. People come and go— that is life. It’s really hard and painful sometimes and I hate it. I guess it’s the whole life experience with other humans that you cannot control. I really am sick of powerlessness. Sorry if my answer is odd, I’m in pain and in an peculiar mood. Hope something helped.