Why is my friend's mom so rude to me?
Okay so I'm 16 and I have this best friend who I've known for years. I really like her and her family, but her mom is really rude to me. She always makes very mean comments for absolutely no reason. Like a few weeks ago she asked if I got my eyebrows done and when I said yes she said "They're too thin. Yuck!" Then a few days ago me and her were talking about my new dog and she cut me off mid sentance and said "You have got to do something about your hair! It's so boring!" Yesterday she asked if I had a new perfume and when I said no she said "Really? I smell something nasty!" I never say anything back to her because my mom always taught me to respect adults and all that, but it's so annoying! She always implies that I'm ugly and stuff and I know I'm not, I'm a model for God's sakes! My friend always yells at her for being rude, but it doesn't work. I don't want to have to ditch my friend, but what do I do?
How to handle rude "friends"?
I have 2 people that used to (up until now) be my best friends. One of them will only call me lately when it seems she needs something or has no one else to do anything with,she still says to people i'm one of her best friends. How? The other one always calls me and wants to do stuff but not when she is with my other "friend". She calls me every night to say how much she doesn't like her. This is very confusing. College is now done for the summer and my one friend who normally still hangs out with me came home to visit. I called her to see if she wanted to do something and she said she was with my other friend and they didn't even invite me along. We used to all be friends and I understand people grow apart but I feel like I'm being ganged up on. To my knowledge I haven't done anything wrong to either of these girls or made them mad. How should I handle these very rude suppossed "friends"
What if my friend is acting rude?
What if my friend is acting rude?If you have a friend who deliberately acts in a manner that makes you uncomfortable, ask yourself why you are still hanging around with this person? Friends care about their friends. Maybe the person isn’t a true friend.
My best friend is being mean and rude!!?
My best friend has been really rude. I have known her for 6 years. She has always been a little rude from the beggining but still a really good friend to have around. I thought maybe she would get better but she hasn't. She's always been putting me down and acting like I'm and idiot. She also teases and embaresses me in front of my friends. She also thinks that. I have to be around her every second of the day and have no other friends. One day she was talking to someone after class so I went ahead and went to the next class. In the next class she got really mad and was like "why didn't you wait on me!!!". Really rudely. I told her that she didn't always wait on me and that I thought it was ok. She also always puts me down. Almost everyday she says something rude about my outfit or my hair. She is reall making me lose my self confidence. Also I think she gets a little jealous of me because I'm a all A student. Every time I make a good grade she always says somehing like "well at least I actually studied" or "well it doesn't even matter cause these grade don't even count". Also a few times she would run away with another friend saying "we don't hang out wih nerds!!!!!" Really rudely. She is a really nice person when we are at her house or just me and her. Then she always talks about how she's sooo glad we are friends. Bu around other people it seems like she hates me and tries to make me look stupid!! I've tried giving her some space but she always get mad at me for "leaving her" or "ignoring her"!! She also tells me that I'm stupid on a daily basis or your sooo wierd or whispers to other friends behind my back saying things like "omigosh look at her hair it's so frizzy!!!" I try to act nice and go along with it saying thing like " I know today has been a bad hair day". She also bullies me by hitting me and pushing me around saying "did that hurt"!!! Then trying it harder and harder. I know sometimes people do this just to be fun but she does it a lot and I can tell she is trying to be mean not funny. How do I tell her I don't want to hang out with her anymore. We have been friends for sooo long. I do have other fiends I could hang out with but then she always gets mad!!! Any advice is apreciated!!! Thank you in advance!!!
My friend is behaving rude with me what should I do?
As you have mentioned your problem in the question, so according to it i will try my level best to give an appropriate answer. Because like you many of us are still dealing with the same circumstances.Sometimes what happens is the person who is being rude to you might be dealing with a hell lot of problems in their “day-to-day” life. Maybe because of disputes in the family or the relation with there beloved ones is on the brink of collapse. So there is a probability of many such things that may make a person rude and frustrate from inside just because he/she is bearing these problems for a long time and is not able to overcome it.So according to me firstly you should: 1) Give your friend some space and time for himself. Secondly, 2) Try to clarify all the misunderstandings when they feel to talk to you. Insist your friend to tell you where you went wrong so that you can rectify.And even after clarifying and giving them time they are still rude then just simply leave and move on. Because you just can’t run behind a person for a long time.Remember people come and people go they leave a mark. They play there role in our lives and leave as soon as there role is finished. People who are meant to stay in your life will stay no matter what. So try to get over that person and just enjoy your life to the fullest and stay happy because there are many people who deserves to stay in your life. All the best !Thank You
Dealing With Rude A Rude Friend?
I'm a sophomore in high school. I have this friend who can be really annoying sometimes. Whenever I make a mistake, she always feels the need to tell me that I'm stupid. If I forget something she tells me "ha, you're stupid." I wrote an essay in English and I made a mistake on formatting and she tells me maybe my parent dropped me on the head when I was a baby. Then she's like, "too harsh, huh?" She's a ***** sometimes. My grades are better than hers but she still likes to comment on my intelligence. I don't really like her so much, I try to act like friends "joke" around about each other but she seems like she's just being rude and wants to hurt my feelings. Plus she likes to make rude comments about my appearance even though I know I'm a lot better looking than her. I don't know how to make new friends. Advice?
How do I ask my friend if I can come over without being rude?
When you start to talk about hanging out, just be honest. If she wants to come to your house, tell her, "I'd love for you to come to my house, but we're always bored there. I love coming to yours because we have things to do and at my house, we'd get bored." Good luck.
My boyfriend is rude to my friends?
I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. We really dig each other but he is very opinionated and comes off as rude when he is speaking to my friends. If he doesn't agree with something they are saying, he will reply with something like "I'm losing IQ points just talking to you". these situations leave me stunned and I don't know what to say to him or to my friends. He doesn't seem to care that he is embarrassing me and hurting the people that I care about. At this rate, I am afraid to introduce him to my family for fear of a conflict. I really really like this guy and I want to believe that he likes me back but if he did, why would he selfishly put a strain on my present relationships? Got any advice on what I should say to him?