How to deal with someone making fun of you?
Look right at them say their name and tell them to stop. Keep repeating until their attitude changes or they stop. Example "Mike, stop", or you can say, "That's not appeciated, cut that out." Keep increasing aggressiveness as necessary until the balance of power is equalized. They don't want to cooperate with you, they want to control you. Be better than them. If they brag or do something annoying, look at their facial expressions. Is their face blank and matter-of-fact, or does it have a smirk? If it is the latter, proceed on. If it isn't, simply try to turn the conversation. Take a second to maintain your calm. After a while, you will start doing this automatically. Give a smart, but polite reply that will not hurt either of you, but deeply satisfy your feelings. Here are some examples: "I have a cell phone. I bet you don't!" you would say "Of course I don't. I don't need one, as I prefer to enjoy talking to people face-to-face." "Why are you acting like a nerd?" say "I'm sorry. I am a geek not a nerd." Always be on the ready. Whenever you are at leisure, think of some common crows that people make, and make your own polite reply. Don't give them what they want by acting jealous. If they keep bragging, just smile and say "That's nice." Act like you're more mature than they are. Steer the conversation away to something they couldn't possibly be rude about, like the weather. Avoid them if they keep on bothering you. Try to ignore them if they keep on bothering you after you try all of the previous steps.
What do o do if someone makes fun of my gf?
I had a d***** of a friend like this last year. He always called my girlfriend stupid and not hot and all this other s***. I usually just put up with it since it wasnt to her face it wasn't nearly as bad so I just told him to shut up and tried to not punch him. Then one day he said something really bad about her that I'm not even going to repeat because it was just perverted and really insensitive. And I lost it, my first reaction was a slap across the face, very hard I might add, since he was sort of a friend at the time I didn't want to give him any bruises so I just opted with the painful yet not so damaging slap. Then I started yelling at him and cursing him out, I told him he had no room to talk because he was a piece of s*** who sits home and plays video games all night while im actually doing stuff with my life, like going to soccer or hanging out with a girlfriend...which he doesnt have, and hes only ever had one girlfriend who looked like she had problems and who had the lowest standards ever because her new boyfriend is over 200 pounds and is the stupidest kid I know aside from you(referring to the kid being an idiot about my girlfriend),and I told him if she had half of a brain she would not be going out with losers like you and that other guy. Then I punched him in the stomach and told him to lay off of my girlfriend or Id really hurt him outside of school where I could give him a good beating. He knew I would too because Ive boxed for 10 years, and I bench 210, whereas he benches the bar and only boxes on the Xbox. he wouldn't stand a chance and he knows that. So he stopped and I hardly talked to him again, it was a good deal for me. What you should do is tell them to shut up, if they don't challenge them to a fight off school grounds...if they are the p**** I know they are then they will back down and not want to fight so they will stop when they see your serious, if they do by some miracle accept, wreck them so badly that no one else will want to mess with your girlfriend. Well as badly as you can hurt them without sending them to the hospital in serious condition cause that's overkill. Good luck
What do you say to if someone makes fun of your name?
You ignore it, or tell them that that's their problem, not yours.
How do you react to a person making fun of you?
See there are a lot many ways to how you can deal with such situations-Try laughing at yourself. But not always because the other person might take it for granted.Being positive about yourself and accepting that, Yes, everybody makes mistakes.Notice how people around you, who are known for their wit would act if they were in your situation. And try inculcating that in you.Act confident and that you are not paying attention to them.Tell them, Thank you for talking about me,you people are so interested in me!..but in a funny tone.Learn to tease them back. Take notice of things that piss them off(but in a manner that you don’t go too far)Don’t over react because that is why they are teasing you.Try talking to that person, if you think he/she will understand, because some people have a habit of teasing, and since nobody ever told them that it is wrong to do so, they will continuously do it.Try finding out, why that person is so into making fun of you, it could be either, that they are jealous of you or they themselves have personality issues.Lastly, there should be a limit to everything.If you think things are going out of control, you can always report them.
My skin is pale and people make fun of me?
First of all, Your paleness never bothered you until people started making fun of you. Havent you learned to never listen to the haters out there? You dont deserve to get treated that way. Keep your "pale" skin the way it is. Dont worry about what people say about you. Stick up for yourself and tell them YES im aware that i have pale skin. Is it bothering you?? and then see what they say. I know this will be tough but once you put yourself out there people will no longer make fun of you. No one probably knows that what they are saying hurts you inside so you have to tell them yourself if you really want them to stop. And no dont use tanning oil or tanning lotion or go to a tanning salon because you can get serious side effects that are totally not worth it. If you are really that self concious and concerned with your skin color, go ahead, take the risk of getting skin cancer, and dont complain about the consequences.