Can you have more than One Best Friend?
In a conversation, I would love to refer to one of my close friends as my "best friend", but pinning that title would be unfair to my other close friend who I consider just as worthy. Can you have more than one "best" friend? If so, Isn't that defeating the purpose of what "BEST" is? Do I have to chose?
Can you have more than one 'best friend'?
Yes you can have more than one best friend. It is not abnormal to have more than one best friend. It really depends on you definition of a best friend, or any other title you want to name. I consider a best friend a close friend. A best friend is someone you can rely on no matter what. You can count on them through the ups and down. I have 2 best friends, they are the same friends that I have had since high school. They both share the title of best friend. I do not put one before the other. One is not first or second, they are both first in my life. I am close to both and can depend on them. They are there when I need a shoulder to cry on or even when I need someone just to talk to. So if you have more than one friend that fits this description, then you are a lucky person. And if any of these so called friends are telling you you can only have one best friend than they are really not your friend. Good luck with all that you do.
My friends hate each other, what do I do?
I have two really good friends, but i like one more then I like the other, so she became my best friend. My other friend got really jealous and now they hate each other. The friend whose NOT my best friend does really mean stuff to the one who is. But she still is really fun to be around. PLEASE HELP!!!
Can someone have more than one best friend?
yes you can have as many best friends as you want, but be sure that when someone asks u if they're ur best friend that u say "your one of my best friends" so none of ur best friends gets upset.
How do you handle your best friend getting closer to someone else?
No matter how bad you feel about it, don’t reveal it because, despite your best intentions, you will come across as jealous, possessive and a control freak. It might make matters worse.The thing about life is that friends come and go and we, as people, keep changing. Indeed, change is the only permanent thing in this world. Your best friend too is ever changing. And the worst part is that you can’t do anything about it. So, if your “best friend” chooses to replace you, then so be it. It’ll hurt you a lot. But sooner or later you will have to pick up the broken pieces of your heart and move on. That’s just how life is.Also, if you truly love your best friend, then you will have the courage to look past your own hurt feelings and be glad that they’ve found someone they’re happy with. You will have the courage to prioritize their happiness over yours. And, I think that’s what matters in the end.
My best friend loves me. I don't love him. What should I do?
“Love and Friendship”, both the words have their own importance. Love gives us pain and frienship gives us peace. Love is unconditional but it's a need. Friendship is forever but it's a Joy. Love is eternal and friendship too. But in love you think about the other person and forget youself, but in frienship you love the other person not by forgetting youself. Frienship makes you stronger and loves makes you weaker(Exception are always there). There is a very thin line between love and friendship.Both the words are very powerful. If u say , “you love him as a friend” , that means you love yourself first and then your friend.If u say , “ you have fallen in love with him”, that means you love him first by forgetting yourself. He’s more important than your life.You got to understand this, “Everything that falls, get broken”. Without a heartbreak you can't say , that you have been in love ever.Now just take time, and think. Do you love him or not.??Is he your friend??OrIs he your lover??OrIs he your soulmate??As of now. By looking at your question. I think you are puzzled in your own thoughts.Solution to this is : Get distinct from your Bestfriend. Stop texting him for few days. You would get to know the real truth of yours. Just listen to your heart. Imagine that he is not your friend anymore. You would get to know , the feeling you are going through is love or it's just a friendship.If you are clear on this, that he is just your Bestfriend! Nothing more than that. Then why are you so much concerned about him.If you think , that he is your Bestfriend than just go to him and tell everything straight forward.Why are you hesitating ??If he is your Bestfriend , he would totally understand your situation. Because friendship is more important that love. If he is your true friend, he would choose friendship over love.Don't get conscious. Be brave enough to face it. Wether it's a breakup or rejection. (In terms of frienship).P.S - Friendship and love are like worshipping a god. Needs more devotion and patience. Don't destroy it. It takes million of days to build it and a second to destroy it.All the best.