What To Do If Your Brother Is A Shutterbug

Is it OK to hate my brother?

The most intimate friend one can get or one can be blessed with is a brother. The hatred comes and strongly climbs up out of jealousy, that my parents love my brother the most where they don't even exchange a look or conversation with me which is totally foolish. If you really are living in a deep hatred with your brother just let them know that what are the particular acts of his, you don’t actually like on an ambition just to go for a solution. In that case one should not be so egoistic. A perfect discussion can solve it a lot. Also one should forget of asking his problems which his brother doesn't like as well. After all these conversation just give your brother a breath taking tight hug, just to let him know how much you love, how much you care for. This is just one side.Also hatred can grow inside you for your brother for some familial reasons. Suppose, a family is having separation who had two children. One is living with the mother and the other is obviously with the father. So in that case young mind may groom hatred for the other sub consciously where any of them can't be stated responsible for the decision of their parents. One day it surely will come to light. But if we think deeply, is it his fault that he gets a comfortable living with his father or mother. Obviously not. This case is something very unusual.So, to sum up, go for a solution. If you don't control your hatred, I'm afraid it might control you. So what's the benefit of hanging with a problem without going for a solution when it is very easy. Just keep one thing in your mind to deal with life easily that life is too short. So don't waste it hating someone. Enjoy your stay on the earth. hahahaha.LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH.THANK YOU….

I hate my brother. What do I do?

Be civil to him. Your job isn’t to act out your emotions but to behave responsibly with others in your life. That will be true for the rest of your life. When you are an adult and not living at home, you will have more control over the amount of time and ways in which you interact with your brother. For now, avoid conflict, talk with him calmly about issues, and calmly ask for help if something is truly a serious issue and you can’t manage to work it out with your brother.It’s very common for other siblings to “hate” their younger siblings, even when they admit to loving them. Frankly, it’s really a matter of growing up and gaining perspective. When you’re younger and more narcissistic than you hopefully will be as an adult, any annoyance can seem intolerable. However, siblings often become best friends or at least trusted confidants when they are adults. Don’t throw away the potential for a good relationship by making your relationship worse with him. He’ll have bad memories of you and might be less supportive when you really need him as an adult.You may also want to consider the effects of your behaviors on your parents. Parenting is hard. If one sibling “hates” another and behaves that way, it adds undue stress and concern for the parents. Instead of making big judgments about your brother, ask your parents for advice about how to get along with him better. Sometimes, the solution is to stay out of his way. At other times, asking for his help rather than making demands might work better. Asking parents to help you set up good boundaries with your brother might help too.If there is any abuse such as regular hitting, serious threats, name-calling, or other types of abuse, definitely ask for your parents to put an end to that. If they don’t, talk to your school counselor about how to get help with that situation. Nobody should get hit or intimidated incessantly. Family counseling, parenting classes, and other measures can help. Protection might be necessary as well. Nobody deserves to be abused.Beyond actual abuse, though, you need to learn how to work out situations with your brother to help you learn how to work them out with others in your life in the future. It’s important to learn to make decisions based on a perspective that isn’t just based on your emotions. Emotions are important, but they aren’t reflective of the entire situation. Do what gives the best long term result.

Why do I hate my brother so much?

I have the same problem. Its gotten to the point where he makes comments like, you will regret treating me like this for the rest of your life and its not fair that you treat me like this. The only thing I do is give one word answers and not really respond. My reasons for acting the way I do started in middle school. He would steal my mothers quarters and silver change to get sodas at school and blame me for the missing change, I had no proof that I could use to prove my innocence so I let it go……. this happened at least twice that I can remember. Literally 10 years later I learned that he was coming into my room at night and stealing my debit card. This freak would withdraw money from ATMs and put my debit card back in the morning. He stole at least 300 that I have found so far. Apparently he made a bad investment, he also sold the Wii among other things. When I try to talk to my mom about this she defends him. Now its 2 years later, he goes to work and comes home to smoke weed. He leaves his laundry on the floor in the bathroom instead of using the hamper which is right next to the washer, he does not do any chores, he thinks cleaning up the kitchen means putting everything in the sink and waiting for it to magically disappear. I can no longer talk to my mother about this problem because she will say he does what I tell him to (when pigs fly) and I don’t want to talk about this anymore. The frustration has built up inside me sing I was 12 (Im 26 now) Im not sure what do do about this now. All I can say is that I have no love for this pot head residing in the room next door. All the advice I can give to you is to:A. Talk to your parents in a very adult manner, give them a impression for concernB. Get therapy (Its all I got right now)

What should you do if you literally hate one of your brothers?

Shun him.  Don’t speak to him.  Don’t say anything to him or even look at him when he’s around, even if he’s trying to get your attention.  Ignore him, like he’s a bad dream.  You wrote it yourself:  have absolutely nothing to do with him.  He has other siblings; it’s their turn to take your place.And when possible, leave and be with your friends or stay in your room, alone, with the door locked, headphones firmly in place.Some people really like kids (your parents), and some can’t stand them (like you with this one), and it’s okay.If you get called out for shunning this brother, remind your parents of what always happens when you DO pay any attention to him.  Maybe your folks will get a clue.And there’s this possibility for family peace:  Suggest that you, the detested brother and your parents have a conversation at home.  A peaceful talk about all this crap, with each of you getting to have a say.  Just the 4 of you, because that’s the trouble zone.Good luck.  I hope you’re making plans for when you move out, and it might be time for you to get a job, if you don’t already have one.  This will take you away from home for hours at a time, and, you’ll earn money!  YAY.

My brother is so annoying. What should I do?

I get it. I have two siblings, a brother and a sister. My sister is sixteen months younger than me, and my brother is five years younger.When I was younger, my sister and I always fought, and my parents would tell us, “Stop arguing with your sister. She’s your best friend. Your other friends will come and go, but your sister will always be there.”Since then, we’ve moved three times, I’ve gone through three sets of friends, and we’ve both matured. My parents were right. We still fight all the time, but she’s still my best friend.Not exaggerating at all. You know those “Best Friend” charms that connect together? Yeah, we have heart shaped “Big Sister/Lil Sister” necklaces, and we both wear them a lot.Now, little brother is annoying. He’s the youngest, and it shows. That little twerp can get away with anything, even stuff that would get my sister and me grounded at that age. He’s always singing, tapping, clicking, and generally making a nuisance of himself. That boy makes me angrier than almost anyone else. Right now, he’s watching a loud TV show maybe ten feet from where I’ve been struggling through a mess of homework. But he’s also a cute little kid half-asleep, in a fluffy robe, on the couch. If I was in a bad mood, I know he’d give me hugs. He’s my brother, and I love him. Doesn’t mean I don’t hope that he’ll grow the flip up, and soon.He’s your brother. Remember that.