I feel like my friends don't care about me? Why?
You feel like your friends do not care about you because you are a caring person. If you did nit care about your friends, you would not care. I don't know how old you are, but your age determines how much you care about how people care about you. We are all born with different personalities. Some people do well with only a handful of people and are comfortable strengthening those relationships, sometimes for a lifetime. Some friends you make are more outgoing, are happy mixing with dozen people at a time and immediately forget them when they walk,away. Those are the friends you should not worry about, they are bored by being in the company of people for too long. They care, but only for the time they are with you. If you find d a friend who will stick with you, great for you. However if you only mix with the flighty ones, find other things to focus on when these friends get busy. Understand that they find their fulfilment in being more diverse, you care about everyone, but you might like to keep it low and consistent.
My friends don't like my boyfriend?
My boyfriend isn't exactly someone who many people would date, but i beleive i am in love with him. He's everything to me, but my friends are always buggung me about it telling me i'm not desperate. plus people always come up to me and say "you could do SO much better, girl" or "......please tell me those rumors about you and him are wrong!" I'm not sure what to do. he said he would change anything for me, but i personally would NEVER want him to change. Can someone tell me what to do with these people at my school????
What should I do, as my most of my friends don't give any importance to me? I am feeling shattered and alone.
If any of friends don't give importance to you, it is because they are convinced that either you don't give as much importance to yourself as they do to themselves or there is nothing much in you for them to get attracted to. Bees look for honey, so what is your Honey for them? don't fake to impress your friends, get real, become truely smart, charming, assertive, expressive and caring. Weed out fake friends, do not give into peer pressure, honor self and hold the ground, don't go behind to make friends, rather attract them based on who you are, all need not be your friends, but stick to hour true friends, love them, respect them, help them, forgive them, say thanks to them quite often and have a good time with them. If you have no friend to start with, there is one to begin with, yourself, that starts showing and make others to notice whether you friendshipl worthy for them. So keep playing your game better and better, friends will come to you, both wanted and unwanted, pick and choose, never sell your soul.
My friends don't like my girlfriend?
You will have a much happier life if you learn to choose your girlfriends based on who you like instead of who your friends like. You must be already halfway there (even though you are only 13) because you had the guts to go out with this girl in spite of your friends opinions. =) Stick with your gut feeling and don't worry about people finding out. If anyone makes fun of you, just say (sarcastically) "yeah, it's a good thing you don't have to go out with her, I look really unhappy, don't I?" Believe me, your friends are jealous that a girl likes you and if they don't support you, it is just because they are trying to feel better about themselves. (later) - O.K., so they don't know yet, but you just said they don't like girls at all? So how could they like her? In my experience, at that age, there was one or maybe two girls that the boys felt were "acceptable," it wasn't based on any real standards of beauty or niceness, it was just that one of them had Farrah Fawcett hair (think hot, like Jessica Biel) and one of them had just moved to our school from California. The real point is - you like her, stay grown up about it, and be her friend. I'm sorry if your parents teasing you bothers you, you know they just love you and that is one of the way they show it. They probably don't realize how much you are growing up, and don't think you would be upset. I guess if you can't handle the pressure, tell your girlfriend to forget it, and just be friends. There will be other girls in your life, and dating is supposed be fun. Good luck with whatever you decide.
My friends don't like my boyfriend. What should I do?
Thanks for the A2AThe short answer is: If they don't like him, hang out with them when he's not there.The long answer is: If more than one friend doesn't like someone you are with, there is probably a reason. What are you telling them about him? Has he done something in the past to make them dislike him (whether or not he was with you at the time). Does he do things your other friends don't, (like drinking/drugging/sex/etc.)It's also possible that your friends are better able to see if you are in a toxic relationship, or if there is something that makes them suspicious of his intent, or behavior.The first reaction many people have (including myself) is to think they can figure things out on their own, if they just try hard enough. But sometimes, we are too close to recognize there's a problem.If it's a matter of mixing cultures or religions, your friends have the right to dislike him, but not disrespect him to you. If they don't want to hang around with you two, hang with them separately.If they are giving you solid reasons (and if this guy is JUST on the Internet, they are probably correct in their opinions) advice or concerns, LISTEN to them. You don't have to agree, but allow them the respect of listening to their concerns. In fact, you can invite them to share their concerns with you. Once you know what they are, you can research or re-evaluate and determine if they have the slightest amount of indication that something "might" be wrong.Sometimes, it takes us years to figure things out for ourselves what others have been trying to tell us all alone.In fact, when my kids ask for advice and don't follow it, and then they do it "their" way, which ends up having to do it, "my way," I will lovingly force them to say the three words which a Mother loves to hear, "You Were Right."
What should I do if my friends don't treat me as an equal?
How to make others like youOh that’s simple Sambhavi! Be superior frm them! Dear friends are nt those who are beheave like this. So dont give importance to them. If u give importance to wromg persons then u ll be definitely suffer. Life is so big and u ll get gd frnds in future definitely. And I strongly suggest u to avoid these kind of friends. Make new and gd friends. First boost ur self esteem dear. It is gd to be alone rather than to make friendship with these kind of persons.U knw I hd faced this kind of situation and I hv lived almost 3 yrs with no social connections. Bt now I m definitely superior frm those persons and now people are connecting with me automatically. Even they also come to me with put their heads down. You can read my real life story for motivation. I guess u r in teen or under 20. It is the right time to learn hw to identify right and wrong friends bcz if once u ll be friend with wrong persons then trust me it ll harm u a lot. It may possible that u cnt understand now bt Shambhavi, I m an expert of life and if I m suggesting u then it is for ur better life. U cn sacrifise few yrs and live without frnds if u dont get good ones right now. I could give u more ideas bt it is the best for ur gd life. Hv a gd day.
My friends don't ever invite me anywhere?
I'm 17 and my friends are the same age. My friends don't ever invite me anywhere. Whenever we do hang out (rarely) it's just me making the plans. I was gonna go see Captain America with my friend but my other friend couldn't come because he was working. Haven't heard anything about the movie ever since, although that friend went with some of my other friends to see Warcraft and Conjuring 2. I wasn't invited. I always go on Snapchat and see their snapchat stories of them hanging out and it really hurts my feelings. Why don't they ever invite me anywhere? Why am I left out? It's been this way for a while. The only time they ever text me is when they have to ask me a question about something they need help with. They don't ever text me and just ask me how I am or anything What do I do? I'm tired of this.