My mind is telling me to leave him but my heart is telling me to stay?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, on and off. We have currently been back together for about 6 months. It's a long distance relationship. I love him very, very much, but I can't take the fighting and the jealousy. In the past year or so, he has become very co-dependent and isn't happy with himself. So, every time I talk to him, he is not in a good mood, he wants to talk for hours, he cries, etc. I honestly don't know how much longer I can take it anymore. I have recently become attracted to someone else...I'm in the worst position because i LOVE my boyfriend, but I'm not sure what to do. If I'm attracted to someone else, and I avoid talking to him because of fighting, etc, should I leave him? It hurts me so much to think about leaving him and hurting him but my mind says to do it. Which one do I listen to?
My heart is telling me YES, my mind is telling me NO?
So I've liked this guy for a long time.some people tell me to keep trying others tell me to just stop.I know people always say follow your heart but how can I fellow my heart when my mind is telling me no.me n this guy are close friends,he knows how I feel,his the only guy I want.In fact his the only guy I find interest in my.But at the same time if I were to meet someone n they were sweet n we had a connection I would date them.like I open to meeting new guys n giving them a chance but Im stuck on him.Do you think I should cut him from my life and be done with him (Listen to my mind) or go with the flow wait tell he makes a move or until someone else I'm interested comes along (Listen to my Heart)
To what we should listen ..Heart or Mind??
Sometimes the little head has better advice than the big one.
What should I do when mind says move on and heart says hold on?
It's better to move. Because when u listen to your heart it'll always put you into emotional problems which are even more worse. And holding on will always cause pain which only heart has to go through. So its better to listen and follow what our mind says and move on. There's lot of things we need to achieve it's not about staying on an single issue and Wasting our lifetime..!
What should we do when heart says one and mind says another?
Hi :)This is a feeling all us go through at one point of time in LIFE.What you need to understand is the priority of the issue that your HEART and MIND are fighting against.Lets take a simple example .Lets say you have to study for a test but you have to go to the MALL because the SALE ENDS today . Which one would you pick ? it Depends on certain factors right ?>When is the exam ? Is it tomorrow ? —- If it a week later then you have time to go the MALL today if not you have to prioritize.These certain factors are what determine your decision . BUT remember , there SHOULD BE NO REGRETS once you take the decision.You need to understand that the battle between the heart and the mind depends on the situation you are in and how it will effect you .> Your mind will think rationally. Your mind will automatically do a calculation on what might be the best solution.Example : You see two T-shirts in the MALL and you want them both. But you have to pick only one? Which one ?MIND: Pick the red one because it isCheapDurableGood BrandHEART : Pick the Blue oneBecause your Girlfriend’s favorite color is BLUE. You can wear it for her birthday .Who cares about the price , money will go today and come tomorrowYou live only once.See the difference? Now in this example some people would prefer Red and others would prefer Blue . But its not the heart or the mind , its finally WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY . HOW IT EFFECTS YOU is what matters.Note that this is just a simple example , there might be other hard decisions you will have to make in your life , and sometimes you HAVE TO go with your mind AND SOMETIMES you’ll know YOUR HEART IS right !Experience will teach you this :) Remember , never regret a decision . So take time to think :)I Hope this helps :) I hope you take the right decision ! (Don’t kill me if you don’t :P)
What does it mean "mind says one thing" but "heart says another thing"?
First of all I love you.It means quite what it says. For many people their minds and their hearts are in conflict. I think if you pause and reflect for a moment you could identify serveral instances of this occurring inside you today.For example, yesterday was “Black Friday” and somehow I found myself in Target looking at a $200 electric scooter on sale for a mere $89.Heart spoke first: Wow that’s cool! And what a price! I could ride that to the beach in the mornings! Should I get it?Mind: No, absolutely not. I mean how could I? Why do I need, let alone deserve, such a thing? I’m a grown man after all.Heart: Well I could buy it for Timmy (6) and just use it in the morning.Mind: Am I kidding? Cassidy (my wife) would kill me if I gave that to Timmy. It says it goes 10 MPH!Heart: Ok that was a bad idea but I’m going to get it for me then, I’ll never get that price again.Mind: Jeez! Here we go again. When will I grow up? There is no way a 41 year old needs a toy.Heart: Whatever. I’m getting it.Now I have a jealous son, a confused wife, a smaller bank account, a scooter, and a smile every morning when I ride to the beach like a boss.Now that wasn’t really a conflict between mind and heart, that was more like friendly banter. Conflict would be more like when a woman in an abusive relationship wants to leave her situation (heart) but fears the consequences (mind).What is most interesting to me, however, is not the back and forth between heart and mind, but to ask the question, “Who is watching the conversation between the heart and mind?”Blessings?
What is that song that goes "my mind is telling me no but my bodys telling me yes"?
"Bump N Grind" R. Kelly
My heart says text her, but my mind says let her text first. Which do I listen to?
If you text her, you think more from the heart. You are compassionate. If you let her text first, you are emotionally intelligent.If you text her, you care about losing her and like her a lot. If you let her text first, you want to build a long term relationship with her without giving up.If you text her, she might be glad that you caved it. If you let her text first, she might have already thought that you are strong minded and may like you even more.If you text her, she might not even reply and play hard to get. If you let her text her first, well.. She may not text you at all! Someone else might have texted her already!If you text her, you may get along with your life and stop thinking about it, irrespective of the consequence. If you let her text first, till that time, you waste your time looking at the cell phone, feeling miserable.If you text her, you open up the potential to of having a sweet relationship with her. If you let her text first, you open up the potential of her having a sweet relationship with someone else.Did I make it difficult for you? It’s your call . . .