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What To Do With A New Friend

How do I make new friends?

1. Spend more time around people. If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out there somehow in order to meet people. Friends seldom come knocking on your door while you sit at home playing computer games.

2. Compliment people's clothes, hair, eyes, etc

3. Join an organization with people who have common interests. You don't necessarily need to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make friends with them. In fact, some of the most rewarding friendships are between two people who don't have much in common at all, but if you like a specific topic, try searching for just a location. It's a great way to meet new local people! Social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter and Google+ are great way to meet new people and learn more about the people you meet. A church, synagogue, or other house of worship is a great place to start since you have at least have a religious faith in common.

4. Join a sports team. A common misconception about this is that you have to be really good at playing a particular sport in order to make friends with others on the team, but not all teams are so competitive. As long as you enjoy the sport and support your teammates, joining a local team with a laid-back attitude could be a great way to make new friends. But a sports team isn't the only way. If you play instruments or sing, try joining a band or choir.

5. Volunteer. Volunteering is a great way for people of all ages to meet others. By working together you build bonds with people, and you might meet others who have a passion for changing things the way you do (a common cause).

6. Talk to people. You can join a club, go to school, or go to church but you still won't make friends if you don't actually talk to people. By the same token, you don't have to be involved with an organization to be social, and any time you talk to someone, you have a chance at making a lasting friend. You can talk to anybody: the clerk at the video store, the person sitting next to you on the bus, or the person in front of you in the lunch line. Don't be too picky. Most conversations will be a dead-end of sorts, when you may never talk to that person again, or you just remain acquaintances--but once in a while you'll actually make a friend.

Good luck!

How do you make friends in a new city?

Think about the things you like doing. Join groups that do those things. Make a project out of making friends - start with simple steps like "today I'm going to talk to five people I don't know." Just have conversations. The more activities you take up (within reason, obviously) the more likely you are to meet people you like. Good luck.

How do I make new friends in a new city?

One way to combat loneliness and to make friends in a new place is to, well, start your own party! If you throw a party someplace you’re bound to make all kinds of new friends. Plus, you get to be in control of all the variables so it will be easier to meet people when you are the host for this fabulous event that everybody has come to. Maybe you organize an after work social hour at your place or you invite a bunch of people you vaguely know but aren’t really friends with out to dinner. Either way, taking that initial first step will go a long way. All kinds of people go to coffee shops — students, professionals, artists, business owners, etc. Coffee shops usually attract a pretty diverse crowd, and it’s relatively easy to ask a person what they are doing, especially if what they are doing is something you’re interested in. When you roll into a social event, happy hour or whatever it is, always say that you just moved here. That’s always a great ice-breaker/door opener, because people will ask where you came from, what you do now, etc, and they will key you into all of the fun, amazing things there are to do around town. Some people are really nice that way.

I need new friends...?

So I love my friends and all but sometimes they do things that piss me off. Today my best friend asked my other 2 friends if they wanted to go over her house right in front of me..umm..? There's no way that she didn't realize, no way. And she's done this before. They all went out to lunch after a test and were talking about it in front of me. I know I can be a little sensitive and that's why it bothers me even more. I feel like me and my best friend are drifting and she's becoming really close with another one of my good friends (one of which she asked over) and then when I saw them later tonight they were telling me a story that happened and I just feel like it's so rude and just ugh. The four of us are really good friends, like a little group, and I just don't understand. I have a lot of friends but they're more of just acquaintances, they're my only true best friends and they kinda suck sometimes but I feel like if I loose them I'll have nothing. Life is awesome. I honestly wish I could just find some new friends sometimes

How do I find new friends?

Dear anon, please accept this digital hug! *hugs* Friendship can be tough and it looks that you're getting the short end of the stick here. Being nice is great and all, but never let anyone, especially your own friends, push you around. They should be your pillar of support, not aggressors that make you feel bad about yourself. Maybe your friends think it's funny to constantly put you down and make fun of you but it seems that this is no longer an act of affection or familiarity for you. Bravo for standing up for yourself and taking the initiative to distant yourself away from them! Take this time to reaccess your priorities and what you want/what you can give in future friendships. Remember to stay calm and collected, and don't let your emotions get ahead you. Most of all, don't rush into new friendships. There's no hard and fast rules except for keeping an open mind and putting yourself out there. Thanks for the a2a and good luck!If you'll like to read what I've responded in similar questions, see Serena Van Halen's answer to How do I make real, genuine friends? and Serena Van Halen's answer to How do I get over a friendship which broke recently?

How to meet/make new friends.?

This is completely normal. I remember in high school I had heaps of friends but when I went to college, everyone went to different courses and it all sucked because I drifted apart from my old friends and now I kinda feel awkwrad around some of them, which is sad. But I managed to find new friends in college.

But you need to ask yourself - are ALL the people in your course like that? Obviously you sound like you don't like thos ekind of things, but surely not EVEryONE in your course is like that? Have you tried makin friends with the other people that aren't involved in such things?
Also - how do oyou know they despise you? It's quite a silly thing to "despise" over, I think it's just in your head.
I'm sorry to hear of your situation; but I think, the only way is to just go for it. You say youre attending clubs and socieites that got scrapped, then join others. Take up a new sport that you're not familiar with, start music or something. Sit next to new people in lectures and ask them questions. Sometimes it's also good to be blatantly honest and say - -look, I come from a different place where I left all my friends and it's tough meeting new people.

Another idea is to make yourself look ore presentatble. I know that sounds weird, but make people attracted to you. Not in the sense of girlfriend/boyfriend, but like, have a good attire, look good, and remember to smile. It sounds silly, but it goes a long way.

I know it's hard to "cut through" when there's many groups already, but you need to try. Or else, look for other people like yourself.

Good luck.

How do I text new friends?

I ALWAYS FIND IT A BALANCING ACT WITH NEW FRIENDS!On one hand, you want to show interest in them and want to express interest on getting to know them better.On the other hand you want to not seem overbearing or needy.From my own experiences here is what has worked:Ask them what they are up to this weekend/day. People will feel guilty if they are doing things with friends and not inviting you. So by simply asking you may get an invite to go hang out. From there, just be chill and cool when you hang out and you should be fineBe selfless: Don’t talk about yourself but show interest in others.Dont overdo it! Know when a conversation comes to an end and stop texting there. No one likes to hang out with needy peopleAnd lastly be yourself. Don’t be fake to just make friends. Be who you are and if you were meant to be friends with them then good things will happen. If not, then you’ll just make friends other places : )Hope this helps ya!

Do you like making new friends and why?

Yes! Making new friends is what I'm expert at without any training.Making new friends is one thing. Continuing the friendship is another. Every person is bound to have problems in life since that's what life is all about. When everything goes fine in life, that's a caution for you to check where you're going wrong because we mostly fail in the first attempt. Failure brings sadness. There are several ways overcome this sadness. The first way is to stay focused and determined. The other way is to make new friends and distract yourself from the sadness. As we grow our circle of friends, we tend to learn a lot of things as the areas of interest of people will differ from that of yours. It opens all the doors for gaining knowledge on things you dont know. It can so happen that you meet a new friend whose areas of interest match with that of yours. This will help to open up and speak our hearts out about our favorite field of interest, by which we get to know hacks which we were unaware of.Friends unknowingly help us to forget what we consider is sadness. Friends are like lifelines unless you choose the wrong ones. Making friends is always beneficial because the benefit is mutual. It can so happen that your new friend can some how help you get away with your problem. When you befriend a wrong person, that still is a benefit because it helps you understand people better and you learn a lesson for life.Socializing and making new friends always helps. It's never a good thing to simply push days and pass time. Monotonous lifestyle needs a break and infact, needs a complete full stop. HOW? Make new friends. Interact, respond, explore and benefit.Don't forget to upvote and drop a comment if you like my answer.Cheers mate! :)

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