My friend can't come to birthday party!?
I am having a birthday party. I am taking three of my friends out to dinner. Btw these are my three bestest friends. So two of my friends can come but one of them cant. I would really like all of them to be there but idk. This is my birthday party and I shouldn't have to rearrange to accommodate her plans. But the other hand, this is a big birthday. I am turning thirteen. Am I being mean or am I right? If I say it is this weekend and if u cant come I'm sorry, is that the right way to say it or should I put it in another nicer way? Please answer.
None of my "friends" showed up for my 18th birthday party. What should I do to them?
Nothing. How well are these people friends? If it was myself i would slowly separate yourself from them. Why didn't they come? I would also not go to any of their parties. Sounds like they aren't interested in being a friend. Don't worry about it's not a perfect world. You will make real friends in the future.I made a friend in a part job we each had, she was working full time plus this job. We have been friends for 38 years. Every time we moved my husband sent her a plane ticket to visit. Every birthday and every Christmas we each sent gifts to each other. I never cared for a bunch of friends. I have been very happy with just one friend. I have family and my dog. I am very happy this way.I learned growing up a similar thing. In high school I said I would work on a float with 2 other girls. I was supposed to go to one girls house, so after school I went there. Her mother said they weren't coming but I would help design something, can't remember much. The next day I said nothing and never looked at them again. I have learned who I want in my life and negative people have no place.When my son was in grade school he took invitations to his birthday party and gave to “friends", maybe they forgot to give to their parents. You know it was so sad for my son. Not one person showed up. One parent called me afterwards, said she was sorry but also knew that no one else went. Sounds like they talked it over. And decided not to come. But when he went to high school he really didn't see anyone from grade school. He made different friends!So life is short, make the best of it, and be happy with people you want in your life!
My friends having her party on my birthday?
hey, well i just got an invitation from my friend, saying her birthday party will be on my birthday :( (we're born a week apart) and im really upset, not only did she forget my birthday, but shes celebrating hers on my special day. im really upset, because i was planning my 13th on that day, but all my friends will go to hers (since she invited them first). I know she didnt do it on purpose (that makes it even worse that she forgot) my 13th is supposed to be the party ill remember the most but its going to be bad :( i dont want to celebrate her on my birthday, and i dont want to tell her now because she'll feel awful, and she cant cancel it. what should i do? thanks
Should I invite my ex best friend to my birthday party?
You are the only person who can answer this question. Do you want to stay friends with her? Do you want to show her that she matters to you? If you invite her, even if she doesn't come, it keeps the door open for further contact. You might just need some space away from each other for now, but if you want to keep her in your life, you do need to demonstrate a little interest. If you don't invite her she could interpret this as a signal that you no longer see her as a friend. It's your call.
How do I tell my friend I don't want to go to her birthday party?
There are three types of friendships.Casual friendships,Good friends, andNot meant to be friends.If you relationship with the birthday friend is casual. No big deal. Go if you can. If you have a conflict, explain the issue and move on.If your relationship falls into category 3, this is a bit more complicated. No reason to openly show your dislike of this person. You can decline and make a non-specified excuse. “I have a prior commitment.” You don’t need to explain that commitment is eating pizza on your sofa while bing watching WestWorld. You don’t get along with this person, so feigning that you like being around them is not necessary. After a number of “no thanks” they will get the clue. Even if they find that your excuses are not convincing, what’s the worst that can happen?Them: “It’s like you make up these excuses because you don’t want to hang out with me?”You: “Um, you might be on to something there.”The important one is #2.Making friends is easy. Making and keeping good friends is rare.The journey from friend to good friend is tempered with trials and conflict. Whenever you care about another and spend enough time together, fights are inevitable. Jealousy, hurt feelings, inconsiderate behavior, miscommunication, unreturned favors, “MISSED BIRTHDAYS” are among the various intentional and unintentional interactions that test a relationship.There is not one lifelong friendship I maintain that hasn’t experienced a massive fight at one point. Sometimes the reconciliation is quick. Other times it takes time and effort to rebuilt the relationship. It’s work, but valuable and rewarding work.You use the word “my” in front of friend which is telling. There seems to be a current falling out with this friend. If you are not ready to get into the emotional and time-consuming process of airing your grievances now, you can excuse yourself from this birthday party. The important question is are you ready for this relationship to slip from #2 to #3?If you wish to hold on and give the relationship another chance, you will eventually need to confront your friend and talk it out. Quora must have a good question for that situation. Good luck.
Wasn't invited to my good friends birthday party?
we have been friends for 15 years *we are 19* well I bought her a gift I was so excited to give it to her. I ordered it special because I knew how much she liked it. Anyway, she didn't even invite me to the birthday night she had. Almost all her other friends went. She told me she would tell if she was doing something, but she never did. Should I even give her the gift? Oh and she never buys me gifts. I bought her a christmas, gift she got me zip. Same with my birthday. Has been that way for almost 3 years. I wished her a happy birthday and she never responded.
How should I uninvite my ex-friend to my birthday party?
It might help with better responses if you say why you two aren't speaking anymore. Why did you start fighting? It's hard to give a real opinion otherwise. If it's your fault then I highly doubt she'd want to celebrate your birthday right now anyway, and I'm not sure why you think she'd want to show up! If it's something she did that caused the trouble, then be the bigger person and talk to her calmly saying that you think it would be best if she didn't come to your party. Don't be rude to her, whether you think you can or not. It doesn't make you look good. It would make you look like a nasty little child who has nothing better to do than bully people to make yourself look big in front of others. Shame on anyone who does this. Please share the details of what happened, then it's easier to see the correct way to handle this.