What are you 100% sure you saw, but nobody believes you?
Not sure if anyone believes me but I know what I saw. When I was 3 or 4 I woke up from a nightmare, don't remember what the dream was about but it scared me enough to run to my parent's bedroom. As I ran across my bedroom I saw a green glowing hand reach out from the floor and try to grab my foot. That's it.Never saw anything freaky after that until my wife and I moved into our first house. It was an older neighborhood, built in the 40s. Maybe someone died there. I don't know. All I know is for the six years I lived there I would wake up in the middle of the night and see things. Sometimes it was a face floating above me or a human-like body crawling on the ceiling. As I became more awake the vision would clear but sometimes I was awake enough to tell my wife what I saw. One time I awoke to see a small girl standing by the side of the bed. I sat up and told it to go away. My wife woke up and asked what I was doing. I said, "don't you see her? She's RIGHT THERE!" Well, this freaked my wife out pretty good. As I kept looking one girl became two, one standing in front of the other. One looked to be around 6 years old and the other 4. The little one was pointing her little finger at me and looked to be scolding me.That was the most lucid I had ever been during one of my "visions". Here is the weird thing. Every time I woke to see something in the room I would look at my clock and it would always be a minute or two past midnight, unless it was daylight savings. Then it would be 1 am.
What should I do if nobody believes in me?
What should I do if nobody believes in me?First, find something and someone to believe in outside of yourself. Find ways to believe in yourself in conjunction.I once believed in myself. I once did not believe in myself. I once had those disbelieve me. I once had sufficient people believe in me.Probably someone believes in you somewhere somehow but it's not sufficient for you. Why. Find out and define how.Many who may tell you to just believe in yourself may have read too many self help books or may have not been tested by divergent situations, and describe a simplistic way that belief systems work. It's a bit of a mystery they make.The reason why people (Ghandi, MLK, Mandela) who have been through extreme lifelong tests can say things like “believe in yourself” is because they spend their whole lives illustrating how.When other people say it and don't explain it, just say thanks but understand you'll have to look deeper.
What do you do when no one believes in you?
I think there are 3 relevant responses here:1) "Believe in yourself, no matter what" isn't a bad framework, even if you are occasionally deluding yourself. (Caution: Can also lead to unhappiness, frustration, loss of relationships, death, destruction if you are wrong or you apply this rule without the other two.)2) Find people you trust / respect / like to give you realistic feedback, and nurture those relationships in good times and in bad. Sometimes they won't tell you what you want to hear; other times they will give you wrong information. Up to you to figure it out.3) Identify observable and objective metrics useful to assess whether you or other people are full of shit. Note that just because you think they are unbiased doesn't mean they are. Again, up to you to figure it out.#1 is useful in order to remain motivated, focused, and happy in the face of other negative feedback. Careful if you use it to rationalize the real situation, although that can also be useful in the short-term, but don't rationalize your response to long-term scenarios with similar outcomes.#2 is useful to get feedback from people, even if it's not the feedback you want. I suggest you choose these folks more for accuracy than likeability, but still it's helpful to find people you like -- just don't only like people who kiss your ass.#3 is useful in order to balance biased feedback from yourself and your friends. But note that still doesn't mean it isn't biased -- you could just be choosing shitty objective metrics.Take all 3 together and you should have a good framework for dealing with negative external conditions and/or opinions.
Why does nobody believe im a virgin?
Im 18 and every time the topic of sex or anything comes up im not ashamed to admit im a virgin. But NOBODY believes me, not even my best friends. Im not saying i've never messed around with the guys i've dated but never sex. I always get i don't "look like a virgin" which i don't understand. I don't dress "slutty" or anything. Why is it that everybody thinks im lying?
What would you do if you were being abused and nobody believed you?
I developed a crushing lack of self-esteem, crippling depression and an inability to truly trust others. Childhood abuse breaks you in ways I’m not sure can be fully repaired. Being called a liar throughout that time completely broke me of any hope to function as a healthily-trusting, well-adjusted person.This experience made me what others call gullible. It’s kind of like an over-compensation for not being believed myself. So the whole thing just messed up my perspective of how we communicate.I’ve resigned myself to understanding that disbelief and dishonesty are common denominators in our society. I realized it wasn’t a personal attack, just the cold reality of our culture.A child with tales of rape and violence?Immediately dismissed.Yet it is children who are beaten and raped by the millions everyday. All of these people broken because someone saw them as an easy target. Because they knew no one would believe them.I’d rather be made a fool of by a liar than ignore one child saying they’ve been hurt.
When was a time you told the truth but nobody believed you?
When the lab assistant caught me of using mobile in lab and the HOD told me to let my dad call her to talk about me ,my Department HOD told my dad that i showed her attitude but i did'nt do it because she seemed too strict that my pleadings with her was never gonna help and she got irritated because i said ok as polite as i can and walked out, additionally she also said that i have done this attitude thing before to 2 or 3 of my staffs which in this case i never interacted with my staffs because they were all the same doing politics in the department and so i always had myself off before them . My dad believed her because guru don't lie and yelled at me like anything refusing to accept what actually happened and i got into depression and all the chaos started on.I still have no idea why that lady framed me into something like this.I understood one thing,Judging must be done in the right way even if you are at higher position you can't just blabber something to fill in the convo and create chaos in other's life.
In my dreams, nobody ever believes me?
I've had weird dreams through all my life, but the ones that stay the most fresh are the ones when no one sees me or believe me. I have a few examples. 1. In one of my dreams, I could fly and I was telling and showing people I could do so, but they always said I was lying, even though evidence was there, in front of their eyes. 2. I had a dream where I knew someone was a murderer, but no one, not even my family believed me when I told them. They kept believing the murderer's lies and they died after, as he shot them before my eyes. The worst part was not even that, but it kept rewinding before the event and I always desperately tried to find a way to avoid it, but in the end, it was always the same. I felt useless. 3. In many dreams I keep being abandoned, and it's mostly as a child (not always). While in real life, I would feel panic and intense fear, in my dreams I'm able to cope with it and resolve problems by myself. 4. In some dreams, when nobody believed in me anymore, I would still save their lives, but get no recognition at all. I was always the misunderstood hero, somehow. For personal details, I suffered bullying in my childhood and even though my family was there for me, it was like they weren't. They all had too much problems to worry about that, and I would never dare telling them the truth, being ashamed. I don't know, but perhaps it has to do with it?
Nobody believes in me, not even my parents.?
Well... This is kinda my story... About a year ago I was very depressed. By everything, everything was wrong and it felt like I couldn't do anything right. Summer 2008 I was the happiest person alive because I had a dream and I believed in myself that I will be one day, the person I have dreamed almost my whole childhood. That was my true happiness, it all made me happy and I could beat the world! Damn that were good moments. But since school started the popularity made me nervous and I started to waste my time in that piece of crap. I had made new 'friends' but they didn't made me happy and so. Then my depression started again... I felt all left alone, even by my father. My mom past away a few years ago. And my dad, he's the most closest person to my heart and I couldn't live without him. - Now I go to school in a normal class with very very friendly kids (I switched from classes) and I'm happy about it 'n all... So now I have time to rest and think about my mental health. I wanted to dream again because I was actually so stupid to forgot how to dream! Life was a waste of time because I hadn't a good reason to live for. But now, I want to believe and I'm willing. And I'm only thinking about for days and days and I get all crazy in my head. I want to be a great actress and some day, I want to be a great Hip-Hop dancer cause art was my first love (first drawing, designing than acting and dancing). But how the heck am I going to start if no one believes in me and that doesn't motivates me to believe in my self. This is a true life-dream, I have been dreaming this since I was little! I hope I made my question kinda clear, It has been a difficult time... Help is very appreciated! Love you!!!