Should my best friend ask my crush if he likes me? plz HELP!!?
I say yes. Go for it! I'm sure you want to know! Here is what you can do after each given reponse: He says "yes": Now that you know he like you, give him hints. Be a little more flirty. Give him hints. Giggle at all of his jokes, when your with your friends and he walks by, smile at him, look away, then catch his eyes again. I know this next one seems weird, but when you walk by him, gently brush his arms. And if he looks at you afterwards, smile. He says "No": Girl, if he says no, you know hes not worth it. Don't waste your time on him! I'm sure you deserver better than him if he says no(: He says "idk": He means "yes" so follow the steps on yes! P.S. There is a very big chance of his nerves getting the best of him, and him telling your friends no because he knows they'll tell you. Maybe have one of your friends ask one of his closest friends. Odds are, he'll tell the truth to them! Hope I helped! Feel free to e-mail me!(: -Eilis please answer mine! i could use a girls opinion! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoJbQU41hcJpGjie4c5HSKDty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110522095130AA9E9QT
Do girls like it when you just go straight up and ask them out after talking to them a couple of times?
There's this girl i like in the year above, she's 17 im 16, if i've spoken to her 2 times and bumped into her a couple as well and said Hi and so far received positive signs (not sexual but just friendship wise). If I went straight up and asked her would girls prefer getting that rather than getting to know someone a lot more and then getting asked out. (im not fat or ugly, just average)
Is it better to ask out a girl by saying "we should go out together sometime" instead of saying "will you go out with me"?
Neither. Do not approach a woman from a position of weakness begging her to honor you with her attention - that sends the signal that you are of lesser worth. Instead approach from a position of parity, honesty and genuineness. Tell her what qualities of hers that you find attractive and specifically WHY you find them attractive - most probably because they relate to some quality of yourself - so use that as a way to tell her a little bit about yourself. This should spark a small bit of conversation. Something like “I see you’re reading ‘Moby Dick’…I’ll bet you’re a literature major at [nearby university]. Do you have aspirations of correcting this generations improper use of contractions? Please say yes! I have to say that I’m a big fan of English Lit myself and honestly I’m a real sucker for intelligent women and I’ve always had a thing for English majors…sadly it has not worked out in my favor.”Follow this with an invitation to meet up sometime. This can either be a concrete “Hey….there’s an ice skating place nearby - what’s say we go ice skating sometime? How’s next Thursday sound?” or it can be an open ended request for the phone number using a false time constraint. “Hey - I have to go but I think you look cute and you seem like a really cool person that I’d like to get to know. Another time I’d like to take you out. How do you spell your name?” while handing her your phone in “Add Contact” mode. If she wants to give you her number she’ll put it in. Regardless - in either situation do *NOT* immediately walk away. Stay for 1–2 more minutes and engage in chit-chat. If you immediately leave then you are sending the signal that you got what you wanted and are done with the transaction.
How do you react when a girl says yes after you ask her out?
Always keep your cool. She may be doubting her decision but giving you a chance. Don't do anything desperate like a "fist pump", cheer, or go running to tell your friends. Instead, give her a hug. Stay confident so she knows she made the right decision. Also, you should have plans for the next move. A real man knows how to lead.Have plans ready for an event like dinner, a show, handing out, etc.. Never say something like "so what do you want to do?". Instead something like "There a ___ concert playing on Saturday, would you like to join me?". Just stay true to your own personality when you plan.
How should I ask out the girl I really really like?
First, you've to choose a specific event to which you can invite her.Just a coffee or a drink is too vague; you'd better choose a specific thing where you both can talk. It does not have to seem a date.Avoid concerts and movies, because people cannot really talk in those occasions.You'd better choose something like an art happening, or anyway an event in which you guys can really talk. Obviously, it must be related to her preferences too. If she's into art, a visit to a museum or to an art happening would be great.Once you chose the event, you should go and ask her out.Timing is very important, you should ask it when you're waving her bye bye, minimizing the possibility to create embarrassment.Something like:She: "I've to go, see you next time!"You: "Sure, have a nice day. By the way, there's this art happening this Saturday afternoon. I know you like art, what about going to the event together?"She: "Mmmhhh... interesting, what is it?"You: "It's this and that and that and this [very specific information here]. I think you'll like it".She: "Oh, sounds nice! Yes perhaps we could go there".Then you ask her phone number... That's it. You might fail, but that's alright: failing is the best way to learn.To become excellent in something, all you need is practicing it.Always remember what Michael Jordan once said:This is very true also about girls.