Poll: Do you think my brother can see my porn history?
Okay, so no lie, I watch a lot of porn. I'm a teenage girl and I'm just curious. Better than having sex right? Anyway, I have my own laptop, but I live with my dad and older brother. I'm just a paranoid person, but I was just wondering if he could be spying on my computer history without being on my computer? Like is that possible? thanks
Brother Troubles?
My brother saw me making out with my boyfriend in the hallways. I am not allowed to date, but my brother is awesome and wont tell my parents. He told me that i shouldnt date him because he is a bad influence and stuff (my brother failed spanish with him). I don't know what to do. I really like him, but some part of me wants me to take my brother's advise. Help me out?
My brother lied about his age to join 24 hour fitness, WHAT NOW!?
The reason you probably have to be 18 is due to either their insurance policy or because it involves some type of credit agreement. As he is not old enough, i would imagine it would make the contract null and void and *should* entitle a refund (their contract terms likely cover for people changing their minds maybe 3 months later but he is legally not old enough to enter into the contract so their no refund term should be moot).
Does believing in lies make them true?
Thanks for the ATA.This is a great question and I hope it generates a lot of great conversations.My answer is no, believing a lie does not make it the truth. Believing a lie can make it reality in your life, but that is not the same thing as being the truth. Your story is a great example of this. Just because the brother thought he was going to die, his body started to believe it. As this demonstrates, it is entirely possible to think yourself into being sick- from a mental and spiritual position to effect the physical. There are many cases of people believing that they are paralyzed or incapable of speech even thought there is no physical damage restricting that activity- they simply do not believe that they can do the particular function. For them it is reality- but it is not the truth.I could absolutely believe that the Sun revolves around the Earth, but that belief does not effect you, the Earth or the Sun, nor does it make it the truth.The examples could pile up, but I will stop here. I hope this helps.
HELP!!!! pregnant with my brother in-law's baby!?
My husband was out of town and we were currently "fighting". I called his brother to come and give me advice on what to do. One thing led to another and now i am pregnant. However, my husband thinks the baby is his. What should I do? I really love my husband and I think we would make amazing parents. Do you think I should just keep it my secret?
Women, what are the three most off-putting qualities you find in men you are considering as people to date? What are the deal breakers, according to you?
1) Poor hygiene - There is nothing more off-putting than old sweat. It's true that fresh sweat can be sexy, but don't lie to yourself; if it's more than 20 minutes since you ran that mile, you stink like a bear. I know it seems basic, but there's a lot of people out there who seem to be perfectly intelligent yet still don't know: Wash your body. Brush your teeth. Wash your hair. Wash your clothes. Every. Single. Day. Well, every day that you leave the house or that you expect to get lucky, anyhow. 2) Being judgmental in a passive aggressive way - 'You know, your brother really drinks a lot. I'm just sayin' cause he gets kind of loud and it's not good for his reputation.' or 'Wow, you've really changed since that photo of you at 18. Do you think you'll ever get back to that weight again?' or 'It's nice that your mother comes to visit you so much, but do you think it's good for her to be so dependent on your company?' I don't care if you think my brother's a loud mouthed drunk or if you hope I'll lose some weight some day soon or if you feel like my mother being around cramps your style. Just be a grown up and say it straight out in a civil manner before it becomes such an issue for you that you yell at me about it. 3) Trying too hard to please - This is a Golden Oldie, one that never goes away and it's often mistaken for women 'not liking nice guys'. My mother tells of a boyfriend she had in the '50s with whom she played a lot of cards. When she was losing, he'd slip a winning card under the table to her. I remember when I was 15, I had this conversation with a guy I was going out with as we watched a music show: HIM: Hey, it's ABBA. They're great, huh? ME : Really? I hate ABBA. HIM: Yeah, no, I only like one or two of their songs. These are extreme examples, I know. But I see it all the time and it isn't being a nice guy; it's being a piece of plasticene. How can you have a relationship with Gumby? I certainly don't mean you should argue or disagree for the sake of it. But just be yourself, with opinions that you have come by via honest contemplation of your own values, and not reflections of me through which you want to manipulate me into thinking you're a nice guy. Maybe you are a nice guy - but agreeing with me all the time isn't a part of that equation.