Are males treated in an unfair way in India today? If yes, then why?
NOIndia statistics:Sex ratio: 940 women per 1000 menChild sex ratio: 914 girls per 1000 boysSchool dropout rate before 8th standard: National average 42%, girls dropout 64%93 women raped in India everyday70% women experience domestic violencePercentage of women in higher education is less than menMen employees are paid more than their female colleaguesPercentage of malnutrition is more in women than men There is no official data available on:How many men can cook?How many men clean their homes including toilet?How many fathers change diapers of their kids?How many men let their wives go on trip while they take care of home?How many women have say in the important decisions of household?There are many many many questions and many perspectives.Of course women should not take misadvantage of their rights but think about the percentage. Just a bunch of higher middle class doesnt represent indian society.So, the answer is NO.
Is hitting my girlfriend forgivable? She cheated for a year. When I found out, I started to yell. She said I was at fault, and punched, kicked, and scratched. I was bleeding, and slapped her. Now she says abusers never change and can’t be forgiven.
Personally, I have never hit a woman. That said, I would, if she were attacking me and drew blood. The Abuser in this instance is this girl that was not only cheating on you, had the audacity to respond to being caught with violence against you, but further abuses you by calling you the abuser and refusing to talk to you. I imagine that you have “welcome” written across your back because you are a Doormat.I strongly suspect that, some time ago, your “girlfriend” decided that she was no longer in a relationship with you; she simply didn’t tell you. Now that you’ve discovered that you’ve been replaced, you STILL don’t understand what is happening….or rather, what has happened. So, here it is in a nutshell. Your “girlfriend” has a boyfriend. You are NOT that person. She has been involved with him for over a year. She did not tell you because she, probably, didn’t want to hurt your feelings. Aside from that last empathetic sentiment, you do not matter to her. We know this because she “cheated” for a full year; disrespected and made a fool of you for an entire year. Maybe you provide some monetary benefit to her that she did not want to give up. Maybe it was just pity. Furthermore, when you found out, she did not apologize, she didn’t even make excuses or try to make you understand. She didn’t ask for forgiveness or try to make amends (whatever amends there could possibly be for a year of infidelity). No, she attacked you, uncontrollably, accepting no blame for her actions, and then told you to kick rocks. Why would you WANT her forgiveness? For what, protecting yourself? Why would you consider remaining in a relationship with her? She is a two-timing, lying, cheating user and abuser. And you are the Doormat that women like this walk upon.Until you get some more self-esteem, learn how to deal with women in a way that does not coerce them to abuse you, AND see the signs that you are being made a fool of, you will remain a Doormat. Get a backbone Welcome, don’t allow this type of treatment.