What are the features that you need in an app that reminds you to stand up from sitting?
Since the ProductHunt community loved it so much, probably whatever features this app has: Stand App: A simple Mac app to make standing a habit | Product Hunt
If assuming someone's gender is considered wrong, what should one do instead? Ask each and every person's gender, if not that, then what?
Edit to address details: Don’t use gendered titles. There’s absolutely no need to use them. A gendered title barely narrows down your address anyway. I certainly don’t turn around when I hear “Miss!” from out of my line of sight. Someone who needs my attention should make their presence known properly, by approaching me within eye sight and making eye contact. If it’s impossible to make eye contact because I’m busy with something, you shouldn’t be bothering me.Personally, I find that I very rarely need to know someone’s gender. How often do you need to identify someone’s gender or use it for something other than like, an official form where it would be completely normal to ask?More often you need to know someone’s pronouns (which are often, though not always, related to their gender). Pronouns are easy to pick up because you can listen for the ones that other people use. A person very rarely uses their own pronouns but if you’re just meeting someone, everyone who already knows them will probably be using the appropriate pronouns.For example, I might get introduced with,“Hey, this is my friend Lexa. She writes on Quora!”Now you know that I use ‘she’ pronouns.If you are unable to ask for some reason, just keep waiting until you hear one in use. It usually doesn’t take that long. Or ask someone else a question about the individual in question and wait to hear what they say.However, I encourage you to simply ask. The offense felt by a cis person when they’re reminded that trans people exist is much less than the pain felt by a trans person who is being misgendered.
How do I know if I have gender dysphoria?
Gender dysphoria feels a little different to every person, but it’s generally caused by the same things: being reminded people see you differently than you wish to be seen, and being reminded that your body exists in a state other than what you want to exist in; generally speaking. These are called Social Dysphoria, and Body Dysphoria. Most trans people have one, the other, or a mix of both.Do you become happy or sad when someone calls you “she”, “he”, and “they”? Pronouns, names, and words like “handsome” and “elegant” when they’re used on you?When you look at yourself in the mirror, and you see what you like and don’t like, which parts are they?Do you look at your chest and wish it was a different shape? Look at your genitals and feel like you want to get rid of them?Do you imagine what life was like when you were small and nobody could tell what gender you were without obvious stylistic markers, and wish it were still like that?I remember when I was going through puberty, I wished I had a child’s body again. I didn’t know why. Now I do.Do you dress up in another gender? Do you really like characters which break the gender barriers in some way? I loved Mulan growing up. I liked anyone who was a shapeshifter, or characters who were completely masculine to the point where people were surprised to find out they were raised as girls.Look back at all the gendered things you do, and think about how you felt when you did it. Did it make you feel refreshed, happy, maybe a little sneaky? Did you feel pressured, obligated, like it was the lesser of two evils?Here’s the one that most trans people ask each other, that seems to be pretty clarifying:If a magical entity came to you in the night and told you you had one chance, that only tonight, they were offering to change your physical sex, permanently, with no chance of reversal, with no pain, and without changing your mind.How would that make you feel? Would you take the chance?In the end, the only one with the right answers is you.Good luck, cousin.
Why do humans, especially men, have so much lust for sex?
When i was growing up, i use to feel lot of shame when confronted with such type of questions. Since i do thought about sex 24*7 which use to distract me a lot. However people(feminist) should watch wildlife channels a bit instead of shouting ‘rape’ more so they can be aware that how ruthless continuation of species is. Especially for male who have to fight to death in competition while just female watches from far.In caveman period most of our ancestors rarely live above 30 years. They ended up being food to some carnivore or die fast due to various diseases.With such short life span, getting sexually active at 13-15 years is nothing shameful but necessary to propagate our species. This is the reason males around this age till 25 have elevated levels of testosterone. Its like do or die situation, if they don’t spread there seeds at this age they might be soon dead anyways. Its just coded in our DNA to be sexually hungry at that point.This is also reason why men die early since their function is just to provide seeds hence there is more pressure to reproduce asap on them while females have greater burden to carry babies and nurture them so they live 5–10 years longer than men.
How often do adult couples really have sex?
I'm a 35 year old woman and my husband is 36. We have this ongoing argument about sex that is really bothersome to me. We have been together for four years now, married for one, and we fight about sex all the time. Usually, it's the woman who doesn't want sex and the man who does. In our house, I'm the one who wants it and he doesn't! We have no kids and no real constraints on how often we can have sex. I have a pretty strong sex drive and I'm pretty adventurous in the bedroom. I typically want sex 4-5 days per week, but he tells me that any more than 3 times is too much. The last time we had sex more than 3 times per week was 3 years ago when we moved in together. Now it is 3 days per week and no more! And if it were completely up to him, it would be less than that. He is not having an affair. I know this. I am not ugly or unattractive, either. I have a successful career, I'm smart, and I am very fit, wear a D cup, and even modeled in my college days. My husband had an erectile dysfunction issue basically his whole life, and only discovered two years ago that it was a really low testosterone level. He now takes testosterone supplements and the ED issue has almost disappeared. He still has it once in awhile, but only in certain positions--that is, when he is on his back. I have yet to ever be on top because of this, actually. He has these odd rules that he keeps telling me are normal, like that we can't do it two days in a row, we can't do it more than 3 days per week, etc. He says he just doesn't have the same sex drive as me, which may be true, but it still doesn't seem "normal" to have to follow these rules. It got better for awhile (though we still didn't have sex more than 3 times per week), but now it's getting worse again. Can anyone tell me how often they think couples in their 30's with no kids really have sex? Is 3 days per week good? Is it normal for a man to put such restrictions on sex with his wife
Are pansexuals more discriminated against or ignored in the LGBT group than bisexuals?
I'm not going to say "Pansexuality doesn't exist"... As much as I want to, I won't, because I try to be respectful and I have a friend who identifies as such. MY problem with the label is how some of the people choose to justify it... By going into a rant or unneeded sermon about how bisexuals are "only" attracted to people who are gender binary, are not as "evolved" or "open", or how they're different since they'll date transgenders and transsexuals... I have yet to hear of a transsexual who did not want to be seen as a man or woman... The same applies to transgenders (and even intersex people). Most people identify as either male or female, but even with those who don't -- They're still just as capable of being loved as anyone else. I don't like it when people are treated as outsiders, especially when they're fighting against that treatment (few exceptions to this), but that's what "pansexual" people tend to do [marginalize or view them as "other"] each time they get up and arms about their "orientation". I'm not even going to get into the "I date based on personality" shtick, I just won't go there. I've called myself "omni" before, but when asked about my bisexuality, I say it's my attraction to 2+ genders or anyone really -- I don't discriminate too much or too often. There's just too much bull **** that comes with the label of pansexuality, as well as* people who identify as pansexual -- Too much narcissism (and, most often, fetishism) for me. {{I didn't mean to type so much, sorry about that. {{What's so funny? Lol, I was/am being serious... Anyways, no, I'm good now. :) {{@Tony: OMG! That was all you?! What a superb thesis and I loved how eloquently it was put out there... We should talk more, seriously.
Do men ever do anything kind and go out of their way for just a friend that's a woman without there being secret feeling involved? I once heard men never do without there being ulterior motive behind it.
A man only does something unusual for a woman if she is his: sister, mother, lover, daughter, or colleague.A man will move heaven and earth for his sister, or someone who reminds him of her.A brother-sister bond is very strong, and is based on mutual aggravation, adventure, and helping each other grow.If a man sees you like this, it will be very obvious and carefree. Expect playful fights and easy conversation, while also being interested in you growing as a person.A man will also go out of his way for his mother, or a motherly figure.Whether out of love or guilt, men do a lot for their mamas.If you are his lover, or prospective lover, you can expect special favors.Hopefully this does not need explanation.Men also hold a special place in their heart for daughters.The daddy daughter bond is based on seeing this little baby you are responsible for, grow up before your eyes and trying to prepare her for the world and grow her into a good woman. Most often, dads are wrapped around their little girl's finger.A man might help a promising work colleague or someone he is mentoring.Favors here are done in expectation of future professional growth or to help a mutual goal.You might notice I didn't list friends. This is because men and women do not form friendships outside the most superficial without it turning into one or more of the types previously listed. You do not need to be blood related to have any of these types of bonds.There is also a more sinister prospect- the man who goes out of his way to help a woman because he is a “nice guy”.Do not be confused- he is not a nice guy at all. He is a creep and manipulative.A genuine nice guy will have an identifiable reason for helping you more than usual- a common origin, he needs help with something, you remind him of [sister/mother/daughter], etc…If he declares a romantic interest / crush, he (or his emotions) sees you as a potential lover. He may go out of his way just to be close to you, even if he never intends to act on his feelings or expects anything more. It just feels good, and so he's cranking up the feel-good chemicals in his brain. But, he's being honest as to why he does what he does.A person who goes out of his/her way to help you, but cannot or will not identify why… is a person to be wary of. RUN.