What does it mean if you dream about being shot?
Two nights ago I dreamt I was on holiday in New York. I was shopping for my little sister in a huge toy mall when suddenly this group of guys with guns gathered a large crowd (which I was in) and started randomly shooting people. One of the men spotted me trying to hide in the crowd and shot at me but he missed. I pretended to die in hopes he would think he'd got me but he noticed he hadn't. He came directly up to me and was about to shoot again when I suddenly realised I was dreaming and (through struggle) managed to wake myself up. Then last night (the very next night) I dreamt that I was trapped in a house with a number of my friends and one person was killing everyone off so they could escape (the same set up as the film House Of 9 if anyone's seen it. I haven't watched the film in months so I don't think it has anything to do with my dream). It turned out that the killer was the guy I currently have a crush on. He got someone else (who I used to have a crush on) to hold me and then he shot me through my heart with a gun. Somehow I was still alive so he then stabbed me in my chest. I know how insane that all sounds, I'm just wondering if there's any meaning behind it??
Who do most men dream of being with?
Just like women, we men are not all the same, like you said. I don't think a majority of men have a consensus on what we look for. I can tell you what I look for. I dream with being with a nerdy girl who is fairly plain. I don't really find what the typical guy finds attractive to be attractive. Not into those "super hot" blondes. Petite, brunette, and I'm not sure how to describe the type of face I find attractive... I wish I could find a good example online for you. That's it for looks. For personality, I want someone who is kind, caring, loving, understanding, able to make me smile(that's very dificult to do lol), intelligent, competent, confident, and that's about it I suppose. I do not want a traditional woman who thinks she needs to live within archaic gender roles. I want her to stand up for herself. She needs to be able to let me know if I do something that she doesn't like. I do think if we were to raise a family, one of us should stay home, or only work hours that are within the hours of the school hours the children have. I would be more than willing to be the one that does that. She could work, if she wants that. We would of course discuss which one of us would be best to do that. I would think whichever one of us is most nurturing, which isn't always the mother, as some people think. I can actually be very loving/nurturing toward children. I think she should also be a feminist, like I am. Edit: Here's someone I found on a google search that comes close to the type of facial features I find most attractive on a woman
Dream of being Raped: Meaning?
My girlfriend has had dreams of someone trying to rape her for years now (due to being sexually assaulted when younger). But always woke up before anything happened. However, recently, for three days in a row she had dreams of being raped by many, many guys. Basically, taking turns. I have read up on girls having such dreams; but the number of men, 40+, I find strikingly odd. This appears to be getting worst, especially in the number of men. However, she was never raped (only assaulted) and her dreams have never been like this before. I am just curious of what they could mean? Possibly what to do? I have done much research on dreams of rape, but still wonder… Also, I am not sure if this helps any; but she is still a virgin and we have been discussing our future sex life (we are both 20, and i am a virgin too). She currently lives with her grandparents who are quite controlling and she doesnt have a handle on controling her own life. Btb, it it doing some real mental damage.
I wouldn’t think such a dream says anything about your sexuality, although I guess that depends on the dream itself.You say it was a “wet dream,” but dreams and your body work in strange ways, and being aroused in your sleep does not always indicate sexual orientation.For example, you may have dreams about incest (fairly common one); that does not necessarily mean you are sexually attracted to that family member. Here’s an article that provides some insight into this phenomenon, and also the situation you mention:22 Of Your Weirdest Sex Dreams Decoded By A Professional Dream AnalystIf you’re dreaming of gay sex, your mind could simply be curious about it, and sex is hot, and that’s why you dream what you do.If you’re just dreaming of hot men, maybe it is a reflection of images in your life. If you’re an Olympic swimmer, it wouldn’t be surprising for ripped, shirtless men to appear in your dreams. Maybe you saw a magazine cover that caught your attention and are now dreaming of it. Being aroused could mean aroused at the thought of *ahem* pleasuring that person, but perhaps also at the thought of being that person. A sexy person is sexy, but so is being sexy yourself.In short, no, it doesn’t mean you’re gay. As far as I can know, you can’t really be sure of what it means because it’s a dream, a fantasy. The only way to know if you are gay is if you actually feel attraction towards real, living men.
My Wife Dreaming of Having Sex With Other men...?
Controversial topics like that depends on the people in the relationship. A lot of people would see that as wanting to stray and most guys would feel offended. Chances are....since the sex life is dwindling, she is wanting to spice it up (even if that means going elsewhere). If I said that to my husband, first of all..I wouldn't say "making love" because that is something that should be reserved for you and your spouse. I would at least have the decency to say "have sex." The fact that she would even tell you this shows that you're both very open minded people. If you don't mind her experimenting with someone else, try suggesting another woman in a threesome to pick up your (can't help) slack. A lot of couples who invite another woman in the picture (together) don't really consider it as cheating, just another sex toy. I could completely understand if you don't want her being with another man. Because it could just start with one little fling and then turn into cheating behind your back. Not to mention its really cheating anyway. And you should tell her up front if you don't approve. Ask her want else you can do in oral or foreplay that can make up for what your medicine's holding you back on. They make any and every sex toy you could ever think of and more. And sad to say, some toys feel better than the real thing.
Married Man Dreaming of other women???
Quit feeling guilty if you can. Enjoy the euphoria and look at it like a freebie! I'm happily married and have these dreams (although not every night) and when I wake up I feel refreshed! Don't tell you wife about it cause it would probably hurt her feelings but enjoy!
Cuddling with someone in your dream reveals your longings, cravings and desire to be loved.lt shows a lonely soul seeking someone to love. On the other hand, if you're already married or in a relationship and you cuddled someone in your dream and you like it; then, maybe your husband or your fiancee has left a vacuum of love which needs to be filled. Perhaps your lover is not showing you enough care , affection and attention your spirit craves for If your lover is giving you enough care and affection and still you are cuddling someone in your dream, you have lusting problems which is deeply rooted from your foundation.Moreover, some people have spirit husbands and wives who come in the spirit to make love with them.If you have a spirit husband or wife, you will recognize that a particular person always appears to you in your dream and would always want to make love with you. This problem requires aggressive prayers for someone to be delivered.
It means you want to have sex with her. Pretty simple. It’s wish fulfillment. The one aspect of Freudian psychology that seems to make sense. Dreams can pre-warn you of possibilities, tell you about yourself, entertain you and show you what you want. Most men and women dream of sex with friends, coworkers and sometimes people who just pass by. It means that person is attractive. We are sexual creatures. Made to procreate. It is genetically inclined in us. Accept it as what it is, a feeling of attraction for this person.
Is it true that most women dream of being raped? Why?
Women fanasizing rape was something that intrigued most psychologists for decades. Your dream reflects your subconscious, if you dream about rape, you obviously thought about it. It is true, women fantasize about getting raped. I think i heard about 40-50% of women ADMITED that they fantasize about rape. 40-50 is a very high percentage and it suggests there is something going on. Im sure a lot more women have, but people have hard time being honest with a piece of paper...more so for women because they are pressured to look "innocent". I guessed before clicking on this question that many girls will say "i havent", which doesnt prove anything. I would say this has something to do with women's psych obviously, i think we should look into evolutionary psychology. Women are hard to understand.
This is not a strange dream. Men have pregnancy dreams - that is a fact. Dreams such as this one are only strange if you look at them literally. Looking at them symbolically, however, they are full of meaning for the dreamer.That you are excited about this pregnancy gives you something to work with. A man who has such a dream should tap into that energy and watch for its manifestation in his real life. When you feel that same sense of excitement about some possibility for yourself, you know to pay attention.I have said this before in another answer about a man dreaming he was pregnant with a baby girl, but I can repeat some of it here. The dream symbolizes everything that a pregnancy dream symbolizes:new potential, however in an early nascent statea project or emerging ideayou are pregnant with possibility for your futuresomething in you is in a state of gestationthis can be a psychological shifta new venturespiritual awakeningA dream symbolizes an underlying (unconscious) psychic process, that is, something stirring beneath the surface of consciousness. We can sense these undercurrents as unexplained emotions or moods, an intuitive sense that something is about to shift in our lives, or as a longing for change.This dream would say: something is coming.That a man has such a dream also says that he himself is capable of carrying this potential on his own - as a man. That is, he’s not dreaming about a pregnant woman, in which case his inner feminine carries the potential for him. In this dream the masculine side himself is capable of nurturing something - of bringing something into his life.This says a lot about the depth and dimension of this man’s personality. He is capable of relatedness at a very deep level.Pregnancy dreams are often the precursors to dreams about babies, which would take this potential into a new stage of development.I always advise people to go back the number of months you are pregnant in the dream and see if there was some idea or sense of longing floating around.I realize this is a late answer, but perhaps some other luck men have had this dream and will look it up.