My big brother spanked me!?
Well there is some things wrong with you and him. What was wrong with you : Your mom does not hate you. She only wants whats best for you. And you should not have done such an immature thing like scaring her. You should have just came and told him about it. What was wrong with him : You NEVER spank out of anger. I'm not the type of person to disagree with spanking but if its not done correctly then it can really screw up a kid, i mean, seriously eff them up. Your brother should not have his girlfriend over at your house while he's babysitting. He needs to spend more time with you so the relationship can grow. I don't know what kind of person you are and you might even be a good hearted person but honestly right now in my life i'm at the point where i can't even let go of things that happend to be 7 to 8 years ago, so right now in my life, yeah i'm pretty ****** right now and i'm freaking stressed from everything that's going on. When i'm like this my parents know and tend to just leave me be even if i get angry at them, i know its wrong to do but when a lot of things is going on and if to much goes on i feel like i'm literally have a panic attack and almost did have one. So if i was in your position while i'm stressed out like this i probably would have went in the kitchen and grabbed out a kitchen knife and put it to my throat or try to harm the girl. I know, it sounds crazy but i do crazy things when i'm stressed. Anyway, my advice to you is to say sorry to him and tell him about what she did also and why you did it. And you also need to explain to him that your 12 years old. Your becoming a young woman and most people stop spanking children when they turn 8, 9 or 10. But Before telling him the second part you have to act more mature, grow up and solve your problems a little better. And please, whatever you do, don't be like me and get so stressed out that you'd literally take a weapon and almost harm your family. Its also unhealthy and i'm trying my best to deal with it. Honestly he kind of did do the right thing then he kind of didn't. He did the right thing because you were acting stupid instead of coming to him and telling him. But the dumb thing was it sounded more like he done it out of anger. Plus he did it in front of his gf while she laughed at you, gf or not if i was him id even tell her to shut her mouth. Know what? Screw this, your an idiot because you can't read my answer properly.
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How to deal with a brother leaving for college?
hi! I'm 15 and my older brother is leaving for college tomorrow morning. I just said goodbye to him, and although I have sort of been in denial the past few weeks, I started bawling when I had to say goodbye. He is my best friend. I come to him with any of my problems and he is always the one I count on for advice. I don't know who I can turn to for computer help at 11 pm anymore, or who's room I can go to just to talk about my day. I'm crying as I type this, I am going to miss him SO much. I live with my mom and younger sister, but I don't have nearly the same relationship with them as I have with my brother. I can't picture family dinners without him. His college is a 10 hour drive (or a plane ride) away, and I can't go with him to set up his dorm or anything. I'm not going to see him until Thanksgiving, and then Christmas. I know I can Skype and call and text and everything, but it won't nearly be the same. I am so terrified and worried and sad and lonely right now, any advice for people who have been through this? sorry its so long, but thank you!
My brother left Islam. What should I do?
You don’t say whether he is still living with you, with your parents, in the same locality, or thousands of miles away. This fact really matters.If he’s living with you and your parents, and presumably dependent upon them, you MUST NOT TELL YOUR PARENTS. There could be very serious repercussions, for him - or them - particularly if you live in a jurisdiction where apostasy is punishable by law or custom. Even if that is not the case, your parents could disown him, and he might be forced to fend for himself before he is able.If he is financially and functionally independent, not living in a place where apostasy is dangerous, and you are confident your parents will not take any meaningful adverse action, you may consider telling your parents.But frankly, it’s his to tell them, not yours. Try this phrase: “Not my circus; not my monkeys”.Now to the more substantive question: What should you do about it?Nothing.Nada. Zero. Zip. Zilch.I’m sure, growing up in a Muslim family, he understood quite a lot about Islam. He knows what he left. It took him a lot to do it.The odds of you changing his mind are somewhere between slim and none. Oh, you can threaten him, and depending upon his circumstances, your threats may even carry weight. But suppose you do threaten, and he says “okay”. You haven’t changed his mind; you’ve changed his behavior. So he’ll become a “pretend” Muslim, in order to avoid the shame, shunning, and penalties of being an open apostate. He might even be a pretend Muslim now, for exactly those reasons.Repeat after me: You-can-not-do-it.Each of us has to come to his own reconciliation with god - or not. If there is an ultimate destination, we will each have to justify our positions to that authority.What’s the alternative?Tell him he’s wrong (with a capital “W”).Tell him he has to come back.Tell him if he doesn’t, you’ll tell mom and dad. Watch as he is excised from their lives.Tell him if he doesn’t, you’ll tell the Imam. Watch as he is made an example of in front of all your family and friends - embarrassed and humiliated.Tell him if he doesn’t, you’ll tell the police (if you live in a place where they will act on this). Watch him imprisoned, tortured, and/or killed.Assuming he is physically safe, watch as he removes himself from your life, and you from his - forever.Yeah, that’s a good idea.
What should I do when my brother hits me?
My Indian brother is the same. He was verbally and physically abusive and has slapped, punched , kicked me; called me a 'bitch' and much much worse. I've cut him off from my life and my heart. I no longer speak to him or acknowledge that he is alive and do not consider him my sibling. Your parents are cowardly. The typical Indian parents who favor the son and indirectly shift the responsibility for his violent behavior on to your head. Mine were the same. It's NOT your fault. Your brother has mental issues and he is venting on you, using you as a punching bag. Your parents are NOT protecting you as they should. By blaming you and not rebuking your brother, they are reinforcing your brother's violent behavior. My advice is IGNORE and STAY AWAY from him. DO NOT let him hurt you physically. STOP talking to your brother. PRETEND that he does not exist. Keep your interactions with him minimal. If he tries to start an argument with you DO NOT engage him, ignore him, go to your room and lock the door. Study hard, get a job and move out.
My older brother hits me! I mean like bruises me?
Well I haven't had the best year ever but I tried to make it work out. But one thing that is really bothering me is thefact that my 18year old brother hits me (I'm 16) and when I say hit I don't mean like bro sis hitting I mean like he really hurts me. He knows about the past with my ex (he used to hit me to before i left him)and all the pain went through. We were fighting yesterday I knew I should have stopped the fighting because he got anger issues and any little thing can make him mad but he always thinks dat he can do anything to me cuz he's stronger and I wanted to prove dat he couldn't (pretty dumb of me). We r still fighting and I tell him to shut the f up cuzi got no time for him and of course that set him of. He punched me in the face leaving a black eye. He slapped me and pretty muchjust tore me up. I'm not the strongest person but I do have a big mouth. I kno I shouldn't have said dat but I just couldn't let him take advantage of me like dat. My parents kno he hits me but to them its just brother sister hitting so all hey basically do is tell him not to hit me or he will have his consiquensis and they got me a therapist/counselor (he the same guy ) so that's helping a bit but I just had to kno if I should keep cursing him out if when we fight or just let him take advantage of me.
Was Big Brother 9 Neil Garcia's cousin really killed in the NIU shooting?
The timeline of his departure and the murder of Catalina Garcia are close to each other, but are not chronologically compatible. Neil Gracia Leaves BB9 house Wednesday Night the 13th of February. The NIU shootings take place at 3:05PM Feb.14th(Thurs.) this Yahoo!Answers question would answer your question with a "yes" but the person who answers only refers to "][-][ ][ ][v][" as their source. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?... Based on my investigation, Neil Left the night prior to the campus shooting, so unless my information was incorrect, this would be an impossible reason for him to leave the show, even if Catalina Garcia was related to him, he would not know about the shooting, because it had not happened yet. (I've even calculated Timezones and this would still be the same scenario) But finally if you want to know for sure you go to the source. Maybe Neil responds to myspace email, I don't know, but if you want to know for sure, best ask him or someone who knows the family. Neil Garcia's Myspace page http://www.myspace.com/neil_garcia
Pete, John's older brother, leaves their house 10 minutes after John...?
Pete, John's older brother, leaves their house 10 minutes after John. He rides at 20ft./sec. (20 feet per second) to the same school. At the times shown in parts (a)-(b), how far has Pete biked? Has he caught up with John? a) 8:10 A.M b) 8:20 A.M Thanks if you help =D
How to cope with my brother going into the army?!?
Me and my older brother are 4 years apart. He goes to college about 2 hours away so we see each other maybe once every month or two. We've always been really close to each other, which I love! I was with him this weekend and realized that he will be gone when I graduate high school in one year (he'll be in the army) and it honestly made me cry. I've thought about it a lot and it makes me cry every time, thinking of the bad things that could happen....so how do.I cope with this? Please help!!!