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Why do you hate being a woman?

1.For all those times I have to dress up.Before the society notices you, they notice that dress. There must be around 17482639027382991 different types of women clothing designed for all different times.And boys, a shirt and a pant works EVERYWHERE.But yes, you're also responsible for adhering to this responsibility. Did you find a group of men staring at you for you're wearing shorts to a beach? Mention not. It's your fault.You cannot repeat your shirts. Never. Same goes for skirts/ pants/earrings/every damn thing you possess.There's nearly an year left for our farewell, but my girlfriend's dress plans are on fleek. And the boys? They're possibly wearing the same black suit they also wore for this year's farewell and also last year's. Guess what? Nobody gives a damn. But yes, we can't afford to look anything like we have ever before.2. The entire hair affair.Everybody is obsessed with their/your/friend/sister/mother/neighbor and anybody else's hair. They're long and pathetic. Had a tiring, humid day? You can't possibly survive without washing them, which again is a long process.Yes. Also include those one million hair accessories and matching hair styles. Oh, the trillion other hair cuts.3. Salons.Because the human culture basically looks down upon the natural exoskeleton of the human body. You cannot, cannot have hair on your body. Legs, arms, back, tummy, forehead, are you kidding me?Men could have them showing from anywhere to everywhere. No brows done, no facials.4. Cooking.If it's fine for your 23 years old son to know nothing about the kitchen, it should be okay if my chapatis aren't round.The kitchen or the household is not my duty. If I don't like cooking, I'm not doing it. Why does it pinch them so much?5. And finally, marriage.So after 25 years of giving you unconditional love, your parents are also to give you an extravagant wedding and yes, loads of dowry.I'll have to leave my parents some day maybe. This breaks me more than anything else.

Why do tall women hate being tall?

Come on! Most girls KILL to be tall! I wish I was tall. I hate being short. Being a 4'10" girl isn't fun and I hate being called cute. My friend who is 5'11" hates being tall. She feels like a giant when she's around shorter people, especially being the tallest in the room. She doesn't wanna marry a short man. She would always slouch down, but her mom who is also tall (5'8") pulls her up and said, "Stop slouching! Stand tall and proud. It good be tall and we're intimidating and that's a good thing." Her dad is like 6'1". She hates being 5'11".

I wish I was like 5'7" or 8.

Why do some Asians hate being Asian?

I hunged with some Asian Americans. Some of them can even speak Mandarin fluently, but we couldn't get alone because their Asian ways are very different from my Asian ways. One girl told me that she hates to be a girl because her parents treat boys and girls differently. I wasn't very surprised at the time, but later what she told me shocked me. She said that she has to cook and let the boys eat first. I was shocked. This is U.S. This kind of thing is not even happening in cities of China. Other girls I have talked to also mentioned something similar, the things only happened decades ago in China and only are happening now in very rural places in China.Another example is beating Children. I was surprised when seeing in U.S a Chinese mom pushed her child. I saw this maybe more than ten years ago and saw this in rural places in China now, but I cann't image that I saw this in New York City. Maybe I am wrong, but I come to a conclusion that after some Asian parents immigrated to U.S, they stopped interacting with the outside world and kept their ways of being Asian they learned years ago. China is changing, but chinatowns aren't. U.S is changing, but somehow Chinese immigrants failed to fit in and learned the American ways. Living in chinatown gives me a sad view of Chinese immigrants. Most of them are not middle class as said in newspaper. In contrast, most of them are like living in the 90s of China. They hear old pop songs in the 90s of China. They speak like people from 90s. Those Asian American girls usually questioned how I can make it here and I cannot persuade them to believe that I didn't cheat nor have a rich parents. I can't let them believe that how rich some cities are and how different some Chinese living styles are from their family's living styles. I have nothing to say. Sometimes I wish I could be a white guy because I was told that I could have some privileges. But I am thinking if you are an ugly guy, you just live the life twice harder.

Do women hate being ignored?

Yes. To be honest yes. The only exceptions are secure woman who are confident in thier looks and dont require that men drag themselves for miles with her being the cause even if they already do. On the other hand girls get a bit of a high with the attention because it makes them feel like they are amazing and when you ignore them they are ardently asking themselves why YOU wont worship them too even if they dont admit it. They will then work harder to make you notice thier greatness just as they so effortlessly got it from every other guy in the room. She might not even like you shes just angry that YOU didnt. Pay attention to her and she is using her charm to get you under her spell. The first girl is an attention freak and is clearly insecure about herself and I wouldnt blame you for being turned off. You need a secure woman in your life. Girls like this are just trying to have thier vanity fed. And if you ignore her more I bet on everything that at least one of these things will happen happen:
1. She will hate you.
You ignored her greatness and therefore insulted her. She will avoid you at all costs or if shes crazy enough: try to hurt you.
2. She will feel more insecure about her looks
Resulting in an increase of cosmetic use to make herself more alluring. Or she might give up and let herself go. Cut herself...
3. She will propose sex or other benefits
To feel wanted. If shes easy to begin with.
4. She'll give up
She realizes pleasing you is either not worth it or takes up too much energy which hopefully does happen so she can gain some self respect.
5. She will switch on her auto defense mechanism and turn more conceited
She'll say thinks like: I'm too good for him anyways, He obviously has NO taste I mean LOOK at me! His standards are stuck at 4 and I'm a 10. Stuff like that

Hopefully she'll grow some ovaries and realize that you're opinion of yourself is all that matters. You can be the most beautiful person in the world but if you dont believe it nothing ANYONE says will matter.

So yes, I just gave you a huge insight on the female mind. Maybe I gave too much insight lol. Jk

Why do women hate virgins?

Well I'm a 19 y/o 'guy' and never been in a relationship and I don't really plan to. I'm a virgin and I am not really interested in sex I have better things to do than having sex.

Why do people insult me just because I don't want a girlfriend?

I don't feel attraction to women (or men) because most of them rather be 'shagging' or cheating on their boyfriend. I have better things to do, than chase girls waste my life away just to end with an STD and a kid.
I would rather be rich and have a great job. Women don't like 'caring relationships' they prefer to be abused and beaten... which I find bizarre.

I have no problem being a virgin, but I just want to know what makes it so funny to women. I find it rather pathetic and shallow minded. I have a career plan and I find a it a waste of time being with a woman.

I don't drink or smoke etc.

I listen to classical music and many women have a go at me for listening to it? WTF get a life!!

I used to have respect for women, but not anymore they're all the same.

I used to be kind and of caring nature but women obviously prefer the sick bastard who beats them.

I HATE BEING A FEMALE!?

I hate being a girl with a passion. I always held this in and I just cried an hour today because of my vented up emotions about this. I DESPISE being a female. I wish I was a male so bad. We are always judged by our looks and we are judged heavily on many things. Im a average girl 5 foot 2 girl and I hate being short. I hate long hair its so annoying. I hate wearing makeup to hide my pimples because I feel like a loser in my school if the people can see my imperfections. I hate wearing dresses and skirts. I hate wearing girly pink clothes. But I cant do anything about it I have to wear clothes like that or else Ill be the loser outcast "lesbian" looking girl. Even if I dont want to I put on makeup and girly clothes. I hate childbirth and I really am gonna hate being pressured to have kids in the future. ( ITS ALSO PAINFUL). I hate being weight concious. I always looked up pro ana tips on the internet. More emphasis is put on females rather then males when it comes to weight I mean havent you seen those news websites that always make fun of the female celebrities about there bodies? I hate being teased by male classmates and I hate trying to act like a classy lady. I also hate that if Im nice to a guy he automatically assumes I like him -_-. I HATE PERIODS. I GET HEAVY AND PAINFUL CRAMPS. COME ON UTERUS I DONT WANT TO HAVE BABIES!! And I hate that society expects me to talk about girly stuff and gossiping when I acuallt want to talk about video games, etc. THE LIST GOES ON...

Why do alot of women i know hate being single?

Some people don't like to be alone. It is as simple as that. They want someone to share their day with. Who really wants to come home alone. It is quite normally and most of society feels that way.

I hate being a tall girl?

i just turned 14 a couple days ago and im 5'10.5, and i am a girl.

i dont know why i hate it so much. i just want to fit in, i feel like shorter girls are always the cute ones, and im manly and should play basketball..... ugh i absolutely hate basketball! :(

i guess i wouldnt have that much of a problem with it if everyone didnt make so many damn comments everyday
"wow your so tall!"
"you make me feel short"
"dang shaq, how'd you get so tall?"

at least 10 times everyday, i cant take it, its driving me crazy :( i wish people would just let me forget about it, but nobody will, im constantly reminded of something i already know...

& the fact that i can "reach things on top shelves" makes it worse lolol.. because i dont get cute guys, like at school, to come help me reach things. i help them.

& it doesnt help the fact that hott guys are usually shorter than me. but i dont want to date anyone shorter than me because i love rapping my arms around peoples necks and reaching up to kiss them, its so cute.

how can i gain my self esteem back? seriously, the only thing that i hate about myself and my looks is that i am so tall.. i feel like if that never happened in my genes.... i'd be on top of the world.

yes it would be fun to model but its not exactly my dream..

please help me i dont know how to gain my self esteem back. it seems like i lost it all when i got tall :( i loved myself before. this sucks. thank you to anyone who can help with my emotional issue! lol :) thanks

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