Why am I crying over my boyfriend?
We've known each other for almost five months. Dated for a month and three weeks ago, went steady. Our first date we spent three hours talking, even after eating. We've been on four dates, but our favorite number is three so we stopped counting. We spent four hours watching movies at his place without any awkwardness. We have MANY interests. MANY common interests. We've never had a huge awkward moment, nor a fight yet. Yet. All relationships have fights. And we communicate really well. Lately, all my dreams involve him. All. (Meaning he's always on my mind) even in the morning, at work, when he's not around. And when he is around, his smile just makes my day. But lately, as said, for some reason I just feel like bursting into tears when I see his smile. I don't even know why. I don't know if I love him. Maybe a little, but the type of love where I'd do many things for him. I'm probably not in love, I don't know. There is no manual to love, so I can't say I don't love him or that I do. Question is why I feel like crying? I'm not that sensitive. Yeah, I cry watching chick flicks sometimes. But I've never felt like this in actual life with an actual boyfriend. Or guy in general. Why do I feel like this and can it stop??? (And I have no intentions leaving him, I like him too much to do that). Any ideas?
Why can't I even cry even if I'm in pain after a break up?
It would appear that you have ‘bottled’ up all your emotions as regards your (clearly), very painful break up. This is a protective mechanism to help you face up to the world and carry on with your life. Now you would think being in so much pain would elicit tears quite often, (and certainly happen frequently). However, you are a strong individual. You haven't allowed yourself to wallow in self pity. That is the way it should be. Don't go looking for the tears to come, I can assure you they will. It is most likely that the tears will come when you are just about over the heartbreaking end to your relationship. When you have reached this point in your recovery, you will start to feel more like your old self again. You will be thinking (hopefully not obsessing), about your broken relationship less and less. Then one day, wham! Just as you thought everything was OK, something innocuous in nature will bring (happy), memories of your relationship flooding back. Literally flooding. You will weep uncontrollably for your lost relationship. It will all come out, all the ‘bottled up' heartache etc. These long awaited (and much needed recovery wise), tears will be tears for the loss of your relationship. They will also be tears of acceptance, renewed strength, for the fact that you have (just about), come through. You will feel so much better when the long overdue tears arrive. I have to advise you that these tears have to be taken as a sign that it is completely over for your past relationship. I hope you are currently in absolute no contact with your ex. No social media, texts, whatever. Over means definitely over. One day in the future you will meet someone special. A new partner. When this happens (and it surely will), focus on this new relationship. Your suffering (emotional), will soon come to an end. Be continually brave always. Don't worry about the long awaited tears, they will arrive when the essential stage of your grieving process has arrived. Keep moving forward, and better days for you WILL DEFINITELY ARRIVE! Take care always.
Why can’t I cry even when I am sad? This has been going on for a while, I haven't been able to feel sympathy or cry even if I want to.
This is because your feelings have reached a numb stage. It might be because you have gone through many of these things earlier . And then it's difficult to cry over everytime.There are times when you want to cry out loud but it's peculiar that the tears won't come.You have made yourself a level more stronger than you used to be.At some point in your life's journey you will see this,but don't worry eventually things will come back to its place.
Why do I cry even if I am not sad?
Firstly, sit back and relax.I'm apologising in advance because I'm a blunt writer at times and this is going to be one of them.Someone a few seconds ago on Quora told me I'm a rare personality. I didn't really understand if it was criticism or compliment but being an optimist I took that for a compliment.So the reason I'm mentioning this is because my thoughts might seem alien like but they come from experience. So if you have asked me to answer so now cope up with the answer!Crying is no big deal. "NO BIG DEAL". It does not make you a WEAK person. And definitely not a PSYCHOTIC. A small suggestion stop and come out your self pity zone. Also stop watching Bollywood movies because they sometimes misguided you. Firstly a PSYCHOTIC will never himself/herself agree to be one. Not even a depressed soul comes out openly and agrees for being one. You just need to find reasons to be happy. Haven't you ever smiled at a flower? Or at a young baby? Or a toddler? Or at someone you love? These things aren't funny so what made you smile? In the same way so cry about nothing! You won't imagine I cry whenever I watch Home Alone? Yes that bone tickling movie. Be a strong person not a coward and get a life! Stop begging attention, if you really want it snatch it! Come on yrr don't be such a senti soul. Stay blessed.
Why can't I cry even though I'm Sad?
you have to cry your body is filled with water! here's the thing i have depression and ive been where you are sometime when you think of all the **** your going through you get so used to it that sadness is no longer an emotion it's your life and well when your just living your life you're not going to cry but one of these days your gonna burst just soak it all in let it all out and move on you'll feel better just don't think about crying cause you wont!
Why am I crying if I dont know the reason?
I don't know who asked this question but if it's a girl.. You Are PMSing babe..! Eat ice-cream while watching RomComs and you will be fine Again! Don't Judge.. just wanted to start on a fun note! :)“Crying spells can have a physical cause, but they also indicate that you’re built up a lot of subconscious emotions you aren’t processing”following can be the reasons ...if you get weepy for no apparent reason:You're DEPRESSED ! Crying because you’re sad—kind of a no-brainer, right? Thing is, though feelings of sadness that persist for at least a couple of weeks are a sign of clinical depression, the condition also reveals itself in other ways. If the mood swings are frequent, you are always frustrated and everything fails to cheer you up, you should see your doctor for a depression screening, even if you don’t necessarily feel its need. There's no harm! 2. You're CRAZY STRESSED ! Okay, we’re all stressed. But if you aren’t handling work and life pressures head-on and instead sweep tension under the rug, it’s no surprise you’re exploding in tears. Try to take some time off and think what you have been doing wrong. A vacation will do wonders in this situation. Just remember ....excessive stress can give you many physical problems and that will in the end going to worsen your situation! 3. You're ANXIOUS about things! Here I am talking about anxiety disorders. Many of them have panick attacks while they are not even aware of it! If you having extreme self-consciousness that limits your participation in normal life then you probably are anxious about things. Just try to calm down. Don't push yourself into doing too many things. Have some patience. Avoid doing things that makes you anxious if it is not that important. And if it is important then just remember fear is just a state of mind, you will get through it eventually. Go on a Vacation... Laugh a lot.. Spend some more time with your hobby.. Go out on a date.. Read good books.. try different cuisines.. watch movies..!In short, Do what makes you happy.. And trust me dear you'll be laughing again even before you know it ...without any particular reason :)
Why am I crying, I don't know why I'm sad.?
crying is words from the heart that can't be spoken. i know its hard. TRUST ME. i've been there. parents never know how to deal with their kids at your age. I feel awfule that she doesn't approve of you crying, my mom was always very supportive of it when i cry. it shows vulnerability which is a good think. its always portrayed as begin bad, and its SO not. Try writing. Listening to music always helps, which youre already doing. But yeah writing. Do like, a livejournal. and just write down all of your thoughts. not what you think is wrong, not why you think youre crying. just what you're thinking about. go back and read it tomorrow and the next day, and add to it. you may not be able to vent to your mom, but you can certainly vent on paper. best of luck.
Why do I cry over little things?
People can be divided into three category1.introvert2.extrovert3.ambivertGenerally most of the people fall into the third category.Introverts keep things within themself.Keeping things within you is itself a burden .so they cry frequently.Thats why people say you should share your emotions with others,it relaxes you.Extrovert ,i mean a real extrovert cries once in blue moon.He has got nothing in his heart,he shares everything.Ambivert are in between introvert and extrovert.Ambivert generally shares everthing but never shares its personal matter except to one or two.They too cry .Our body is the most complex and wonderful creation .our body tries to adjust and deal with every phenomenon occuring in a body.when a person cannot bear the further pain say due to injury ,the body understand its well and puts the person in coma,a defence mechanism.Allergy too a defence mechansim .Crying is somewhat a defence mechanism too.When you cannot bear the emotional burden, you cry.If u have ever noticed,a person generally never cries instantly.He holds the emotions ,keeps on holding it,when it reaches the saturation level,he cries.The period of your cry is directly proportional to the level of emotional burden you carry. As everyone has got different mechanism ,so some cry too early and some cry late and some dont cry at all.When a person cries,they feels releif.The body has done its job,it takes a real care of itself.Girls are more likely to cry.They cry everytime when they could not resist the burden.They are clever.Crying has got physical well being in being defensive perspective but observing from the psychological sense people who cries over little things are the people who takes everything of everyone very seriously.Being serious in not a serious issue does a serious damage and is a serious thing and should be looked upon seriously.Universe is so big but dont make a universe of thoughts in your mind.compared to universe you are nothing,universe does not care whether you live or not.nobody has time to care about anybody.Life is a play ,play it in your way .
Why can't I cry anymore, even when I'm sad?
Dear friend,There are several reasons. that may be physiological or psychological.If you are having sad emotions and no tears are rolling out of your eyes(that what you meant by crying)there may have some problem to your tear glands.Even after seeing/ hearing or witnessing sad situations/news and you are only having that emotions peripheral of your mind instead of deep desire to respond to it, your brain has conditioned in such a way. Such conditioning can occurs mainly of three ways.1.Continuous medication :It will slow down the response of your emotions and you seldom feel any urge to respond effectively. If you are under psychological treatment-as in schizophrenia-such after effects are common. I know persons who failed to cry at the death of their parents. Drug addicts also face such a dilemma.2. Enlightened persons : Enlightened person attain certain mental stature,which cannot be shaken by any sad news. Their understanding about life provide them an insight which consider all sad and happy emotions as the same.Though they express their grievances,it will not touch the core of their heart.For them such sadness are part of life.3. Grief stricken persons:If you are a person who had faced a lot of bitter experiences in life,he/she develops a neutral mentality to any sadness. Because they have nothing to face or experience any more hardships than what they had already faced. Their tears are dried off of constant weeping. For them sadness is a co traveler and never surprised about its presence.Think about your self in which category and try to fill your life with eternal pleasure.Wish you all the best.
Why do I cry even though I'm having a good day and nothing's wrong with my life?
Perhaps you may be crying tears of joy. However, I will assume that you meant you were crying because you are unhappy. Obviously, something is wrong that you do not see. Maybe you are unhappy with your life because of exactly what you said: Nothing’s wrong. You need some action in your life and you can’t just have the same old routine everyday. This may be the case of your unhappiness.Overall, something is definitely wrong. It is just that you don't know what it is. You should aim to find what the cause of your unhappiness is and then remedy it by doing things that make you happy.