Why am I so much nicer when I'm on my period?
Does anyone else have this happen to them? It's like I have no patience and I'm an absolute demon for 10 days before my period starts, but as soon as it does start I'm a gem. I adore my boyfriend, I smother him with kisses and hugs while he's sleeping, hold him all night... This goes on for the duration of my period and then slowly tapers off towards the end. Then I become normal, and then raging she-demon again. I want to be nice all the time! I'm so happy right now, I need a forever period. :(
Why am I so nice to people?
I don't exactly understand why I'm so nice to people all the time. I get irritated and angry with myself all the time for being overly nice. It gets me nowhere to be so nice... actually, I take from myself to give. It's so hard to say no. I mean.. I like to be nice... but, whenever I'm nice there is always someone taking advantage of it. If it goes on for too long.. they then start to expect that niceness from me (for instance if they ask to borrow money or ask for a ride). I don't know how to change this about myself. I let someone borrow money whenever they ask because I'm nice and know that they need it... even times when I really can't afford it. Because of this, they think that I've got a lot of money even when I explain that I don't have any. I want to be nice.. but I don't want to be used.. I think that's where I'm getting at. I don't know.. I just need some help please
Why do I become a nice person when I'm drunk?
As a long-time designated driver (I don’t drink, just never liked the taste) who’s been around a lot of drunks I can tell you that alcohol is a personality amplifier. Period. Chatty people get really chatty, obnoxious people get really obnoxious, mellow people get really mellow, assholes who are able to mute or hide how much of an asshole they are when sober become raging assholes. Do you know someone who seems cool when sober and aren’t so much fun to be around when drunk? Yeah, they’re a self-aware asshole who’s learned how to hide it.Some will disagree with me - “No no, Bob really is a great guy, he’s only like that when he’s drunk”. Trust me, Bob’s an asshole 100% of the time, he just tones it down when sober. Bizarrely enough to me as an INTP who prefers to not be around people, I’ve always been much better at reading a person’s personalities than most people. I knew people who I couldn’t stand but everyone else liked, and then they were all shocked when one day said person went to prison (no surprise to me), and I’ve known (and still know) people who everyone thought was a bit of a jerk, and then they’re shocked to find out about the various charities or downtrodden people they donate a lot of time and money to helping (and they usually prefer no one knows about it).Alcohol. Personality amplifier.
Why am I nicer when I'm high?
May be because you are scared that you might fall down from the height.
Why do people say I am TOO nice?
When I think of someone being too nice I think of them giving too much of themselves to help anyone else, and in the process they lose focus of themselves. I think of it as being COMPLETELY selfless which really shouldn't happen unless you're raising a baby, but even then you have to take mommy time, you know what I'm saying? I don't mean that literally... I view them as sweet, but I feel sorry for them in a way because I also think of them as co-dependent like they base their self worth off of rather or not people are happy with what they've done for that person... I am nice to that person but if I truly care about them I will sit them down for a little one on one and tell them to start being a little selfish or they won't get anywhere in this world. But for the record, I'd rather be too nice than too mean. My own family tells me I'm too mean, but really I'm just easily annoyed, sensitive, and thus vulnerable under this tough exterior so I shut people out before they can get in. Then when I do try to be nice, they accuse me of being fake, so I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. Fxck it is how I see it haha. I'm only mean to people/fighter to push them away to see if they come back then I see if they're worth that relationship I could have with them because when I don't half a s s anything, I give 100% in my relationships and I expect nothing less in return... It's just hard to find that when you're "too mean." At least they don't mess with me though! Punks! Ha.
Help me out? I'm too nice?
If you please two masters one will always love or hate you and as well as the other. Leaving you with hurt and pain because you were not a good servant. Be your own master and please yourself and not others. Don't be a follower but be your own unique you. You need to sit down and figure out what that is and then live it. Your likes and dis-likes is what makes you so special and brings out your true friends and maybe some new ones. All the other people that can't accept you for who you are just forget them. Don't even show them any attention when they ridicule your because that's what they want. If they succeed in walking all over you and getting you angry at them then they feel and do have a foot hold on your feelings and self esteem. Don't give up your self esteem for the likes of others. Be you and keep your head up. Good Luck!
Wife is nice to everyone and mean to me. Why?
Leave her and marry my sister.. Just kidding!! Have you tried telling her how you feel? Go to marriage counseling.,,
The nicer i am , the meaner they are?
I have started to notice and have been wondering if anyone else notices that the nicer you are to people the meaner or ruder they are to you. I have noticed this for a while now, whether its with friends or family or doctors or complete strangers..I feel liket he nicer i am to people,the more helpful i am the more they seem to think they can crap all over me and treat me like garbage..Why is this? Should I start being a b*tch?