My cat has become aggressive?
So I like playing rough housing with her and she doesn't usually mind it but this one time that she got mad and bit me and scratched me. I was pinning her and when I finally let her go she went after me and bit and scratched my foot and leg. Now, she has been avoiding me and won't let me pick her up. I need some advice on how I can correct her behavior.
My partner becomes angry and aggressive when he plays FIFA online?
My husband use to play some horrible warfare game, (can't remember the name of it now). Anyway, his anger and outbursts started to drive me nuts, I spoke to him about it but that didn't work. So I just either went out, or went up to the computer room and put on a good movie and shut the door. His outbursts will settle down once he gets sick of the game. Believe me, he will get sick of it sooner or later.
Boyfriend smokes pot, but it makes him aggressive, impatient and angry. Is there hope?
My boyfriend started smoking pot 4 years into our relationship. Unlike most people, it makes him aggressive (he even hit me once while high and didn't even remember doing it the next day), impatient and angry. He says he wants to quit and he has quit for months at a time. Recently his mom convinced him to get high with her while we were visiting and now his addiction is back. I want to believe that he can quit and I don't want to leave him but I'm tired of waiting for him to clean up his act. Is there any hope that he will quit or should I ask him to move out?
Why am I so angry in school? Please read details.
I agree with you. I think you are intelligent. That you are seeking for answers and increased understanding is a good thing.I feel bad for young people who.emotionally and academically struggle in the classroom. Sometimes young people in the schools where I taught, were angry because...they would rather be elsewhere doing things that were more enjoyable.the school experience was not an emotional or intellectual match for their needs and abilities.what they were dealing with at home was overwhelming, draining their energy, and too uncomfortable to talk about with others.being in school was a reminder of other events or experiences that were not dealt with correctly in the past and were causing problems in the present.there was something going on at school that was troublesome and problematic. they were physically in school while their minds and hearts wanted to be someplace else.no one at school took the time to get to know and appreciate them in ways that were validating and positive.the expectations placed upon them were not equal to the level of support they needed and were given in order to be successful in meeting those expectations.There are other possibilities. Some of my students were untreated for a range of medical conditions.Some students were psychically gifted and had no language to talk about their experiences in ways that were helpful to them.At this point please consider speaking with someone who is worthy of your trust and is familiar with the issues you are dealing with.My hope is you will find the right resources and continue to ask for help. Do not give up until you have the answers that give you relief, direction, and a calm spirit.You deserve to be happy and SAFE!
What is the psychology of deeply negative, angry, aggressive people?
There are probably multiple answers to this question as there are multiple reasons people become, well, bitter and hateful. Some of them may have mental issues, some may have had various bad experiences, it could be a number of variations.Many probably have things or people that they aren't like that too. Others are just miserable to the core. In my opinion, we all have something good somewhere and everyone is worth investing some level of time into. We all have struggles, some of us just deal with them in different ways.I have a coworker who to most is defensive, easily provoked to anger and very loud. I talked to her. Got to know her and pointed out as gently as possible how her attitude and read I on to things were to her own detriment. Others didn't want to work with her. Projects were delayed by her…etc. But I took extra time and made extra efforts to partake in her job and daily duties. I offered her help. Figured out ways to make her job easier and she is now much more aware of how her attitude negatively effects others and mostly her. I've seen significant improvement. But it's taken years. 5 years to undo 50 years of self harm. There's still a lot to be done.Her childhood was rough. Her life has been rough. But under the bear like exterior, she has a heart of gold.We all have struggles. I always try to remember that. I always try to smile. To communicate well and be respectful. Even with miserable people because their struggles could be deep.
Boyfriend gets aggressive when drunk. Is this normal?
I am 22 and have have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He sometimes gets aggressive when drunk and displays some odd behaviour. It doesn't happen every time he is drunk and a lot of the time he is fine with alcohol. However, there have been a few occassions throughout our relationship where he has acted very inappropriately and it has upset me. 1) When we were younger (about 20) I was asleep on a couch and him and one of his friends were drinking. He touched me inappropriately in front of his friend, and his friend told him to stop. The next day, I was very upset about it. He apologised over and over and for the next few weeks was totally depressed and angry at himself for the way he acted so I forgave him. This was about 2 yrs ago. 2) About 3 years ago, he made excessive lude actions towards a mutual male friend of ours, which made the friend embarrassed. He was drunk at the time and says he only did it as a joke as he and his friends often do that sort of thing jokingly together. I felt uncomfortable with how he acted and was embarrassed, but honestly believed he didn't mean any harm. 3) Recently, he was drinking with two of my male friends in his garage while I was not there. They all got very drunk. The next day my friends both claimed that my BF had acted very strangely when drunk. They claimed he had been talking to himself, had punched a wall, slammed doors, and refused to let them leave the garage when they became frightened. My friends said they were very scared. My BF claims that he was just angry and trying to intimidate the other boys because one of my friends had been very rude to him. Is this sort of behaviour simply a case of someone acting stupid when drunk? Or do you think it is more serious? I don't want to make my BF seem like an awful person. He is really the kindest, nicest guy usually (I know that sounds like a cliche but he really is!) and has NEVER hurt me. These are all isolated incidents that have occurred over the 3 years we have been together. However I am just a little worried that it could be a sign of something bad. What do people think? Sorry for the long post!
Why do we feel angry when someone wakes us suddenly from sleep?
A2A: Why do we feel angry when someone wakes us suddenly?Actually, you will find that we don’t always feel like that. And certainly not all of us.The reaction to disturbed sleep comes deep from within the person’s psychology. For example, a mother awakened by her baby’s cry does not feel angry. Tired or irritated, maybe, but not angry.But before that, it is much associated to how we are being awakened. Much depends on the vocal patterns of the person waking us up.You know, we can hear from long before we actually wake up enough to process what we are hearing. So much of the voice of disturbing person goes in the brain before we gain sense enough to react. Therefore, in what tone are they calling us to wake up determines what would be the reaction.Suddenly waking up always makes the body to give us a small dose of adrenaline, since from prehistoric time sudden wakeups were genetically associated with sharp claws and long teeth in the dark. Now it is associated mostly with cute mischievous little sisters or annoyed mothers. So that surge of energy has to go somewhere.When someone wakes up by calling your name in urgent, tense tones, that energy will go into preparing your body for an oncoming battle, and you will shoot upright with a startled “What, what, what happened?”But if the same person is using either a bored voice or a commanding voice, that tone will be processed as annoyance, not emergency. So you are more likely to blurt out, “Fuck you.” Or punch the clock. And then roll over and keep snoring.Beyond that, if you’re in a position of power, (or if you think so), then any wakeup calls will be treated with some degree of annoyance, regardless of the vocal pattern.
The only time i get angry is when i don't masturbate?
Testosterone has a number of effects on the body in addition to raising your sexual interest. High levels of testosterone have been linked to aggressive behaviour in men. When you are feeling aggressive you are less likely to be pushed around by other people and you may feel stronger and less sad. A healthy level of testosterone also helps you feel more energetic. Masturbation doesn't reduce your testosterone levels. However, after you have an orgasm there is a refractory period when you don't have the same sexual impulses. You may have been spending this time feeling sad about your life, perhaps lonely and after a while you have assumed a pattern that you feel strong when you don't masturbate and weak when you do but masturbation is probably not the cause of your sadness. Talking to other people about how you are feeling can help you to feel better, especially if you discuss your problems with a health care professional but even talking to a friend can help. You should work on your self esteem and resilience so that you can learn to feel stronger all of the time, whether you have masturbated, had sex with someone or not.