Why do people hate ugly people?
I know I'm aesthetically repulsive. I've known it from the time I came into senses. But it's not like I chose to be ugly. If I had a choice, I would choose to be what we call "normal", or "average", not exceptionally beautiful. My ugliness has not made me rude, and I never pick on others. I don't even have a problem with beautiful people. They are blessed and loved, and I can only wonder what it feels to be beautiful like them. But why do people hate ugly people this way? With the cursing, "die" statements, open hatred and sick behaviour? We feel the same way beautiful people do, we feel the same joy and sorrow just like any other human being. I agree we don't deserve a lot of things that beautiful people do, but do we not deserve to be treated decently just for politeness' sake, if not for anything else?
Do you hate ugly people? And why?
I don't consider my self to be ugly, nor do I hate ugly people, but I noticed that lots of people, but I can't figure out why. Anyways, Do you hate ugly people? And why?
Why do people hate ugly people so much?
This is a society construct. Since we are kids we are shown “beautiful thin people” as being our role models in life. While ugly people are always portrayed as bad. How many people introspect on this? We take life at face value. We seek aesthetically pleasing partners, even if they are rotten to the core. That is what society demands. And we are meek sheep who follow without questions.
Im So ******* Ugly,Why Does God Hate Me :(?
Okay so i really hate my life!I & im so ugly & tbh i really have nothing to live for.I have no confidence,no friends & ive never had a boyfriend cause im ****** unattractive.Ive been through so much **** in my life & now i think enough is enough.Im 18 & i dont see my life going anywhere.i dont go school & i have a job & hate it but i have no choice.My parents tell me aswell that my life is going nowhere.I spead £100 on makeup to make myself look attractive & noone still talks to me.I bought new clothes,did my hair but no.Im just a loner & always will be.No boy has ever liked me & ive been bullied in school so i had to leave.I try to get confidence but i cant.I spend 2 hours a day getting ready & every boy i meet either ignores me & if i say ask them if they like me they lie & say they have a gf but i just know they dont or they get rude & say urghh.:/Most of the girls in my school called me ugly duckling,so did the boys.The only person i could talk to was the teachers.Those people would laugh at me everytime i walk pass them & when i use the bathroom i could hear girls yelling ugly duckling.They once locked me in & wrote uglying ducking on the mirror.:'( Even in class they would make fun of me & everyone would laugh & ill pretend that i dont care & go cry in the bathroom.I hardly eat in the dining hall so i eat in the toilets instead.I thought ill get facebook & meet some new people & get some friends & all those girls found out & wrote threatening messages to me & posted on facebook that everyone should report me cause apparently im too ugly to be on facebook.... so i deleted it.Why was god so unfair to me this?What have i done to be treated this way?Can anyone please give me some advice please,what can i do please please ???
I'm so ugly and I hate myself?
There is not one aestitcally pleaseing feature about me. I have terribly broad shoulders and no boobs at all. My hips are wide but my legs are narrower - I'm so awkwardly shaped. My legs are short and I'm slightly knock kneed which just makes my legs look fatter. I love fashion but I can't pull of anything because of my awkward fat body. My face is so ugly, the bridge of my nose sticks off my face so much, and the tip of my nose is round and I have a deviated septum which causes a visable crookedness in my nose. I'm gettjng a nose job once I turn 18 but that still wont fix the rest of my. My jaw is wide and on top of my broad shoulders/no boobs I look especially manly. I have a slightly lazy eye and though I don't have acne my skin is pale and veiny, and I have so many deep wrinkles and huge pores. I hate to be vain but i see so much beauty in people and nature and as an artist i want so badly to be part of it but i can't even look at myself. I cry thinking about myself.
Will people hate me for being ugly?
First of all , you have to clear your misunderstanding i.e. you think yourself to be ugly. No one is ugly everyone has its own unique beauty. You also have that, everyone has it. The most important is the internal beauty not the external beauty. The girls around you are beautiful but you are no more less. People will never hate you for your external appearance but they will love for your internal beauty. Always wear your invisible crown on your head as you are the queen of your paradise i.e your home. You think yourself to be stranger than others this is your misconception. You are not strange in fact you are special then them. The one who is special looks different than others. So don`t worry about it, you are special you have your unique beauty. And people will never hate you for your external appearance, they will love you for your internal beauty. Be proud of yourself , you are special you are beautiful.
Is it ok to hate someone because you think that they are ugly?
Realistically, everyone has their own opinions regarding other people’s looks. So it is not uncommon that some people hate ugly people, therefore it is acceptable to them because it is their own thoughts.Morally, I feel like it is horrible to hate someone for something that they can’t control. No one has a choice with regards to which features they are born with, therefore it is cruel to hate someone for it.Psychologically, some people feel the only way they make themselves feel better is by putting others down or bringing light to their negative qualities. Often they will think themselves better or more beautiful than others, meanwhile they’re actually incorrect. It shows insecurity, low self-esteem and arrogance to hate others for being either too beautiful than you, or ugly, because in both instances, subconsciously you are comparing them to yourself and therefore judging yourself.
Can anyone be so ugly that everyone hates him? Then I am so ugly.
Okay! First of all, there's no absolute relation between ugly and hate. It's our own perception of seeing things.Now let me explain how it works. Everytime, when you look into the mirror, you think about how ugly you are, this very thought(which is actually pernicious) resides in your conscious. And next time whenever you look at someone else, you start comparing yourself with him at the very moment, and you observe that people are giving him attention and they love him. Now since this comparison is merely based on looks, you ignore any other quality difference (which is major) you're having with him and you start believing that he's loved by others because of his looks. Due to this belief it's inevitable for you to think that you're ugly and that's why noone loves you, which is not true at all. Let me tell you something, it's not your looks, but your insecurities that makes you ugly. Remember:Now let me tell you a solution. But firstly you have to accept that no solution is going to change the way you think in one day. It will take time, efforts, observations, willingness and patience. So, now what you should start doing first is to start developing positive affirmations about your looks. Start thinking like “I'm not ugly at all. I've got a lot of attractive things.” You need to embrace yourself instead of scolding your looks all the time. Next time you see someone getting attention, observe the way he behaves, his attitude towards others, the way he percieves himself and how he persuades people. Read, read a lot, read articles on attraction, ugliness, insecurities, spirituality. Start meditation, observe your own thoughts at every moment. Self- observation is a very strong weapon for self-improvement. Let the negative thoughts come whenever you're feeling bad, don't stop them, but see them, observe them, observe how they affect you. Some day you'll get used to them and then you'll learn how to tackle them. You have not yet watched this video just go through it:Basic Meditation Session - By Sandeep Maheshwari I How to Meditate for Beginners I HindiWhen you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
Im cry because im so ugly!?
I HATE MYSELF. I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO COPE WITH MY FEELINGS. I HATE HATE HATE MYSELF. I CAN't ever stop crying i just hate life myself people WHY WAS I put on this earth only to suffer?! im so ugly?! nobody wants me and i have no place at all! im 14, a girl, and haven't started puberty. I'm not exaggerating when i say i have the chest of a 8 year old boy. i have no boobs watsoever and i don't even fit in a training bra. i have no waist and im only 5'0". my nose is 3.5 inches wide and is roman and bulbous. i have severe acne and i go to a dermatologist and we've been trying to get rid of it for years. i have a horrible smile that is shaped like a heart and i have no top lip and i hate smiling cuz it makes my nose look BIGGER. my eyes are just ugly and my eye-brows are sparse yet grow like a wildfire and my lips are crusty and i have cysts and a EXTREMELY FAT CHIN. I HAVE NO CHIN. I WISH I HAD A DEFINED CHIN AND LOOKED MORE FEMININE. I LOOK SO UGLY. EVERYONE ALWAYS TELLS ME SO. its weird cuz i burst out in tears in public sometimes because i just hate myself. i hate how i look and i hate my personality. i have no confidence whatsoever. my best friend also says im ugly and she is SO pretty! im so unphotogenic. I look in the mirror and think i look ok but when i take a picture i look so ugly and i cry. i don't want to get plastic surgery cuz its expensive and i am deathly afraid of shots. i can't live this way how do i live this way WHY CAN'T I JUST BE A NORMAL PERSON LIVING A HAPPY NORMAL LIFE WHEN GOD MADE ME ONLY TO LIVE IN MISERY I JUST WANT TO BE NORMAL I WANT TO BE PRETTY AND I WANT TO BE WANTED