Why do bad things always happen after I masturbate?
Hey, Jacob - Bad things don't happen just because a person masturbates. You may be associating the "bad things" with masturbating if you feel guilty about masturbating or if it makes you feel badly, otherwise. Any day can be a lucky or unlucky day - how events affect you depends on your perception of them. If you're feeling bad or guilty about masturbating, then you'll find ways to punish yourself, like having "unlucky" things happen to you. Those "unlucky" events would occur anyway, whether or not you masturbated. And, not to cross any religious boundaries, but I don't believe that God punishes people for masturbating, either. So, no matter if you believe in God or the Fates or Destiny, if you're going to masturbate, enjoy it - don't feel badly about it.
Why do all the bad things happen to me?
I used to ask this question almost every day.. and ended up with frustration.But then one day I met a kid, I was lost in my thoughts sitting at window seat in DTC bus.That kid came and said “ didi shoe polish karwa lo" ( Can I polish your shoes), I thought he was begging. I simply ignored.He got out of the bus from front door and I saw him carrying a small school bag and that polish rack.And we were waiting for green signal and was stuck in a traffic jam.He sat on foot path under tree shadow and opened his school bag and took books out of it and started writing.I was shocked, I watched this type of scene in Bhagbaan movie, I got out of the bus and tried to talk, he was studying GK(general knowledge).I asked in which class do you study. He said I study on my own. I said GOVT is providing free books and meals ypu can join GOVT school. He said if I will join school I will get food but my mother and younger sisters won't get.I am the only son and its my responsibility to make them happy as I will be the man of the house. I laughed as he was only 8yrs old. And he was talking like 20yrs old guy. But at the same time I overwhelmed.I offered him 100bucks, he denied.“ Didi, I dont beg, I do my Job and earn money".I asked him how much do u earn?He said 50–60. But oneday I earned 70. I bought chocolates for my younger sisters.I learnt a lesson. DONT SAY Y BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO ME?Either try to solve your problem, if you can't do anything to solve it, THEN STOP WORRYING.Everything happens for a reason.Good Luck :-)
Am I born to live my life unfortunate?
Things always go wrong in whatever I do in life. Even things that I have no control over and are purely due to chances and luck, I always get screwed over. Always. It seems that all odds are against me, and I was just born to be unlucky. And If I try my best and give my best effort in something, I do worse. Should I just give up in life? I am angry, confused, and depressed. I am lost.
What is the worst thing that could happen to a woman?
Every person is different. I do suspect that if you asked 10000 men and 10000 women this question, you'd get some similarities (death of a spouse/child/friend/pet/self; inability to conceive; loss of income; loss in general) across the groups (as well a lot of differences.)I'm actually similar in that regard. For me, personally, the thing that haunts me is loss of intellect. The absolute worst thing that I can imagine happening to me is dementia/altzheimers. I have as many safeguards in place as I possibly can to preserve my memory (that's entirely the point of Evernote) and my diet basically consists of foods that are proven to enhance brain function (and little else - I literally couldn't care less about the rest of my body.)The thing is, it's also an entirely unrealistic fear that I have. In the entire known history of my family, only one relative succumbed to dementia, and that was because she never read, never left her home and never even watched television. She simply didn't use her brain at all so it stopped working.My family is full of sharp-minded, long-lived people. It doesn't even matter at what level the intelligence. To me, the brain is the most important thing a person has, and the only thing that we can truly use from birth until death.Beauty fades, Strength weakens, and anything external (people, pets, material goods) is ephemeral - but our minds can continue to be sharp and alive right up until the end.I'm frightened constantly that I'll do something to screw that up.