Why do men like skinny girls more than fat girls?
Actually most men don’t like skinny or fat girls.Most of my friends, myself included, get turned off by skinny girls.We just can’t comprehend why girls/women can’t see the ugliness of bones when they see themselves and they insist on staying that way.They look like survivors in the immediate aftermath of a famine.Fat girls on the other hand, are also not attractive to most of us.The perfect balance lies in the “healthy” zone.Not all bones and not all flabby.Here is an imageWithout the doubt, model 2 is the most attractive but given a choice between 1 and 3, most of us WILL VOTE FOR 3.That is the curvy female body men crave.But by fat if you mean something like this:Then this is certainly not attractive.
Why is being an overweight woman a deal breaker for men?
I no I am not the only one who is constantly told how nice I am or how men say they had gfs who was more like me. But I never get the guys I like to show interest beyond friendship. While they are always trying to be more than friends to my thinner friends. Why is being overweight a deal breaker or hinderence to your dating life no matter how positive other qualities are?
Do you think some overweight women are desperate in romantic relationships?
My question would be, "What do you consider fat?" I see more guys going for the fat women than the skinny women. I believe society has made being fat negative. Women who have self esteem issues are the ones who tend to throw themselves at men. They can be, tall, short, skinny, or fat. Let me clear up what I have seen as some would call fat. I personally have seen women who are not obese but maybe not a size 6, get called fat because they were a little thicker than someone else. So that goes with my question on what do you call fat? A woman needs to have self confidence and love herself before she can go out looking for love in a man or anyone else and it doesn't matter what size she is or she will seem desperate. Just my opinion and yes, for the record, I am what some would call fat. I am not desperate for attention or love from anyone. I am confident in who I am and I treat people as such but the reality is that a lot of women don't and it's sad because they are all beautiful souls.
Would women date fat guys?
Yes. I suppose women would date fat guys if they were drawn to them in close friendship that could possibly lead to a relationship. Don’t get me wrong; his weight would definitely be an issue and women would most likely speak to their overweight lover about both the health reasons for shedding pounds, and also the law of attraction in regard to physical appearance. So often when the issue of love and relationships is addressed, people seem to fall along the lines of women preferring the “inside” (personality, values, confidence, etc.) and men preferring looks. I believe this belief system allows some, not all, men to fall into the habit of being unkempt and not as concerned about their physical self. Make no mistake about it. This IS a turn-off for women. We also need someone pleasant to look upon to stir and stoke those romantic flames. So guys: though we may be more forgiving and allow ourselves to make a connection with you if you are overweight, in order to keep us interested it is suggested that you hit the gym and make moderate healthy eating a part of your lifestyle. Just a suggestion…
Why do most women accept mediocrity from the men they date?
Why not strive for helping to better your partner or dating someone else who’s more ambitious and doesn’t just want to laze about and live a mediocre life. I see so many women married to guys who just let themselves get fat, don’t help around the house, never romance them, never give an effort, just come home from work and lay on the couch and smoke a pack or drink a 6 pack and snore themselves to sleep apnea death. Like what the hell? The guy is a loser, face it. There’s tons of better men out there than that but they settle for this mediocrity
Why don't attractive women generally approach short men to initiate sexual or romantic relationships, despite egalitairianism/feminism?
OK Gerik, What would you do if an unattractive or overweight woman approached you and initiated a sexual or romantic relationship with you? Honestly what would you do? Would you turn her down? Would you laugh at her? Would you abuse her? Would you sneer at her call her names or humiliate her in front of your friends? Would you make an example of her? What would your reaction be? You will notice that usually when a female turns a guy down it will be done with respect to his ego. eg, 'I just want to be friends, you are a lovely guy but I am not interested.' It is all said to ensure that his feelings are not hurt by the rejection. Do you think females are afforded this respect? In a lot of instances they are not. Women will play it cool and with good reason. They have a lot at stake. They are not sure of you or your intentions. Are you looking to abuse them? Are you looking to take advantage of them? You stated that men will go for women with low self esteem. WHY? Is this so they can get what they want from them and leave? Easily control them? In regards to a woman you are dealing with a person who has emotions, feelings and value just like you. They are not an ornament or an object.
Can a beautiful girl love a fat man?
Love is obivously cannot be scaled on such criteria of Weight or Beauty or Richness or Smartness or anything else.But this is a fact that Starting of love starts from Attraction and Attraction need some strong factors to work on. Let me point those Attraction Factors :Its Appearance.Yes the physical apperance plays a role as u just can not show purity of your heart or your mind to a person on first meeting.Social Reputation. This plays a significant role to attract someone as Its your Social Image which reaches much faster than your physical image :DEconomic and Political Viability of a Person. Please don't get angry on me for putting this as a factor for Attraction but this really plays a role. Why a Person comes to you even without much connection with you? Ponder over it you will get answer.Last but not least Communication and Art of handling Persons. This is one of most significant factor which work in Attraction DevelopmentThe above points are starting of love but not the sole reasons for love.Now with any of above qualities or with a blend of above qualities you have the person in Attraction with you.Now the only Driving force is you heart and soul.Higher the Pure of heart you are...Higher the chances that Love gets its space between two persons.Once love is there...Let me clear you no other factors like Fatness or Madness or even Stubborness plays any roleBest Wishes and keep loving.
Isn't it absolutely disgusting that we (women) are judged because of our bodies?
Think about it: In romantic relationships; women are literally dumped soley based on if they want to have sex. If a woman was born without a vagina (I believe one or two women have been born without one), then (this is not what I think it's what most males think) she has no value. And it seems like it's normal for women to just fake it while they're bored with sex and for men to be the only ones enjoying it. One woman even said,"In and out [talking about sex/intercourse] is for him, not you." It's sad.
Do fat/bigger women have trouble finding a partner both casually or romantically?
The perception is that fat women can’t get laid. The perception is that fat women have to settle for second best. The perception is that fat women will only be able to be with a fat men and that both sexes will end up with one another because no-one else will have them.That’s what people think.It’s wrong.Look around you. You only have to walk down the street on a Saturday to see how diverse couples are in reality.Fat with thin, tall with short, black with white and all the combinations you can imagine. There is no rhyme or reason as to why people are attracted to one another.Because of how my wife and I look, she’s fat and I’m well built, I notice a certain ‘type’ of couple more than others and I joke and say “It seems to be fashionable don’t you think? Every guy seems to want a fat girl on his arm.”My joke is also not factually correct but my point is that there are a lot of fat women walking hand in hand with normal sized men. Many of those so called fat women are with very good looking men I might add.Size is not that important in the real world. Sure, people have preferences but if you’re fat it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be partnered with people you’re attracted to. There are no rules in this game.To answer your question directly. No, fat women do not have trouble finding a partner.I think they, like everyone, only struggle to find partners if they have poor body image or low self confidence. Unfortunately for the larger person this is more common than for the more ‘normal’ sized among us.