Poll: Do women find ripped guys more attractive? or skinny or overweight?
I'm a dang gay man, and I like dang men who are cute. Body doesn't matter so dang much.
Do women find chubby men attractive?
Before we start: I cannot speak for all girls, because I am only myself and no more. I also may not be the best source, being asexual, so I apologize in advance.But, I have always considered love and attraction as coming from the heart. I’ve always cared more about however he is on the inside rather than the outside. The guy in the photo is aesthetically pleasing, as are other people of varying descriptions.Fat doesn’t bother me; never has, never will. Everyone has it. Fat is what our body stores to take care of itself. And yeah, some of us have more than others. But so what? I have fat. You have fat. The supermodel over there has fat. The Olympic athlete on the other side has fat.Fat is not the measure of a person.So, I assure you, however you look is absolutely fine. There are seven billion different types of beauty on this planet; there’s someone out there who’s gonna appreciate yours.See: C.J.'s answer to Why am I sometimes attracted to heavier guys? if you want more information.
Why do fat women try to convince others that fat is okay?
This term BBW is so ridiculous. Big Beautiful Woman is an oxymoron. There is nothing beautiful about being fat. Not only is it unattractive, it is unhealthy and leads to diabetes, heart disease, cancer, stroke, etc... It is statistically proven that obese women do not live as long as their healthy weight counterparts. Now I see on TV, in articles, and other forms of media about a "fat acceptance" movement. Where our society should accept fatness and the fact that over 2/3s of Americans are fat. They refuse to acknowledge that the #1 cause of preventable death is no longer smoking but is being overweight. For those that want to point to genetics... This country is found on decedents from other countries. No other country is this fat, so that is a moot point. For those that want to point to health issues (i.e. Thyroid conditions). Less than 3% of the US population has an under-active Thyroid. Face it. Our country's diet is horrible, our food portion size is ridiculous compared to other countries, and we are not active as a society. I'm sickened by this trend and the blind eye toward it. It is perfectly okay to make comments toward smokers and their disgusting lifestyle (which I agree) but not okay to give the same looks toward a fat person scarfing down a cheeseburger at McDonalds.
Why do many muscular guys date chubby women?
Because maybe they used to be chubby themselves and realize there is more to a person than weight. Some of them also may be sick of vain gym bunnies and go for personality or see the true beauty underlying size. Alot of men who take care of themselves are sensitive, deep men with great personalities, but then there are the vain ones too.
Why am I not as pretty as other girls?
I bet you're a lot prettier then you think you are. I often wonder what some women see when they look in the mirror. Are they even looking in the same mirror every one else is? Why is what they see is not what I see? I think what you are mistaking for "pretty" is really just, as you said your self, make up and clothes. Add a huge dash of confidence to that and you've got the illusion of pretty. Take a really close look at those girls. They probably aren't half as pretty as you (and they) think they are. But at the same time, learn something from them. Find clothes that are comfortable and make you feel pretty. Practice putting make up on in a good light and in a way that brings out your best features. Perhaps your eyes. And start concentrating on your strengths, not what you think are your weaknesses. Everyone has flaws. Everyone! Stop dwelling on them and celebrate your strengths. Remember, beauty really does come from within and I'll bet you are a knock out!
Why don't guys like chubby girls?
The very statement of your question as fact is untrue. Your question implies that all guys don't like chubby girls.Just as there are different models for the shape of the female body, meaning there isn't one way to be, there are also men who like multiple body types. Some of them like chubby girls, some even like really heavy women.For myself, when young, I married a thin Asian woman. Then I divorced, and the next ltr was with a woman that was chubby, whom I initially wasn't much attracted to. In or second date, she wore a very flattering dress and a big white hat. That did it for me! That lasted almost 5 years. My current wife isn't a skinny girl either. Those things aren't as important in my 50s as they once seemed when younger.
My girlfriend has become ugly. I love her, but I'm not physically attracted to her anymore. I am in a helpless situation. What should I do?
Okay. It's a bit old topic but Here is the other side. Depends on what you find ugly about her. Few months ago my bf told me I should take care more of my face skin cuz I started neglecting it. He never said I should wear make up or do some drastic changes on myself. He just said that for my good and I realised it. At first I was a bit upset. Trust me I started telling him to go and find someone else, more beautiful girl, and he was replying: “ I dont want to find someone else. I love you and I only tell you this because I care for you.” That repeated many times by the time , I started looking more in the mirror and noticed all those pimples that had appeared there, together with blackheads. Although, he was telling me I was beautiful, I really found it disturbing. And I should admitit is not really healthy and attractive. If you love that girl, give her advices how to treat herself, be her motivator. Show that you care. Sometimes we just need a little push in the right direction but it got to be with the right words. Be kind to her, not harsh. Never stop showing you love her, if you really do. I am maniak on being fit and sometimes go extreme in that direction. He always tells me is not healthy to diet and that he loves my body. Maybe some of you still will think he doesn't love me, but I see it in his actions, however, even if you are right, at least I know he was the motivation I needed in my life. That's how I respect myself more and do pay more attention to the details. I still don't wear any make up, I just take more care of my skin. Nice but honest words is is the key.
What do Koreans think of slightly chubby Americans?
We don't usually think of anything since there are slightly chubby Koreans too. Some people may have their own opinion and call a fat person a fatty or a pig and it may happen. But Koreans don't make fun out of people's body like Americans do and publicly humiliate them by making up stereotypes and put it up on the internet. Do all Asian men really have small penises ? Ha!Most of us would think, that person must eat well. As a matter of fact, there's a famous chubby Australian Korean in South Korea. He is famous for showing up on the TV shows. I've seen him in a lot of Korean TV shows.Do south Korean people make fun of him? Yup, they do. Lol. Not directly to call him fat but Korean people make fun of him because he is “so Korean". Sam Hammington stayed in South Korea for over 15 years. And he surprises himself when he meets a new foreigner because he sometimes forget how to speak English. Lol.A chubby lady from Finland is popular in Korea. No one ever judged about her eating habits. Instead, she is admired by many Koreans. Her name is Taru Salminen.Taru Salminen Taru Salminen - Google SearchShe is also a TV entertainer and she runs a Korean restaurant in Korea. Nobody ever called her chubby or anything.And it's true that Korean people dislike fat people who thinks they are all that. So, if there's an arrogant chubby American acting all arrogant and shamelessly shaking their booty thinking they can do that because they are from America? Korean people may jump them, call the police and may try to fight some chubby Americans.3 American Women Twerk, Yell Racist Remarks at Man in South Korean SubwayPlease respect other's cultures and people. Thanks for reading.