Has slvt shaming become a means to shirk responsibility?
Is slvt shaming being used in a way that allows people to avoid taking responsibility for the decisions they make? For example. A) The sexually active teenager that gives birth to her 2nd child at the age of 17. B) The person that (repeatedly) drinks to the point of passing out. Then ended up being sexually assaulted. C) The female that does paternity tests for 8 men. Each time claiming the man tested is the biological father of her child prior to the DNA tests results that proved that the man tested is not the biological father. Yes slvt is not only a term that describes females for they are lots of man slvts as well. D) The father of 5 children with 5 different baby mothers. That tries with lady number 6. E) The slvt that refuses to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases and continues having unprotected sex. So does the term slvt shaming get used in a way that allows a person to avoid taking responsibility for their decisions? When a slvtty lifestyle leads to something bad happening does the words 'accept responsibility' mean that one is 'victim blaming'? For example A female (not a child) willingly gets into a completely strangers car. Sober / Drunk In some cases gets, assaulted Other times ends up on a missing persons lists (some are eventually found others remain missing) Sometimes even gets killed.
What is the biggest problem of being a woman in today's society?
That so many men refuse to believe that sexism against women is a problem. Or that sexism even exists at all.1. Generally speaking*, men don't like to be made aware of the male privilege.They don't like to acknowledge that there is a negative, social imbalance between the genders. It's easier to deny it's existence.They don't want to be accused as a perpetrator or to be identified as part of the problem. They become indignant and resentful.No one likes to be blamed for something they may not fully understand or that they do not directly experience, or suffer from.2. If men do acknowledge sexism at all, it is usually to claim that men suffer just as much as women. Sexism against women is a historically ingrained, institutionalized concept. Throughout the centuries, women have been continually persecuted and disadvantaged, in nearly all facets of daily life, simply due to their gender. Men have not. I acknowledge that men can, and do, experience discriminatory challenges. But please understand that you have never been hindered by a history of deep institutional bias, as an exclusive result of your gender. We live in dominantly patriarchal societies where the balance of opportunity has always been tipped towards favouring men. You have, and probably always will have, the societal upper-hand. You have deeply rooted privilege, simply because you are a man.3. If we, as women, say that we have experienced discrimination due to our gender, we will be told we are wrong. That it didn't happen. That we are too sensitive. That we need to lighten up. That we need to stop playing the victim. That we just want something to complain about. That we're crazy and hormonal. That we're trying to overpower men.If our experiences aren't immediately denied or minimalised, then they are justified by men. We will told why we deserved, or should've expected, these experiences of sexist discrimination to occur. We are regularly told that it is our fault. While the sexist behaviours of men will be excused, upheld or even applauded.Women all over the world continue to be handicapped by very real problems that are a sole and direct consequence of the sex organ between their legs.Conclusion: Sexism does exist.*Please note: I am speaking generally, from my experiences and perspectives. I understand that not all men are sexist, deny that sexism exists or contribute to sexist behaviour.