Are there certain types of people who do not like INFJ’s?
There are two main groups that ultimately can’t stand me.One, you allude to in your question/comments. I am not comfortable with people, period, that I don’t feel I am on equal footing with. Meaning, if you want a sycophant that tells you how wonderful you are, swoons and bats their eyelashes at you, you are gonna hate me (and don’t pretend you would do the same for me). I am a horrible actress, so I won’t even try. I may recognize a very few people as an authority, like my boss, but that is easy to do because I don’t want his job and it isn’t really much in the way of a hierarchical relationship. I just as similarly don’t want to get fawned over, treated like the boss or treated with respect I haven’t earned…it makes me feel vaguely ill and it is alienating. People that don’t want to be on equal footing, one way or another, will not like me, and I will end up avoiding you.Then, just to second what Victor Sjöstedt already mentioned, I have problems with Sensors, but much more specifically XSTXs. I didn’t recognize it as a pattern until I became more immersed in MBTI, figured out the types I had repeated issues with, and began to see the pattern emerge. I drive STs batshit crazy over time. Initially, they appreciate a lot of things about me, particularly my diligence, laid back/nonconfrontational nature, and thoughtfulness, and they get lured in by these facets and start to have illusions about me as a person. But at the end of the day, I don’t conform, and trying to get me to do so solely based on “You need to fit neatly into my arbitrary expectations” ends up being a nightmare. I can’t do it on principle (I absolutely have to make personal decisions on my own comprehension of Right and Wrong/being authentic, while they have little to no concept of Live and Let Live), so I am considered inexorably stubborn. Probably not so surprisingly (to any non XSTXs out there), ultimately getting told to “Shut up and do as I say” doesn’t work with me either. So I end up becoming deeply resentful and hurt by the manipulation and bullying, while muttering how people want me to join their Borg collective or be their Performing Monkey. They end up profoundly disappointed in me. Things deteriorate from there in a spectacular fashion. This has happened to me a few too many times at this point, and I will do Sign of the Cross and run at the first whiff of an ESTJ.
Do certain types of people have pit bulls?
Pit bulls are used and trained for illegal dog fight purposes because of their powerful jaws and muscular build. They are not fighters the minute they are born but have to be trained to the ring. They are extremely territorial and protective, however, about their humans and will take on threats as perceived to their environment.That said, I can honestly say that as the mother of a single female working and living in a large Texas city, there is no other dog I would rather my daughter own than the Bonbon! Bon is a wuss until there is someone beating on the door or trying to approach her owner while she is leashed. Watching the Bon try to climb up on the couch with her squatty body and short legs is comic relief. She allows my daughter to jog and not be worried about personal safety while getting exercise outside. Let’s just say that pits have a reputation that precedes them because of the stupid,cruel “sport” of dogfighting.
I have been told that certain types of people drive Mercedes? What type of people are those?
Well, i have bought Mercedes for years and i am not rich, but i am not poor either, because they don't go wrong, so they are excellent value, excellent quality, and are just beautiful to look at and drive............no matter what that "dumbshi*" on top something say's. So, i have said my piece and i hope youall have the sense to take notice.
How do you stop feeling intimidated by certain types of people? Is it normal to categorize people as cooler than you or less cool than you? How do I stop categorizing people like that?
I feel similar quite often, however I consider myself much improved based upon a couple of different ideas.First, I try to involve myself in things that eliminate these types of feelings. Try joining a group, club, or hobby that you feel you are talented in. For me, this eliminated many of the feelings of inadequacy or inferiority because it eliminated any feelings that I wasn't quite as good as someone else. Second, I analyzed who the people who made me feel inferior and I asked myself if I wanted to be friends/socialize/be around these people. If not, then maybe that group just isn't your niche. Some people just don't mesh with others, but that's okay. Personally, I don't find people I mesh with all that often, and I'm more introverted, so I always feel like I'm the odd one out. It's nothing to be worried about, it's just possibly more difficult for someone like myself to make friends. Many times finding people who are just easy to have a conversation with and make these feelings disappear are the ones you want to surround yourself with the most.And it's normal to rate whether you feel you are cooler or not than someone else. Humans are built to interpret the power of others, aka their "coolness", or their desirability by others.The more people you surround yourself with that make you not have these feelings of inferiority will help boost your ability to think of everyone as a unique individual. This is how I combat those same feelings.
Why so many different types of people with different skin color?
This canNOT be ignored. Sure we can try to get along and it seems to be working with growing pains and not so much growing pains. Realistically without opinionated religion, non factual evidence, brainwashed ideas, etc. What caused different types of people with different skin color? We can see people from different parts of the world had differences from early on and with time our population grew. After many wars and world exploration discoveries, we have explored our world and gained knowledge that our ancestors were oblivious of the full scope we know today. Yet we are still stubborn to take new information in at a rate that is obvious. What caused this, was it environmental or some other influence why there's different skin on others and why do we dismiss this question? We are being told it's melanin and that confuses most to stop the thought process excusing it to evolution or some opinionated higher being, although that is a theory and opinionated. Sure we can measure and record change and compare with other organisms, although can we measure our intelligence on dismissing a new discovery as such to an opinion or should we actually think what reality is and that is what it is. We are beings on this world that have an origin that we are scattered around the world, with over time having an increasing population, therefore merging our differences together from what is unknown of how we became here. Thank you and please answer your thoughts why so many...?
How do I deal with different types of people?
While living in this society, we have built up many doubts, confusion in our mind. Whatever path we choose to take up, soon there arises a doubt in the mind. For example, when we select a shirt or dress, there arises in mind whether it will suit or not. That is why we seek opinion of others in while taking a step in life.Even if a no of people give green signal, doubt still continues. It has gone into our blood.Your question is based upon this doubt. It clearly shows that you are not sure how to deal with people. You are quite grown up, must have dealt with a good no of people. Still there arises a doubt.In fact, it is there in almost all of us.I will quote a Zen practice here.During initial period of practice of Zen, students are offered some koans and asked to find solution of them. In fact, it takes vary long time for each one, many times students fails to solve.There is a koan practice, as given below, it is called clapping with one hand.Students are asked to clap with two hands and listen to sound of clapping. Thereafter, they are asked to clap with one hand. That is to say, one hand will move over the air, and student is expected to listen to it. In fact, a few succeeds after years of practice. Many times, there happens failure.After all, how can you listen to sound coming out of one hand clapping ? It is nothing ,but listening to sound of silence. But, students make effort to listen.When there is effort , there is doubt. Truly speaking, doubt in the mind leads to effort. If it is clearly understood that there is no possibility to listen to sound of one hand clapping, then the very effort is dropped.Hence, you need to clear your doubt over your question.You have asked how to deal with different types of people. This clearly shows that you are not confident about yourself. You are not knowing your nature. You are not knowing your capability, incapability. So , you are in doubt about your own dealing with people.I suggest you to do meditation, guided type , preferably. You will get innet. Then, the mind will be clear. You will be able to see things clearly. You will regain your childhood.Then you will find easy to deal with people.