Why do guys put down women? What is the point?
Because they are losers who have no lives and haven't moved from the maturity of a 2nd grader. Didn't you know that if you like a girl then you are supposed to push her in the dirt? That is how you ask them to marry you! As long as he keeps it at words on-line and doesn't move out from behind the sanctity of his computer then, just ignore him. He isn't worth the time to think about! He is just some loser who has nothing better to do than insult a girl who is simply virtual to him because he lives in his mothers garage and can't hold an er*ction.
Is a life without companionship worth living???
For the better part of the past ten years, I have been attempting to attract the interests of women by improving myself in ways to bring myself closer to what women CLAIM to find attractive in a man, and what they ACTUALLY find attractive (these are apparently different). I have read many of the various dating guides, observed how successful guys behave in bars/clubs, and made every other attempt to determine what women desire so that I might fulfill this desire. Despite this, I have been largely unsuccessful in attracting the interests of a woman. Over the years, I have succeeded in finding a few female friends, but they were never interested in being anything more then friends, and on very few (2) occasions have managed to find girls who were desperate enough to sleep with me for a single evening, and the last of these was over three years ago. Despite my attempts to improve my personality, and appearance, I am admittedly quite ugly.
Why do men put women down?
The reason why a male would put down females in general is because of low self-esteem. It is like someone making others feel badly in order to make themselves feel better; they tie their own emotional state in with those of others outside of themselves, and they can’t feel good about who they are unless others around them are feeling bad. This is the same concept when it comes to males who put down other females, other women; they do this because they feel they have to put other women in their place or make other women feel stupid or degrade them so that they themselves can feel good about who they are or feel important or in-charge. It is a lack of good moral grounding, good upbringing too, and it is due to a serious lack of respect for the opposite sex. Women are guilty of doing this as well to men; putting down males or trying to make them feel like losers or that they are stupid. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve gone out to clubs or to a bar and it never fails that there will always be a (pack) of women there, clustered together, and much of the time they do their best to see who can ‘shoot-down’ a guy who comes up to them in the worse way or worse than others in their so called (click). Neither are in the right, from the males who put down women, to the women who put down men, both are in the wrong, and they do it for similar reasons. It is either peer pressure to curry favor with their friends around them, or because they have a total lack of self-worth and self-esteem, and they can’t feel good about who they are unless they are putting down someone else, or making another person feel badly.
Is life worth living being a black male?
I ask this because I am tired of not just the white race but every other race putting black males down on the bottom on every aspect. We automatically get judged by our skin color and that's bullsh*t. I know the stereotypes of black males and all that. I am most definitely not like that. I have been in the army for two years and I work my *** off in order to achieve my goal of becoming a physical therapist/ personal trainer. But it doesn't matter what I do, I will always be thought of as a delinquent. As far as dating wise? Dont get me started. Most girls don't even like black men's features like skin and big lips etc. You wonder why the media only pays attention to us in a negative light. And then you got the rioting and everything going on. What pisses me off the most are the parents. They convince women that black men are no good and say all these lies about us. 1 girl I know as a friend said her parents told her that they don't want her having a baby with a black dude because theybfear the baby might have a hard dating life. That made me feel like ****, because I'm a 6ft3 200_lb weightlifter and I still haven't had a gf yet, let alone sex. I see white and Hispanic guys get it like its nothing, but that's beside the point. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like giving up. But I know I came because I want to be happy and live a good life, but it is f*cking hard, and I think I'll die alone.