Why do I feel like two different people?
First of all, I would implore you to refrain from viewing yourself as "weird". Lots of people suffer from Social Anxiety; you're not alone in your struggle. Rather than weird, I would just consider you a different person, just as we are all different, with our strengths and our weaknesses. The "two people" you experience can just be separate manifestations of your personality. Its easy to be more outgoing within your comfort zone, which is entirely understandable. So really, what I would suggest is an attempt to widen your comfort zone. Its easy to be attracted to the slings and arrows of popularity, but just focus on close friend relationships. The more you can disclose a complete picture of yourself to those who care about you, the more comfortable you might feel. All the best.
Other than bipolar, can a person still act like two different people?
Well you're not bipolar- that's when you go between mania (extreme energy and happiness) and depression over a period of months. If anyone says split personality no that's not it- it's incredibly rare and you would have blackouts where you would do things but not remember them because you were in another personality. It's not that you're acting like two different people, it's more that you're just unable to control your reactions to people (like you said) which isn't a specific disorder in itself. Talk to a counselor, someone with a psychology background, anything along those lines. I don't think you have any extreme sort of mental illness like bipolar or anythign like that- you're just not doing anything extreme enough.
Why do people behave in two different ways?
Well! There could be many reasons to it or none but let's pick some of them:-there are some people who are very sensitive about their public image i.e. What people think about them.., what others know about them and so on .. These people in order to prove themselves superfluous sometimes or mightbe always don’t show their ‘own’ self I mean they do everything very carefully… JUST TO SHOW OFF!!2. Now the second category of people deals with the diplomats , hipocrites & the yes man .The diplomats will never show their face at all. They’ll always hide themselves behind the bush. They’ll never in anyone's matter on their own until they are forcefully dragged in. In a fight, they'll remain neutral to both the parties. Thus, behaving in two different ways!!The hipocrites will feel something in their heart but never reveals it. He always do the things in other way. Again, it borne the duality in his nature. He say something but does anything else.A yes man is a third category of men who will never refuse anyone always trying make his superiors happy nomatter how sad he is feeling. Thus, behaving in an exceptional way!!All these kind of people will always try to use YOU as much as possible so please be careful! And even if you suspect of anyone's dual nature never befriend them..!
Do you ever feel like you're two different people?
I'm really surprised to see so many people saying that you should just embrace it because it is normal. “Normal” is not the same as “healthy”.If you respond differently according to who is there watching it means you wear a mask that you created out of fear. Fear of rejection, abandonment, betrayal, humiliation, etc.This is why you hate this aspect of your life! Your soul wants the freedom to be authentic and express itself and you can't because you are ruled by fear! You are a prisoner to the opinions of others, so much so that you will suffocate yourself to appease them.Why do we do this???Because we don't believe ourselves to be enough just as we are. For who we are. We lack true unshakeable confidence, which is based in deep love for oneself, so we wear a mask instead.Knock that shit off. Be YOU, the you that you know you get to be.It will change the world! Because do you know how many people are suffocating in exactly the same way you are? Wanting nothing more than to feel at home in their own skin?When you give yourself permission to be yourself and grant yourself unconditional self-acceptance it is like a breath of fresh air to those around you, and they will unconsciously grant themselves more permission to be themselves.When you accept yourself as you are you are naturally much more able to accept others, and people are craving acceptance, but nobody realizes (as demonstrated by all the answers on this thread) that we can give ourselves all the acceptance we will ever need.For more on this check out THE AUTHENTICITY CODE and if you want support in breaking free of your fake masks I highly recommend following this guy.
Can a relationship between two people who are very different from each other work?
Absolutely! People who are different are the best people to learn and grow from! If you’re meaning having different foundation values such as marriage and kids then no. Lol probably wouldn’t work as wants need to match. But being different people certainly can work! As long as you respect differences.For me personally I find it slightly boring to be around or with like-minded people. There’s no challenges there, no real fuel or drive that sparks interest or curiosity. i like my partner different. I learn a bit from them and my differences and their differences compliment each other such as one is more direct and one is more sensitive to others. It’s all about understanding that people are different and the intentions behind it. From personal experience, I was a bit of a pushover, far too nice and generous while my partner was a bit more tough love and he’d keep me in check. He rubbed off on me a bit but in good ways that improved my well-being because sometimes I did put others happiness in front of my own. And on his end, he could be too tough on people and not understand how some people’s feelings would be hurt and I’d have to help him understand a bit and reign it back in, I also helped keep him in check as well. Being different made a good balance. We had different qualities that were very strong but put together we balanced them out. Kind of became “one”.
Should I divorce my husband because we are two different people?
I need help, My name is Pamela and I'm 25 years old. I have been with my husband since I was 19. At the beginning everything was good, but now its not so good. Nothing bad, but we are just two different people. Our likes and dislikes are the opposite. Things that he does drive me crazy and I complain about them and speak my mind, but he does not like to hear me out. He says that I will never control him, but I am not trying to control him at all. I feel that marriage its about compromising and doing things for each other. I love to spend time together, but he works a lot. Then whenever he is home, football its more important to him. Our sex life its not good at all. I don't know if I should wait and see if we can make it work or if I should just let him go. By the way, we have separated twice already. This might be our last shot.
My best friend acts like two completely different people and I'm drifting apart from her because of this. What should I do?
Perhaps she is more complicated than you think? We're all different around different people. I'm not going to curse around my mom or drink at work. She likes who she is around these people and she's allowed to be that person. As her friend, you shared your feelings. At the same time she's an independent person and gets to make the choice about who she wants to be. Spend time with her without the other friends and your problem is solved. There's no reason everyone always has to spend time together is there? She's your friend, not the others.
Hizbollah and Al-qaeda are two different people,al-qaeda is no doubt a terrorist org,wht u think?
We have to look into the reality, the whole media is controlled by jewish lobbies, they show as hizbollah is shooting over the shoulders of labanoese innocent people,i am a person who is totally against Al-Qaeda type terrorists, but in case of hizbollah,people love them,al-qaeda and and hizbollah are two different groups of people, al-qaeda is a sunni muslim where as hizbollah's are shia, for alqaeda it is their beliefs to kill innocnet people, not only those who belong to other religion and even the shias, but the shia community or hizbollah has no such believs, for shia muslims it is a sin to give pain to anyone whether a muslim or a non muslim, but what the jewish lobby is doing, they are representing hizbollah as alqaeda to the people of the world, which totally wrong.people of lebanon love hizbollah,theu elect them in election,therefore trying to kill hizbollah or labanese or those who living peacefully with their religion is a real sin.