My friend deleted 'useless' pics from my mobile without informing me. I got angry when I came to know about this. Am I wrong?
Friendzone - many people are under impression that we can do anything and everything with our friends' stuff -taken for granted. They do not seek for permission. I don't know how you reacted on him; however what do you expect from him is absolutely relevant. He is not suppose to delete any of pics and in case he felt so he could have taken your permission before doing it. Sometimes what we say is not important, but how we say is important. Something said as request can be digested ans approved easily, rather than informed as notice or warning. Well, he is your friend so you know better how to deal with him. Questioning about anger...is not good for anyone. Learn to be in peace if you can.Do remember - "Har ek friend zaruri hota he"Have fun and stay happy.Thanks.
I feel terrible about my life when I look at the pics my friends post on social media. What can I do to vent my anger about how sad my life is as compared to theirs?
Your life is your life and why would you even try to compare it to someone else? Most people only post the 'happy snaps'. How many times do you hear about the blazing rows other people are having or how finances are tight or the other negative things in their life?So what! You have some times that aren't as good as you'd want or expect.Everyone has a sad story, even me.DO I GET ANGRY ABOUT IT?..... NO WAY!Nor should you get angry that you PERCEIVE that others are having a better time than you.If you are not happy, whose fault is that?If you are angry, who can you blame for that?The answers to those two questions of who is responsible will be revealed when you look in the mirror.So GO and LOOK in the mirror! You now have the answer!So now, what are you going to do about life being better? Answer the question and now do something about it.What happens next is up to you.Here's to a better, positive future for you.
My boyfriend liked another girl's picture on Facebook?
Okay so I've been with this guy for almost a year, and talked to him for longer than that. And last night I saw that he liked this other girl's senior pictures on facebook. I got sort of ridiculously jealous, and maybe I'm overreacting but I stopped texting him even though he sent me like 5 messages trying to figure out what was wrong with me. Anyway, I just feel like, by liking this girl's photo, he sort of made it public that he's interested in another female. I mean, sure we all recognize the attractiveness of others, but we don't have to put it on a social network for everyone to see. And...well he never liked any of MY pictures. I sound jealous and insecure, but is this really overreacting? Opinions? Also, I haven't said anything to him about it, and I probably won't, just because it seems sort of petty, but I just really am bothered by it... Is this overreacting or what?
What should I do when my girlfriend doesn't reply to my texts for hours even though I can see that she has gone on her phone to check Facebook? Should this bother me?
Social media strikes again…You see that fellow up there?That's you and that has been me in the past…I've tried so hard not to fall into this social media trap of having your girlfriend added all over the place and without wanting it or without noticing it following her every step and move virtually.For me it started with Facebook, I would go online and just check my Facebook and then on the right side you could see who was only or when they were last online.There she was, online and not talking to me?How could she do that?How could she dare do that?She should have been in constant contact with me no matter what!Well that's where I was wrong!Sometimes people are on Facebook just to read the news or to browser the news feed brain dead without thinking about anything.You see that fridge?That's Facebook!You know there's nothing good there, but you still open it all the time.This curiosity or simply the fact that we are addicted to it makes us go there on and on again and most of the time you don't talk to no one.You just are there.Just like that banana, you waste your time on a virtual site while your minutes, hours, days pass by you.And when you realize it, you've grew old as the banana. There you go some phylosophical shit right there.The point is…Stop wasting your time on Facebook worrying what might your girlfriend might do or not. Most of the time people are just there, with no intention in mind.Yep, that's me and probably your girlfriend too wasting time on Facebook just because.I've been in a relationship where I needed to respond on the spot and I didn't liked it. When I was finally free I understood what being without your phone all the time meant.Don't be that guy that needs instant response to your messages, people are bussy most of the time or don't feel like talking.I sometimes take a long time to respond to my girlfriend and that's not because I don't like her, I just get lost with other things.Or sometimes I just like to chill and don't want to talk to anyone.Find a hobby, occupy your time and these worries will disappear believe me.If you continue with this it will end your relationship. I've been there and it's not fun believe me.
My boyfriend publicly embarrassed me by flirting with a mutual friend on Facebook?
My boyfriend and I have been planning a special day for just the two of us for months. Finally, on Saturday, we had OUR day. We cuddled, got sexual, watched a couple of movies, ate good food, and just luxuriated in each other's presence, telling each other how much we loved each other. We have been together for 5 months btw. I just found out that he took a break DURING our special day together in order to post a comment on a beautiful mutual friend's photo on Facebook: "If you were selling something, I'd buy it." First off, this was her ENGAGEMENT photo and her fiance was in the background!!! Secondly, I feel this lacks discretion on his part. All of our mutual friends will see the comment, and they all know that we are dating, and it's embarrassing. In school, he liked her a lot but she HAD A FIANCE so she just studied with him and that was it. I like her and I am positive that she would not instigate anything - it's all him. I feel like posting: "Hey S - could you possibly sell M some discretion?" But I did not post anything publicly, I just sent him a short e-mail, which he will get tomorrow, telling him that I thought that the comment was disrespectful and that it was an unpleasant surprise for me to discover it - especially knowing that he posted it on OUR day together! I would never do that to him, out of respect. It is 2am here and now I am having trouble sleeping. What should I do? What do you think about this? I am really upset.
My boyfriend chooses his friends over me.?
I have been dating Mike for over two years and we live together. thought it was serious but he keeps putting his friends first. His best friend and his wife don't think I am right for Mike. They've never displayed any open hostility but I felt that their friendship was taking a turn for the worse so I cut my ties with them by deleting them off facebook, etc.. I thought maybe that if they didn't feel the obligation to invite me to places that they would started inviting Mike to places like the movies, all the fun stuff I wanna do too. For the past month I've been wanting to go to the state fair. I haven't gone in years..Mike knew how much I wanted to go and I was even trying to save up for it (i am terrible at saving money lol). He told me last week that he and the married couple were going shopping. Hours later he comes home telling me how great the concert was a the fair. I am like are you freaking kidding me?! Why would you go with out me? Mike thinks I have no reason to be pissed, since it was a spur of the moment sort of thing. So I guess my question is Do I have a reason to be pissed? This isn't the first time its happened. The second he goes off with his friends I cease to exist in his mind.
What can I do about my mom? I feel like killing myself because of her.?
oh I forgot to add she has got physical before. She throws things at me and hits me with things. Close to halloween she got mad and threw a huge pumpkin at my head, and gave me a concussion and busted my window and glass cut me, and i called the cops, but they said it was fine for her to discipline me and she didn't get in any trouble.
How can I stop comparing my life to others?
Sometimes I get on facebook and look at other people's lives and I envy them lots of friends, nice cars, money, good looks.. I know it's so bad to compare my life to others and I should be happy with what I got but sometimes It gets me really depressed. I'm not the smartest person, I don't have many friends besides my boyfriend, don't have a car yet because my family doesn't have a lot of money.. On top of all that my life at home has been very overwhelming lately. I do have things that make me happy and I am hoping my future is better than my life right now. How can I stop feeling so empty when I see other people with all these things I don't have? I don't want to have this negative outlook on life.