Drunk kissed my best (girl) friend?
okay here's my opinion, hey its only mine (first of all getting drunk is a bad idea and leads to the wrong places, but we're not talking about that, and that isnt my choice, but idc as long as youre safe w/ it :) smiles) but my opinion on the short details you told us(which was enough, unless theyre are other things that take a big role in this...) is that...just go ahead and ask her if she remembers that night, and if she knows what she did, if not tell her the whole story then ask her if she likes you more then a friend, or in simplier terms...was that for real, or was last night just a game, or an experiment, or what so ever, or if she does have any feelings for you, ask how she likes you, friend, bffls, sisters, bitches, or MORE, but all you gotta do is speak the truth if not, then things will lead to places with more questions orrr, you could just kiss her and tell her how you feel and see where that goes if you dont wanna mention you likelike her then you could always kiss her and if she says something like, hey i dont likelike you, then you could say it was a joke or something or theres another option... you could just go on with life and ignore it and wonder questions... id go with the option of the truth just ask her how she thinks of you the truth is always rewarding (even if it sucks) if you ie one thing, thats gonna suck more she couldve done that because she was drunk but maybe her subconious came out and she really DOES likelike you back or you could ask her who she loves or has a crush on or who she thinks is cute/hot/sweet/spicy(w/e your term is) or or likelikes or ask her opinion on something, then lead that to the real question you wanna ask the truth is the best source, shorter answer :) just ask her if she meant anything she did last night if yes, then tell her how you feel if not, forget it and make up an excuse, or a phrase against yourself if she doesnt remember anything tell her everything and ask her if thats what she really wanted or if she would like to try that, or if she is interested or not then if yes, same thing above if not, same thing above
Is it wrong for me to get mad when my girlfriend drinks alcohol?
Alcohol is one of the reasons I am single for last 5 years. I have not found a girl in my surrounding who doesn't drink. I don't take alcohol (no beer, no whisky, no breezers). I consider it a vice and that's why I can't find myself comfortable if my partner does it. This is a reason why i've said no to a couple of girls who showed interest in me. I don't find the idea of Drinking to loosen up a little bit or drinking to be social, convincing enough for me to start doing it. I am an otherwise fun person to be with. People enjoy my company and like to talk to me. I preferred not to ask the girl to quit drinking to be in a relationship with me. It's not about changing the other person, it's about finding the person you find yourself most comfortable with. There will be other differences, because two people can't be exactly same, but still there are some things that fundamentally make you different. And i guess, people can't adjust those. Sooner or later they find themselves in the situation you are finding yourself. So choose your partner carefully. Not an expert advice, but just my thoughts.
Should I be okay with my girlfriend dancing with guys when she goes out to the bars with her friends?
Hello stranger, I am going to give you first, my personal feelings on dancing with other men.It would depend on the context and the style of dancing, but I personally do not feel comfortable dancing intimately with men who are not my boyfriend or gay. I have my own personal experiences and traumas, and generally believe in stark boundaries for the men I have sex with, and the men I don’t.Is your girlfriend from a different country or culture that is more lax in this sense?Your feelings are valid in the sense that you are allowed to feel uncomfortable about it. What was her reaction outside this question? Did she get defensive or angry? If she did not, I would not have too much to fear. Maybe you two can reach a compromise.I will end this with a warning tale:A friend of mine, the least jealous person on the planet, told me this. He let his wife go out dancing to all hours of the night and never worried. She ended up cheating on him with the club’s bouncer, not the men who she danced with.The point being, if someone is going to cheat, you can’t really prevent that. If that is your fear, please understand it is out of your control. If she wants to just dance, she will. If she wants to push further, she will.Are you uncomfortable with her dancing, or are you afraid of something else? When you are open about this with her, you two can really sit down and talk it out.
I'm scared about getting drunk for the first time?
It's true as someone else here said, that people enjoy seeing others (their friends) get drunk. Don't let it happen to you. You really wouldn't like it. And you could easily find yourself telling people you loved them. In Vino Veritas = In Wine is Truth. This is what you do - it's simple. Drink plenty of water all day before you go out so you're well hydrated. You make sure you have a proper, large meal before you go out. Have a drink, if you feel like it. Have something like a gin and tonic or vodka and something. It will go down fairly fast, probably, so be ready to be offered another but don't accept until you've had a large slow glass of water. Even if someone buys you another drink, before you drink it, drink a large glass of water. Take your time. Eat crisps or nuts or whatever's there. Every time you have a drink, follow it with a large, slow glass of water. Don't let anyone stop you. It's really not necessary to get drunk to have a good time - in fact, it spoils the good time you're having up to then. Stop drinking as soon as you feel the effects of the alcohol. Your stomach will have alcohol in it that still has to get into your bloodstream and affect your brain - what I mean is, even after you stop drinking you will still keep getting drunker. If you go slow you can have a good time without being stupid or sick or damaging yourself, and while you can always have another drink, you can't undrink once you've had too much.
Is my girlfriend really a virgin?
I want an honest opinion,My girlfriend told me she is a Virgin, Me and my girlfriend has planned that we had sex, then we do it. During the deed, she was not nervous at all, she is very wet and relaxed, It was my first time having sex with a virgin. I had trouble fitting it in, but I can see that see that she is relaxed, and she is really that wet, I ask her if she's nervous and she said no. Yes, I can really tell that at first I think there is like ( no hole in her vagina?? ) . Honestly I somehow force it in and I felt there was a blocking wall that needed to be break. ( which I just felt it was push) and during the sex, I felt some kind of friction in the entrance area which led to light burning sensation to my tip area of the penis. It was a horrible feeling I felt. Is she really virgin? and the bleeding part, is because of that friction I felt from the entrance?? the tightness is there but not to the point that It will squeeze you. I mean I can move it up and down It was not that really tight, I mean she was tight, not that too tight that I can't move it up and down. she was tight than the other non virgins I had experience with. Btw, there is a slight bleeding at first when I tried to penetrate ( I mean it was not yet inside ), then after sex the whole condom was with blood but not that really heavy, I mean the blood was visible. and I also saw blood combining with the white mucus coming out from her vagina after we finished the deed.
Is it reasonable for me to be uncomfortable if my girlfriend were to get very drunk while she is out with her friends at a bar, concert, etc?
There are two elements here. 1st - it is your right to be distrustfull. Alcohol is not harmless, and MANY people do stuff they would NEVER do sober. Drinking can bring worst in here. Or, to make a joke, drinking could get someone elses wurst (german for saussage) in her..2nd think that matters is that you can either accept it and trust her (not guilty untill proven otherwise thing) and not to ask of her to change and sacrifice her "social life", or walk away. Do NOT, and i repeat, do not demand change from her. You will loosenher that way in a very ugly way, and you will be the one to blame. If you go that way, what you actually told her is that you dont trust her. And she may do worst thing to "prove" that youbare right. Things that she wouldnt do if you just trusted her. It is in our nature. Just take look at it on "i dare you!" way. If you show your lack in her, you told her "i dare you to prove me right". And she will. Never ask partner to change. Either very carefully show her that you feel a little discomfort and worry when she is drunk and vurenable (i dont know if i spelled that one right, its opposite of strong), or walk away. You cant change her, especially not by force. By demanding and forcing ur view. Good luck!
What does it feel like to be drunk?
My limit is about 7. I've been all the way thrice in my life. These days, I typically stop at 2 or 3. With beers, I tend to stop at about 2 at most. Usually 1. With hard liquor (which I tend to drink neat, on the rocks or with just a dash of mixer) I go up to 3 or (rarely) 4. The difference between beer drunkenness and hard liquor drunkenness is a lot more peeing. If you are being smart enough to drink some water along the way, to pre-empt hangovers, peeing increases for both.Here are the stages, for me. Drink 1: (once you've acquired the taste) Anticipatory relaxation/winding down.Drink 2: RelaxationDrink 3: Increased lucidityDrink 4: Increased visual-spatial-aural giddiness, increased lucidityDrink 5: Lucidity starts to dissolve into incoherence, giddiness increasesDrink 6: Giddiness slips into nauseaDrink 7: Nausea turns into vomitSome reactions (like flushing) are genetic. I don't flush.