Can't reach climax during sex or masturbation? (Female)?
yeh I used to have trouble reaching orgasms :/ it took me hours to c*um and I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong! eventually I figured that I was masterbating too much and my clit was getting numb from too much stimulation. so I left it a bit and then it was fine! also, if your not turned on or completely relaxed you wont climax. THE BRAIN IS THE BIGGEST SEX ORGAN! so, if your not mentally in the mood, then no matter what you do physically...you wont c*um. I think that you get mostly aroused when sleeping because in bed you are alone, you don't have pretend to please you partner and you don't have to rush. you just feel completely chilled and your imagination can let you fantasize about whatever turns you on :p oh and if your dry down there, just use spit as a lube! good luck! just chill and the more you do it, the more confidence you'll gain and that will make it easier to orgasm again and again. it used to take me hours to c*um but now I can do it in minutes! its really easy just chill and practise! I know you don't like them, but I find electric toothbrushes and shower heads AWESOME!
This is for a movie I'm making. In the climax, I'm gonna pretend to cut myself. How do I pull off the screaming in agony?
Actually hurt yourself. Burn yourself intentionally. Or just find a quiet place and practice the scream until you get it right. Good luck!
Mutual masturbation in a relationship pros and cons?
I am in a relationship where my girlfriend and I both have decided that master bating may be good for both of us as we do not plan on having sex. I am cutting back and would like my gf to cut back so I can help her reach her climax more often toghether. All advice appreciated.
Does sexual pleasure remain the same or does it fluctuate when you have it in excess ?!?
im an eighteen year old, please halp me clear my mind on this topic. i believe that if i have sex or mansturbate, the pleasure returned will slowly decrease and diminish by the time i marry. am i right or wrong ?
How can you tell if a woman has had an orgasm?
Every woman is different, but here are some indicators that a woman is having or has had an orgasm:Her face contorts in strange & unusual ways (such as eyes wide open, mouth wide open, etc.)She can't keep herself quiet (moans, squeals, and/or screams, etc.)Her back arches, her legs spasm, she kicks, scratches, or bites downShe's out of breath and/or hyperventilatesShe curses and/or exclaims things such as “oh s#it!” “F#ck!” “Oh my G-d!” or “YES! YES! YES!”Her eyes look glazed over & she seems to be “high” (afterwards)Once she can eventually speak, she says she her arms and legs feel tingly/numb and/or she feels light-headed or like she's floating (afterwards)You can feel her vaginal muscles contract/spasm (rarely & only some women)You can see/feel her “squirt” vaginal liquid (rarely & only some women)She accidentally pees herself just a little tiny bit (happens quite often due to excitement and vaginal contraction; sometimes men see/feel this and mistake it for cum)Now, perhaps just as useful to know are these things that she probably CANNOT do for 5–15 minutes after a REALLY good & proper orgasm (some women “recover” faster than others):Formulate sentences. She shouldn't be saying anything too complicated or well thought out (just an occasional “wow” or “oh my!” for several minutes … best case scenario, she can't speak at all initially! If she immediately rolls over and starts discussing politics, she's not even in the same COUNTRY as an orgasm.)Move her body. She shouldn't be able to move her arms & legs or even roll over.NOTE: Many women can have multiple orgasms if you take the time to continue stimulating them. Give them a bit if time in between to “catch their breath” and “regroup,” while slowly touching their vaginal area with either your penis or your fingers. Let her guide you as to when she's “ready” to go again. If you're not able to “rise to the occasion,” (MOST men cannot get it up again for awhile, if at all, so don't feel bad if you can't) just use your finger(s)/hand/sex toy to get her off.With a lot of patience, persistence, and PRACTICE, any man can help a woman achieve an orgasm whenever she wants one (or more).ALSO, a woman may not WANT or “feel like” having an orgasm every time she makes love. It's best not to pressure her into feeling like she MUST or SHOULD orgasm every time. Every now & then, a woman just wants to lay back, relax, and enjoy the ride!