Why Do I Forget To Text/ Call People Back

Why do people get so upset if you don't reply to a text or a message right away?

BecauseYou felt your self worth is attacked.You feel that you are not as valuable to him as you thought yourself to be.You have expectations with him. You feel that this kind of behavior hampers your chances of you two being together.You have low self worth and your confidence depends on his validation.You need him more than he needs you.What could be possible reasonsHe is not a text person. Many people don't like communicating too much on text. They treat text only as a means to set meetings.He might be playing some mind game to make you obsessive for him.He might not have felt to reply to trivial text. Your text might not have anything which needs replying.He might value you less.He might be really busy or lazy.It might have been too late when he saw your text. Some people don't reply to texts when they lose context. For example ‘what are you doing' or 'good morning' has no reply after two hours.Thousand many other argument. Never judge a person by his texting habits. Always judge people based on how they treat you in person or may be phone.

Why do introvert people ignore text messages from people they care about sometimes?

It’s sometimes a lack of energy; maybe physical energy, but maybe mental energy. If it’s not important or very much begging for a reply, sometimes I just leave it. I’ll admit to that. If it’s important, I’ll reply straight away.Sometimes I just forget. I put it aside for 10 seconds, and then I forget completely. My memory is so bad.And then there’s the other reason.I’m not going to pretend I’m hugely popular, but say hypothetically I have fifteen people I could call proper ‘friends’. Friends I talk to, and enjoy talking to, and seeing; those I trust, and like a lot. Then, I’m also postgraduate student, taking up a lot of my time, and my mental effort. I also have other commitments in my life, and then sometimes, I need to just to sit and do nothing for a while to recharge.Because I’m a busy introvert, replying to messages will disrupt my day.If I reply as soon as I get it, and then they do the same — suddenly I’m in a conversation. But the thing is, it’s on a phone. It’s not like meeting in a cafe for a chat, and eventually going our separate ways. Instead, it’s like having a group of 15 people following me around all day, chattering on and expecting a response.I have other things to do, and focus on. I can’t just give in to whatever messages come flying into my phone. Sometimes I need to breathe, and switch off from being in constant contact. Yes, it’s so easy to send a message and get in touch nowadays, but it’s too easy.I just need to take a break to deal with my day, first.

Why do some people not respond to texts when you know they've seen it?

Hi,Thanks for the A2A.Of course I can’t answer for others, just my own experiences.Listed below are some possible reasons people don’t respond to texts when you know they’ve seen it:They’re at work and can’t immediately text back.The text came in with a stream of other texts and your text got lost in the stream.They’re ghosting you.They don’t want to invest time in you.They don’t like you.They’re living their life and just don’t want to take time to text/chat.They’re in the bathroom.They’re sleeping.It was accidental. They meant to, but……They send an annoying text and you don’t want to reply because it might be hard to be kind and polite (BTW this is my own texting sin).They don’t want to be rude and text in front of other people.You’re texting a player who doesn’t want their other love interests to see them texting with you or see your texts.The text triggered a reaction they don’t want to address.They were driving when you texted and forgot to respond.They’re on a texting break from everyone - not just you.Their dog ate their phone.They don’t like to text.They’re shy and don’t know what to text back.Their phone lost cell service.They didn’t really see the text, you just think they did (that happens more often than people know).They lost their phone or it was stolen.They didn’t pay their phone bill and their service was turned off.The Moon is in a bad sign or has a bad last aspect (my lack of texting response sometimes).Not every text requires an answer or even an emojii.You accidentally texted the wrong person and they don’t see the need to reply.They accidentally texted back to the wrong person (it happens - I promise).They’re worried if they text back you may continue texting and they have nothing else to say.Your texts are annoying in some way.They think if they don’t respond, neither will you.It’s also important to consider the relationship you have with the person you’re texting.That could make all the difference how someone responds.If it’s your parents, best friends or spouse and they don’t text back, maybe you should worry.If it’s a new relationship, maybe you’re coming on too strong, texting too much, they don’t like you as much as you think or they just hate texting. Or all of the above.Some people just don’t like to text.It’s not always about you. In fact, it may rarely ever be about you.Best wishes to you.