Why do I hate my best friend?
You cannot hate your best friend. f you hate her, she is not your friend.That’s the truth but reality is somewhat more layered. You can feel hatred for someone who has the ability to hurt you and nobody can hurt you more than someone who knows you well. They know where your weak spots are and they know how to push your buttons. Giving them knowledge gives them power. Understanding WHY you hurt will bring you far greater wisdom. With maturity, I have learned to welcome pain because I understand that growth without pain is not possible. When you feel hatred, choose to respond in love. It’s amazing how things change when you do this.
Why do i hate my friend for no reason?
i have a friend thats been my best friend since 5th grade (we're in grade 9th) and now everytime i hear her talk i just wanna hit her! we had our fights in the past but she didnt DO anything that makes me so mad at her! any ideas why i hate her? and any advice to change it, because i really dont want this to ruin our "friendship", plus it would make our whole group get mad at somebody which will get alot of drama!!
I hate my friends so much?
This past week I relived my friendship. I thought real hard about what kind of people they are and what type of friends they are to me. They've been nothing but rude. We started out as really great friends. But now I feel stuck and everything quickly spiralled out of control and honestly I'm left with 2 equally mean people. They've wronged me many times on many occasions. For example i was best friends with this girl and I was so happy because I wanted a best friend and I was her friend from 7th grade and in grade 9 she was having some cutting issues so she went to a therapist and they took a price of paper and wrote cons an pros of me. She told me that I had no pros and all my cons out weighed my pros. And that her therapist and her came to a conclusion that I was a fake friend. Anyways I asked her if she believed that and she said "idek" and started laughed Then before I could say anything the teacher interrupted us and told us to start listening to him. Sadly I continued to be her friend and never spoke of that day again because I'm just so terrible at expressing my feelings without being dramatic and ending the whole friendship. Anyways uh yeah idk what to do we all made each other cry numerous times. The 3 of us are just toxic and we only stay with each other because there's nowhere else to go. And ugh I'm just so either pissed or just crying. This friendship is driving me crazy. I'm literately thinking not bf if this what it's like to be close with someone.
I hate my best friend. What do I do?
First, learn that hate is an extremely childish and counter-productive emotion. Learn to deal with anger or be a despised little bigot unloved, even by family. If you have a "friend" and then he/she does something you do not like, and you do not forgive them, what dies that say about you? If you do idea you hate them, why would anyone want to be your friend in the future? How could you wake up everyday liking yourself. We do not discard those we love because we have a bad day, nor do we do so when they fall in love with our fiance, or in a moment of insecurity criticized us to a coworker, or betrayed a confidence to their other best friend. If your standards are so high that you cannot forgive, certainly, move on, but get used to being friendless.
I hate my best friend so much?
My best friend and I have known each other since the 1st grade, and were now both 14. She is the most annoying and ugly person I have ever met in my life!!! She has bright yellow buck teeth(she just got braces) and she thinks she's so hot but she's really chubby and her hands/feet look all deformed. She always says that she's the skinniest/prettiest in our friend group, but nobody cares about the skinny/pretty thing anyway. I have to sit with her and my other friend at lunch and we both hate her but we can't find anything to say to her! She is nasty. She smells like rotten cheese for crying out loud!! Also, she is such a wannabe. She follows me around and when I'm hanging out with my real friend group, she always like touches their arms and she breathes on my neck cause she's so close to me. (Basically, she scares my friends away.) also, tomorrow she is planning on bringing our old elementary school yearbook and embarrassing me and my friends because she thinks it's funny.( I was an ugly duckling in 5th and 6th grade and she wasnt. Now she's the ugly duckling.) She is such a nerd too. All she talks about is stuff her teachers do. It's annoying. Also, she tends to space out a LOT. Like when me and my friends start making fun of her and laughing at her while she's spacing out, she breaks out of it but doesn't really know what's going on, but she laughs with us!!! God seriously she should have her own personality because she always copies me!! Yeah so she still thinks I'm her "bestie" (her word not mine) but I haven't talked to her all year and I ignore her at lunch. She has a lot of book smarts but absolutely NO street smarts. Anyways. How should I tell her that I hate her? Sorry this was so long. I just needed to get everything out. Haha.