I'm 18, why do I want a baby so bad?
Some people just have a natural tendency to nurture. The idea of having children at a young age has also been glamorized in the past few years, and the societal views are slowly changing. My best advice is for you and your boyfriend to finish college, then decide if you want to have kids. You sound like you both have a bright future ahead, so get an education so you can give your kids the best life possible.
Why do I want to have a baby so bad?
You have a motherly instinct, which is normal, but my friendly advice is to wait. Having a child will completely change your life, and if you ever want to be able to support a child, you will need to finish college so you can make the kind of money it takes to support a family, especially if you are a single parent. I wish you all the luck in the world.
Why do I want a baby so bad?
Me and my fiance have been together for 4 years we have been living together for two of those years and I really want a baby, I have for a while now. I dont think that he wants kids he keeps saying he does but he doesnt want one now. We both work and I know that we can figure it out if we have a baby. I dont know why I want one so bad, Im thinking there is several reasons. I am 20 years old. I dont like having sex anymore and My fiance gets paranoid becuase of it... But i think that sex is meant to make life and reproduce and I think i dont like having sex anymore really becuase i know im not getting what i want out of it and i think its wrong just to do it all the time for pleasure. Everytime i see a pregnant woman or a happy couple with a baby i get so jealous, I have even cried over it. I really want one!!! I dont know why he doesnt want one.. these are my reasons though. One is my mom had kids at a young age and I got to grow up with my mom and we became really close. I would love that for my kid. Another reason I think i might want a kid real bad is because I am a girl.. Girls want babies!!!! I think being a mother would make me much happier in life and I dont want to have kids after I turn 25. Thats even pushing it. I dont want to be a 50 year old mom. (no offence to those of you who are its just my opinion on what I want) does anyone have any advise as to how i can talk to him about this and maybe get him to actually see my point.? I have been feeling really depressed lately thinking i would have a baby by now and I dont. I dont know what to do I really want a baby... I know people are going to say stuff along the lines like "you're young live life" well I sit at home when i am not working i never go out and I have all the time in the world for a baby, Im not worried whatsoever about not having a "life" becuase i have a kid.. To me my kid would be my life.! like i said i would be so much happier!
I want a baby SO bad!!?
For the Longest time I didn't want kids, the thought of kids just made me angry and scared. Then once I hit 18 years old, I started wanting to have kids. The temptation to actually try and make one was everywhere as well. But the thing was, was I wasn't with the right person. Okay, yeah I had a boyfriend, but I knew things were not going to end up being permanent with this one, and that was something I had to accept. No matter how strong the urge gets to have a baby, the right time def. isn't now. You may think you are ready, but you are not (im not saying you wouldn't be a good mother) But think about your situation. Your 17, so first off your prolly not done with School. After having a child, at this age; it would be Even HARDER to get into College. Meaning that trying to get by on a Minimum wage Job alone would not Work. You would need to have a child with someone you know would be around as in today's society you need both parents working to even have a chance at surviving, and even then it's slim as most couples struggle. I'm guessing you haven't stopped and looked at the finacial aspect of having a child either? Sure, a ton of Mom's are single moms and get along fine, but it's not easy and not stress free. It's extremely expensive to have a child and is one of the main causes to Divorces and young Teen fights. Heck! Even me and my Fiancee want to have a child, but we both know that it's not the right time, No MATTER how bad I want one; it's not fair to bring a child into this world when you can't even take care of yourself. Him and I are 21, I have an Associates Dregree under my belt, and I still don't feel like it's the right time to bring a baby into the world. So stop, and actually think about what you want. Yes you may want a baby, but there is WAY more to it than you think. Actually, I advise that you purchase a Book. It's called Expecting 411. I bought this book for myself so I could actually learn every small detail about pregnancy and what comes of it. (and let me tell ya, it's not something you can do alone) It tells you everything from when your doctors Visits should be, all the way down to what you will feel and in what weeks. The book is $14.95 and I promise you would love it! I bought this book for myself as I have been interested in having a baby, but I feel it's smarter to get my life together and learn about the subject beforehand and then attempt later in life. :) Hope This helps
Is it bad I want to have a baby at 21?
Hi Sweetie! You are 21 who is taking all measures for birth-control!!! Well when i was 21 i din't even knew such things existed as it's not that common here.Anyways, coming to your question, No it's nothing wrong, you can have a baby (after being legally married obviously!), i mean many of my friend's mothers got married at early age of 18-19 and they had two children till they were 21. But honey! it was 80-90s, welcome to 2016!! Ever imagined how your life would be...When your other friends would be gossiping and doing a night-out, you will be changing your baby's diapers over the night.When your friends would be going on a romantic date with their boyfriends, i mean 21 is such a lovely age, you will be visiting doctors for your baby's vaccination and other treatments.Your friends would be munching out on cheese-drooling burgers and Pizzas - ofcourse with Medium Coke - you will be having simple cooked food as till you are feeding your baby, you cannot just eat anything. Whatever you eat, reflects to your baby.And what about those lovely flirts your frienda would be getting, you only will get compliments on " Aww! Your baby is sooooooo cute"Even if your boyfriend married you, how much responsibilities would he get when all his friends would be hanging out at pub.He won't be much elder to you.And soon a day will arise, when he will feel bored with you, i mean who gets married with a baby at 22-23??And whatever those movies show honey, living life alone with a baby is much difficult then it's shown.And what about your studies? Even if you continued them, would you be going to exams with that baby bump??All those nights when you won't be able to sleep, all those days when all you would hassle around would be baby diapers, clothes and toys.And oh wait! I hope you know that the moment when you will be GIVING Birth is the most crucial and TOUGHEST AND MOST PAINFUL moment every women goes through. Sweetie! Your life is just about to begin, having baby is one of the most wondeful thing a woman has, but 21 is not an age for it! And stop such things, you are just ruining your life. Focus on yourself,baby not your baby!
I want a baby so badly but I'm only 21?
Yes, because that's around the age that it kicks in for most of us... though some significantly older, younger, or never at all. For me, it kicks in the worst when ovulating and for some reason it also chooses to resurface in late summer months. I'm 22 and engaged. I know what you mean about people in our age group encouraging partying as the norm. I did my partying young, it's a been there, done that sort of thing. My fiance is 33 and we're just ready to settle down. 21 is only a big deal for partying due to hitting legal drinking age. I was allowed to drink at home as a teen, so I have little interest in drinking now and it's just an occasional thing. I think the party girls still have the same urges, as with career girls. So yeah, I'm on the same page. Biological urge is knocking at my door -- practically breaking in.