Why do BLACK women always complain about Black men dating white?
If you have encountered loud ghetto black women, then they were probably from the ghetto or want to portray that image. The black women I deal with are verry well mannered, educated, and can hold an intelligent conversation. Otherwise I wont deal with them. The black women you see as "ghetto" only get angry when a good looking or successful black guy is dating another race, because they see him as a good catch who may not be interested in his own race; therefore they feel like they don't have a chance with this fine man, since he seems to be into a whole different race. But that's America. built on racism and steryotypes. Watch the British TV stations (BBCA) and see how differently black women are portrayed. Not Ghetto, but exactly the same as everyone else, because they are. We need to get past the race thing. Love everyone So Im one of those black guys let's get together...Just kidding.lol
Why do guys tell women to smile?
I was in an airport lounge, getting a bit to eat while waiting for my connecting flight. A man, mid 40s I think, swoops by to say, “C'mon, honey. Smile! It can't be that bad.”I responded with, “My dad dropped dead last night from an aneurysm. I live 2000 miles from my hometown. My mother is mentally ill and I have no earthly idea where she'll live for the rest of her life. Yes, sometimes it can be that bad.”I was at a table alone, not looking around or trying to make eye contact with anyone. Just trying to formulate all the thousand things I'd have to take care of over the next few days. I cannot imagine I sent out any signal that I was looking for company or needed any assistance. I certainly didn't feel like whipping out a smile so some random guy could think he brightened my day.I wouldn't dream of going up to anyone who was actively unengaged with those around them to suggest they smile. If you want a woman — or anyone — to smile at you, make eye contact and smile first. If they respond, great, if not, doesn't mean she's a bitch or he's a jerk.
Why do women always seem to get the short end of the stick in life?
Hello! I have a pretty good life, but I have to work hard for what I have. And God has been good to me, BUT I am starting to be bugged over a few things like... Why do women have to spend so long at the hair salon getting our hair beautiful for fickle men, wearing high heels (which cause us to have to go to the podiatrist in our senior years with foot trouble), have to fret and worry over even a little bit of fat (guys like us fit and trim), we get less pay at work and few promotions (unless we sleep with the boss sometimes, which I have not done, but some have), and for centuries we were kept like property useful only for cooking, cleaning and sex when the man wanted it? Thank God I have a terrific boyfriend, a great boss, and I seem to have it all....looks, money, etc. BUT like Ringo Starr sang "It Don't Come Easy", and the kicker is that men seem to have it much easier than women. Oh, and I have heard from several sources that for every single man in the US, there are 6 single women, meaning we have to work our butts off to impress our guy and beat out the competition (and there is a lot of female competition), but this is why guys can be slobs, gain weight and be jerks around women because they know if they lose one girlfriend, there's probably 4 or 5 others they can have. Also, guys want sex and food ALL THE TIME, which can be trying and a challenge, since men still want sex up into their twilight years, but women's bodies give out and blob out years before men's do. Also, when men get gray hair in later life, they are told they look distinguished and handsome, but when women get gray hair, we look like hags and have to spend more time and money at the hair salon. And we have to wear so much dang make-up, but men don't wear any. And there are 6 single women competing for every single guy, according to some sources. This is my theory on why women have to work hard to impress, but men can be demanding slobs, yell at women and be outrageous and still be happy. The odds are all in the men's favor. BUT, I still count my blessings. Life is pretty good for me. But do other women feel like we get the short end of the stick? Or am I just being a little whiner?
Feminists always say that women shouldn't be used for their bodies. Don't men do that when they have?
Whenever I heard the term "being used for their bodies", I think of women being used to satisfy the sexual needs of men and for their entertainment. This is totally different from consensual sex and one night stands, because the woman consents and has to be responsible for their actions But being "used" by a man is more literal to me. Like in history: --the Colosseum in Rome holding gang rape weekends of exotic women from lands they conquered --the comfort women of Japan during the WWII, or any war in general More recently: --Falun Gong women being thrown into prison with men for their entertainment --girl in Brazil jailed with 20 men so they could sexually exploit her --the South African Rapist Society - uses rape as a weapon --African belief that having sex with a female virgin cures AIDS --prostitution I could go on.
Why are women so rotten to each other?
Men can fight with each other and move on. A woman can tell you verbatim what some girl said to her in the school yard 20 years ago after she pulled her hair. Don't get me wrong, this is a useful skill at times and I've used it on my husband more than once. However, I firmly believe that if women ever want to achieve 50/50 status in the workplace as far as number of executives, equal pay, etc., the cattiness and back-stabbing have got to stop. You know as well as I do that the moment another woman is on the scene in the workplace you stop worrying about that glass ceiling and start commenting to your boss about her poor work habits, or how she dresses, or whom she sleeps with or any old thing you can think of to undermine her because you feel threatened even if she's in no way angling for your job! The sad part is that you only make yourself look bad. We need to be giving each other a hand up and a pat on the back whenever we can. It's good Karma and good business!
Why men always say us light skin black women are hot?
I know we attractive but I think the dark skin black women look best of all black females of all shade to me. I'm light skin female of my 20 years an I always get these strange looks from my own race, ethnic groups and whites. Why I seem can't find a man that I perfer to be my boyfriend. I into white, latino men but I can't find my next boyfriend is it bc I don't go out to much or is it bc I'm light skin attractive that ppl give me strange looks. I think, I have low self steam