Why do i hate ugly people?
i have lately noticed that everyone i hate is either fat stupid or ugly and im starting to get worried cause my friend has started to talk to this ugly girl in class and its really awkwerd when im near her because all i can think about is how ugly she is . now im not the hottest person alive but im not ugly judging by how many girls and guys like me and im one of the popular people in my grade so i need an answer to why i hate ugly people and how i can start to like them and dont say that i need to get to know them cause they might turn out nice because ive tried it and they are just so ugly i cant conserntrate . so please help !
Do you hate ugly people? And why?
I don't consider my self to be ugly, nor do I hate ugly people, but I noticed that lots of people, but I can't figure out why. Anyways, Do you hate ugly people? And why?
Why do people hate ugly people?
I know I'm aesthetically repulsive. I've known it from the time I came into senses. But it's not like I chose to be ugly. If I had a choice, I would choose to be what we call "normal", or "average", not exceptionally beautiful. My ugliness has not made me rude, and I never pick on others. I don't even have a problem with beautiful people. They are blessed and loved, and I can only wonder what it feels to be beautiful like them. But why do people hate ugly people this way? With the cursing, "die" statements, open hatred and sick behaviour? We feel the same way beautiful people do, we feel the same joy and sorrow just like any other human being. I agree we don't deserve a lot of things that beautiful people do, but do we not deserve to be treated decently just for politeness' sake, if not for anything else?
Why do people hate ugly people so much?
This is a society construct. Since we are kids we are shown “beautiful thin people” as being our role models in life. While ugly people are always portrayed as bad. How many people introspect on this? We take life at face value. We seek aesthetically pleasing partners, even if they are rotten to the core. That is what society demands. And we are meek sheep who follow without questions.
Why do I hate ugly people so much? How can I stop?
You do this because of something called the halo effect and the devil effect. Google what the halo effect and devil effect is and you will have more of an understanding why you do what you do. The Halo affect is when good-looking people, for example, are perceived as more intelligent, nicer, trustworthy, more successful and more popular, "that's the halo effect in psychology" and it's caused by a cognitive bias. The devil effect is the opposite of the halo effect. The devil effect is a psychology cognitive bias which ugly/unnattractive people are perceived as unreliable, untrustworthy, mean, not capable, lazy and not smart. Ugly people are perceived as unreliable, untrustworthy, mean, not capable, lazy and not smart.because of psychology cognitive bias called the devil affect and nobody likes untrustworthy, mean, not capable, lazy and not smart people. This is the reason you dislike unattractive people because of the devil effect.
Why do I hate ugly people? Am I shallow?
It is likely that you are influenced by media and are societies emphasis on looks. Since you recognize this , you can work at changing your thinking. One thing that helps to dispel this type of prejudice is to get to know somebody with the trait. Befriend a less than attractive person at work or a social setting. You will likely find that you two have things in common or the person is kind or funny.
Will people hate me for being ugly?
First of all , you have to clear your misunderstanding i.e. you think yourself to be ugly. No one is ugly everyone has its own unique beauty. You also have that, everyone has it. The most important is the internal beauty not the external beauty. The girls around you are beautiful but you are no more less. People will never hate you for your external appearance but they will love for your internal beauty. Always wear your invisible crown on your head as you are the queen of your paradise i.e your home. You think yourself to be stranger than others this is your misconception. You are not strange in fact you are special then them. The one who is special looks different than others. So don`t worry about it, you are special you have your unique beauty. And people will never hate you for your external appearance, they will love you for your internal beauty. Be proud of yourself , you are special you are beautiful.
What is the real reason why people hate fat people and ugly people?
People who are fat are often believed to eat too much, thought to do no exercise, assumed to have little to no self control, perceived as having no respect for themselves or for others.I speak from my own experience - there was a time I was so fat I couldn’t cross my legs. Nobody took me seriously, everyone excluded me from social activity, nobody was interested in my feelings, opinions or thoughts on anything. Once I lost the weight I was considered a human again, & treated as such.Fat people might get discriminated against when it comes to job opportunities as they will have more health risks than those of a healthier weight/body shape.Fat people are generally believed to be lazy & greedy. These are not admirable traits.As Coco Chanel said: “There are no ugly women, only lazy ones.”Beauty is often believed to be subjective - however - being physically attractive indicates one’s health, strength & age - we feel physically attracted towards what we think will enhance our genes when we pass them on, & who might be best equipped to take care of our progeny as well as look after us in old age.
Why do people hate confident ugly people?
Well unattractive or not, its the conceited, stock-up personality that people hate. And idk about some other people but even if the person is attractive, i would not like them if they're cocky. But people hate the confident ugly people because its like a ohhh what the heck is she so showing off and flaunting herself for, shes ugly. And with the cocky, arrogant, attractive person its like yeah they can be cocky because they look good.