Do men get crushes on other women when they are married?
Yes, men can get "crushes" on other women even if they are married. (Just as married women can get "crushes" on men.) Men can even "get the hots" for an attractive woman who simply passes him on the street, even if he doesn't know her name. Most adult men have experienced this enough that they don't even think twice about it but just ignore it. Still, it's there. Some guys (as well as women) will flirt just to vent steam and because it's fun, but mean nothing by it and would not pursue a sexual encounter even if it seemed possible. Some guys can handle this, whether or not they should. For other guys, flirting leads to other things -- especially if they are having a hard time and/or are disappointed with their wives. Flirting can be playful banter, but it can also be an expression of dissatisfaction in one's marriage. My litmus test about flirting: If you wouldn't say it if your wife was in the room listening, then you shouldn't be saying it.
HELP,should i still marry her even if she cheated on me?
You know what is best for you and you also know that if you married her,you would never forget what she did to you.whenever she did something wrong,you would always see a cheater and even if her baby has nothing to do with that,you would never be able to love it as if it were your own baby. Let her go and move on.I'm sure you will find someone that will honor and love you.Don't be stuck with her because of your families,they will understand and although they will be sad about the breakup, they want you to be happy.
Can a promiscuous woman change her ways and settle down with one man?
When women are promiscuous, generally it stems from a depression or low self esteem. They are looking for love and approval through sex. When they meet someone who respects them and treats them well they will probably change. Some therapy would probably do wonders for this woman. I hope you are that man that changes her life. Only problem is that she should realize her self worth first without a man, then she will able to bring something to the relationship table.
Why is a good faithful man so hard to find?
OK, all men are sex hounds, that part is true, but not all men are cheaters. I love sex and I don't discriminate on my number of partners, but I don't get into a relationship until I'm ready to commit to only having sex with one girl for the duration. I'm not alone. There are plenty of us out there that still think a commitment means something. Why do you think we're all afraid of it? In your case, you're probably attracted to guys that are more likely to cheat. Guys who will tell you everything you want to hear are more likely to cheat, as are guys who are too private about their life away from you. At the beginning of any committed relationship, start looking for signs on whether or not you can trust him. If you thought you could trust the guys before, you may need to become a better judge of character. 4 out of 5 cheaters can be seen coming a mile away.
How to rebuild trust/respect after cheating?
If that's how you feel about him now no-one can blame you for that. It will never be the same after your trust gets broken by the person you love. But you will have to come up with a decision because you can never live a life under shadows of doubts. The only way for you to move on and have that life once again is to fully accept. There will always be mistakes in relationships as there's never a perfect marriage. And know that life is a gamble..nobody can ever truly love if they dont trust enough.