Why are overweight woman insecure about themselves even when they are super hot towards some men?
Well you can give the credit to the media for making overweight girls self conscious about their image. As for the poking and grabbing; we don't if she's telling you to stop due to her insecurities , or if she just doesn't like it period. In my opinion, you should just tell her how you feel. Once she knows that you accept her and ALL of her, I'm sure she may become more comfortable. You gotta remember that girls have it rough. We are always conscious of what both boys AND girls will think of us. She shaves her feet because she sees it as something abnormal. If her feet are very hairy, she may think of it as something that's masculine. Some girls shave their arms for this same reason. Anyway, please just tell her how you feel. Tell her that she doesn't have to change herself to be beautiful cause she already is. :) Good Luck ! x
Do you think overweight white women date black men because white men don't accept them?
I dont think it's good to generalise everyone in one catergory, but it does SEEM that the African American culture prefers larger women to the Caucasian stick thin craze thats sweeping us atm. It SEEMS that way. I'm in nooo way saying this applies to everyone. Maybe it's just the media protraying it in this way, as in most video clips the black chicky babes shaking their asses are 'bootylicious' where as alot of the white women are painfully thin. Or even turn on FTV (Fashion channel of Foxtel, cable in Australia) and it's just insane. But that's not an accurate representation of what real people think, want, feel and look like, but to me, it just seems that way. Also the words that the black culture uses to describe the overweight, as in thick, juicy, bootylicious, the word booty itself, sounds good! But I don't think it's just about looks! That might work for a one nightstand but not for real relationships! I think generally be proud of how you look, but if you're not, do something about it! (within reason of course!) ;)
Are a lot of women willing to date overweight men?
To be fair, there is no women that I know is willing to date an overweight guy. There are some concerns:1. People who are overweight may not lead a healthy lifestyle. They tend to eat tons of unhealthy food and they barely work out. Many health issues might appear as a result. I assume that girls may be worried what if their lifestyle is influenced by their boyfriends'. I mean, we would feel more than happy if it is a positive influence, but would avoid to be impacted negatively.2. Appearance also weighs a lot. I don't want to be too judgemental, but let's face up to the fact, no matter how handsome you are, it would be overshadowed by your big size. For females, often times, we could tell if we have the feelings for this guy at the first sight. I'm not talking about those females who are into males with a big size. Instead, I'm speaking for the average females that I know of. We would rather date a regular-size guy with a regular looking, than a big-size guy with a good looking.3. Personality. I guess there are some exceptions when the overweight guy has a beautiful heart and personality. He treats the girl so well that the girl feels extremely touched. They might end up being together after a while. While this is not common to see, girls in that situation might feel stressed due to others' judgements. We are living in a world where regular-size is regarded as healthy and lovable. But this is exactly right in regard to your own lifelong health. Why don't you try to lose some weight so as to stay fitness? And then, the question you proposed would not be a question any more.4. Wealth. When you are flipping through the news worldwide, you might come across some stories about couples with a slim girl and an overweight guy. Normally, the guy turns out to be affluent and it is likely that he has had a marriage before. I would not say that these girls are just after the guys' wealth, but how many of them are merely out of love? This is the thing to think about. Having said that, I reckon if you were rich enough, you would not have even bothered to ask this question. Don't take it wrong, every one has something that makes them deserve to be loved. Just want to say, for guys who are overweight, dating a girl who are not overweight would be a tough thing.
How do men really feel about overweight women? If a woman is overweight, would a guy still ask her out?
Here's a story of a screwed up guy .Years ago, before I was married, I used to use online dating a lot. I started talking to this girl who was overweight. I have never been in shape myself. I knew she was much larger than me. I didn't think it would be a problem. Then I went to meet her, and I wasn't attracted to her at all! In fact, when she sat in her car, her shirt rode up a little bit. I could see a little of her belly fat, and I was revolted. I felt ashamed at myself for being revolted, because I'm not the best looking guy either, and I know how it feels to be judged based on looks. I think she was attracted to me, because she kept standing close to me, but I didn't do nothingYears later, I got married. Then my wife got pregnant. I gained 30 lbs of sympathy weight (yes that's my story and I'm sticking to it). I had always been overweight, but now I was obese. I got a talking to from my doctor, and she told me that I need to lose 60 lbs. I got to a point where I have halted the weight gain and got my cholesterol/diabetes in check. I am healthy, even though I am obeseThe weird thing is I'm not grossed out by obesity anymore. In fact, having sex with a large woman is kind of a fetish for me. Of course, I would never cheat on my wife. But if I were single now, yeah I'd hit that! I'm not sure whether this is a side effect to me getting used to my own body, or maybe I have matured as a person. I look back and think about how stupid I was to reject the girl who was obviously attracted to me, just because of her weight. I have come to realize that sexuality is fluid. Some men are attracted to overweight women. Some aren't. In fact, the same man might not be attracted to obese women, and then might change to be attracted to obese women.If you are an obese woman, then don't worry about men who aren't attracted to larger women. It's not like people have control over their own sexuality! They can;t help being not attracted to you. There are a lot of men who are.
Why so Egyptian men insult western women and pretend to like them?
I am very overweight and have very palid skin because I have been ill for very long time. I go on holiday to Egypt to recuperate. But all the time Egyptian men are bothering me in the street and pretending to like me, and want to marry me, sleep with me and other inappropiate questions. Why do they insult me so much???? I am not stupid I KNOW that I am not some beautiful young girl who people fall in love with on looking. I am overweight , disabled 30 year old. Why insuate that I am a moron that will be taken advantage of for visa, or that I am a lose woman who will sleep with anything?? It makes me feel so worse when these men do this to me, like I am so ugly that I will fall for anything. Why not realise that just because a women is Western that doesn't mean that she has no self respect.
Why don't people accept plus size women as beautiful?
@ Overcome I wasn't trying to show the "average plus size woman". I was showing beautiful plus size women that are attractive, bigger, but also healthy. Ashley Graham is a plus size model and is known for her cleavage in the Lane Bryant ad. But even plus size can have different looks. there are smaller ones and there are bigger ones just like how Brandy and Beyonce are both skinny women but have different sizes. Beyonce is consider small but she is way bigger than Brandy. Ashley Graham (size 16) is bigger than Griselangel Paula (size 12) but they both are plus size women. I guess I could have shown Fluvia Lacerda (size 18) http://curvystahaven.files.wordpress.com/2012/12/fluvia.jpg?w=470 but then folks would probably just say "oh they are too fat to be healthy." That's why I didn't show her. But even if I did, no matter what they still aren't "the average woman" even if they are heavier set. They all are still models with incredible body