Why do older men date younger women?
As a man that is in a relationship with a younger woman (as distinct from girl), l can probably say the following with some confidence and in no particular order:older women tend to be set in their waysolder women tend to be less interested in sexolder women are usually more autonomous and self reliant, which is a good thing as well as being more experienced when it come to accepting differencesyounger women have less life experiences and are generally more idealistic which plays to being less accommodating or acceptingolder men can see through certain behaviours to the resulting consequences with greater ease due to their own experiences and can thus, if they’re grown up enough, chose how to respond. This could piss some younger women off of course.it takes a particular type of younger woman, in terms of her emotional and intellectual maturity, to have a relationship of any consequence with an older chap. Some younger woman just prefer to be with someone that is more stablethe rule of thumb is, in terms of optimal age (x) difference, the chaps age (a) divided by two plus seven: x = (a/2) + 7. Anything beyond this and it starts to become creepy and frivolous. This formula can, in fact, be universally applied to any mans age (within the usual conventions of course). This is simply because women tend to mature more quickly than men.younger women tend to gird older chaps to being a little more conscious of their health on both mental and physical levels. This is not meant to say they’re in denial it just reduces the rate at which older men get too old in their heads and general disposition.some older men tend to be more experienced sexually and less inhibited when it comes to sharing and exploring in bed, which younger woman tend to like.I could add some more thoughts but the main reasons and associated issues from my humble perspective are summarised above. Additionally, I’ve just ‘sense checked’ with my significant other as to why she likes being with an older man and her response kicks some of what I've just written into touch. For her it's more about the chemistry as she doesn't necessarily prefer older men. It's just that, in this case, it happily works for her. She says it helps that I don't look my age and can engage with most people irrespective of their age, race, background. Nice touch on her part.So, at the risk of being a little trite in closing, it is sometimes said that a chap is only as old as the woman he feels!
Am I having a mid life crisis because I'm having gay thoughts at 25?
It started when I began getting off to gay porrn and asked a question on here but since then I've been adamant about scanning gay hookup sites. It should gross me out, the thought of letting another guy give me a blowie or whatever but it's just the opposite. I still like women I just am very aware of men right now. Is it possible that I've reached some mid life crisis and am turning gay or have I just been repressing or something?
My girlfriend has constant volatile mood swings what would be the cause of this. shes 40 years old?
Hi guy: You didn't give much information in your question. You said she has "constant" mood swings. How often is constant? If it is daily, i seriously feel for you. However, if it is once or twice a week, or several times a month, i would suggest that she is going through menopause. It seems unusual for a woman to have menopause at 40, but stranger things have happened in life. First, if it is menopause, you have a big job in your life, especially if you care for her or love her. Menopause is not just another "woman condition". It is a serious imbalance of hormones in the female system that causes serious emotional actions and outbursts. They may or may not last for a long period of time, but it will be up to you to help calm her down. In some cases, you will not be able to do so, and you will need to be patient with her. One word of advice. When she has these episodes, DO NOT CALL HER CRAZY, DO NOT INSULT HER IN ANY WAY, AND DO NOT THROW UP YOUR ARMS AND WALK OUT ANGRY. She needs your support, not your words. I would recommend you convince her to see her regular physician and get some medication that will help to either prevent or seriously curtail these mood swings. No one truly understands the female emotions....not even women. So it will be a difficult job, but if you love her, you can stand by her and help her through this period in her life. Good luck and God Bless you both.