Why do some guys insist on telling me "I like girls with long hair, so you should grow yours out"?
Why do some guys insist on telling me "I like girls with long hair, so you should grow yours out"?Everyone here is missing the point. Sure, you can keep your hair whatever length you want. But that’s obvious, and that’s not the question. The question is why do guys tell you this. This is a psychology question, not a female empowerment question.First, in general, men tend to prefer long hair on women more than short. I am one of those men. I can’t think of anyone who looked better in a pixie cut than with long hair. Sure, there are women that still manage to look good in short hair, but all else considered, long hair just looks better. The guys you’re running into seem to agree.But why do they tell you that?Well, I can’t speak to the actions of every other man on the planet, but here are some reasons that I imagine might inspire this sort of comment:The helpful friend - the guy might be a friend of yours and is simply giving you friendly advice with no ulterior motives. They might just want to help you look your best.The boyfriend expressing his preferences - If you’re dating a person and they say this, they’re just telling you what they like and they’re hinting that they’d rather you grew it out. This is fairly normal relationship stuff.Secret Crush - If you know this person well, and you don’t think #1 quite nailed it, it might be that they like you, and just aren’t ready to tell you. They’re telling you this because they, like a boyfriend, think a lot about you and how you look, and they’re expressing a preference because folks with a crush sometimes have difficulty with where the line is. Especially young folks.Random opinionated person - Some people just have no filter. They just say stuff. It might be nothing more than that.I’m not sure if this is comprehensive, but these are, I think the most common angles that men might have for commenting on your hair length.
What does it mean when a girl basically insists on paying her share of the check at a restaurant?
It doesn't rule out anything. She liked you enough to have lunch with you in the first place. It's normal for a casual setting like this that the girl insists on paying. Now, if you ask her out on a regular date, then she might think differently when it comes to letting you treat her. Of course, some girls just don't want to let a guy pay for a meal because then she'll think that you're expecting something in return. If she wants to keep paying dutch, let her until she gets comfortable enough to let you treat. When that happens, that will probably be the green light for you to get a little more serious and make a move.
Virgo girl sending mixed signals. Does she like me or does she just see me as a friend?
Yes she likes you for sure. As a Virgo myself, I can be a bit self absorbed at work or simply spaced out. We are also afraid of rejection and would like the guy to initiate the chat. We are confident of who we are but very shy when it comes to the guy we like. I would be thinking what should I say to him, or how should I say it just over analytical sometimes just hoping to impress the guy we like and ended up not saying anything sometimes xD She is hoping you would make the move, trust me it takes lots of courage to be ultra friendly like what you described.
She keeps saying no. And you still insist on what you feel/want. Is it okay to try and be rejected every time? How many more times would you try?
This is still happening to me and has lasted years; I’m the girl in this situation.Stop. I'm not joking.I know my feelings for him will never become that or romance as does he as I've made it very clear. His repetitive interest in me has almost completely ruined any friendship we could've had. Recently he's stopped and has promised not to mention it - concluding he'd rather be my friend than nothing to me.Any, and every, attempt you make puts her in the horrible situation of telling you it's not happening and that makes her feel guilty as hell when you’re the one who put her in the situation in the first place.Once is fair - after all you're entitled to express your feelings as she is. But this happening continuously tells this girl that you don't actually care for her feelings, choosing to put your wants and desires about her own. That's a dick move, especially when talking about engaging in a romantic relationship. After all for a relationship to be stable you have to respect one another equally and, usually, when in love you put the other person’s needs above your own.Listen to her - it's not going to happen. It's time to accept this and leave her alone or, if you can, focus on the friendship. If you continue then you warrant her going to the police and getting a retraining order. I would if my friend continued this course of action with me.
Why does Daenerys Targaryen have such a long introduction?
Those are her titles and she is a Queen and every King or Queen( in books at least) have always been introduced on scene especially if it involves a court scene , with lengthy titles. From Robert Baratheon in season 1 to Joffrey , Renly, Stannis and Cersei.She is the mother of Dragons, because she sacrificed herself and hatched those dragons.She is breaker of chains, Mhysa, Khaleesi of Great Grass Sea because its the title bequeathed to her by her people just like Jallaluddin Muhammad was once awarded in real history of Indian Kings. The title was “Akbar”, the name he is more famous for, incidentally just like Daenerys whose Khaleesi name is extremely popular in fandom for babies!And the Queen of the Seven Kingdom and allied title because just like Stannis and Renly, she is also a potential claimant and as you can see..they all tend to do that.So her introduction is longer because half of her titles are earned and given to her by her people. And we have most scenes with her when she is having court .
Why are Russian guys so cold in relationships at times?
Why do you ask HERE instead of asking HIM? :) However, cultural differences is the root of the answer. That's how we mostly are being raised here, in Russia: the man must do his duties, take care of his lady / family, and pay less attention to his own emotions, period. P.S.: Are you happy with him? If yes, then why is this question? If no, then why are you still with him? Also, ask yourself, what do you want — a Man (your personal knight, friend, defender, helper, lover and a safe haven you can count on anytime) or a drama queen? .