Why do I always feel like I'm doing everything wrong?
To me, it sounds like you are under a lot of stress and are feeling very insecure about yourself. First off, you need to work on building up self-confidence. If you are afraid of talking to people and having lengthy conversations in real life, you may want to start off by having conversations with them online. Once your trust builds up with them, try talking to them in real life as well. With time this will get easier and you won't even have to use the "online" method, you'll be perfectly comfortable talking to them in real life. This may sound impossible and you may think that you can never do this and just generally have a negative view, but try it. You lose nothing by trying. Secondly, you need a break. It sounds to me that when you say "nothing is real or genuine" that you're not looking after yourself properly and you're not very optimistic or positive. Take a holiday, take some time to just spend a couple of days by the beach, in sunny areas, reflecting on how your life is and what you'd like to change about it. Change is not impossible. Knowing from experience, it's easiest to make a "new start" to life by yourself on the beach...if there are hot guys/girls around it helps as well...hehe =) Mainly it sounds like you need to work on being more confident and positive. Starting to be optimistic already takes care of about 3/4 of your problems. You just need to find a way to bring yourself out of this depression and look at things in a whole new light. Remember, it's never too late to change anything! Miracles happen, whether you believe it or not =) And most problems are perspective based. If you look at a situation from another perspective, you may find that it's not as bad as you thought it was =) So just snap out of this dark, gloomy hole you've brought yourself into and add some sunshine into your life. Life is too short to be depressed during, so just lighten up, make a fresh start and be happy! And remember, the key to a successful life is physical exercise ;) Or of course, doing what you love because that's what brings the happiness back into your life. Either one works :)
Friend always takes everything I say the wrong way?
My friend is quite troubled and unstable. She has borderline personality disorder. She has some good personality traits like generosity but I find one trait is simply doing my head in and I'm thinking I have to end contact soon. She takes everything the wrong way! For example, today I asked her what she was upto, she said at a funeral. I replied saying that I hope she was okay after what nmust hve been a sad day. She sent a reply that read 'wasn't a sad day'. I replied saying, 'oh was it someone you didn't really like'? She then sent the most vile, nasty msg back saying in her culture funerals aren't sad occasions and this is what she meant and how cud I be so disgusting to think she hated someone enough to say them dying wasn't sad. I haven't even replied as her reply was ridiculous. I have decided to never speak to her again as this is now a regular occurance and its almost like she wants an argument. She wud have an enemy long ago if I wasn't so mature and tried not to respond to her messages. Everyone else hates her but I've tried to be kind. Why do you think she takes everyone the wrong way? What would cause someone to be like that? Just for my own curiosity.
Why does everything happen wrong with me?
Hey Hi!Truly speaking, I also feel the same. A lot has been happening to me, most of it has been bad. So, I think I am eligible to answer your question.There are always two perspectives, one is a smaller picture where we see the present scenario which is not good. The other is the bigger picture which has an outcome, a good result coming out of the same bad happening to you.Also, there are two ways to deal with it. One is you can keep thinking about the present bad and just sulk. Or the other, where you can prove yourself in these tough situations, burn out, stay positive and make your better future even more better.These all are lessons life teaches us, its upon us how to answer life. Though I understand, its humane to get sad and feel low when life keeps on striking you. But its also humane, to get up and cheer yourself.An advice: Start making someone else’s life better, who needs you. You will start feeling way happier.Keep faith in your family, they will find a way out to fulfill all our aspirations.Cheers!
Why do i always end up falling in love with the wrong person?
Embrace it. These are life experiences. Change your attitude toward the selection of men that you have dated to that of being greatful for the opportunity to date them. Things happen for a reason dear, every man you date and then dissappoint you, helps create the person you are to be for the right man that is still out there, and going thru the life experiences needed to be the right man for you. Always bear this in mind when some man treats you badly. Does this mean, that you should accept men to walk all over you, and treat you badly? No, identify this behavior early, you should be getting very good at it, with your past experience. No matter how hot he may be, and how bad you want him, if you notice a behavior that you remember in one of your bad relationships, be warned, and aware. Eventually you will notice a difference in one man, the one man that is just right for you.
Answer this, what always ends everything?
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