My best friend thinks I'm ugly?
My best friend thinks I'm unattractive. She doesn't say it, but I know she talks behind by back. I'm not her best friend anymore clearly, but I don't get it. Why would she say stuff like that? Some people tell me I look like a model, yet others think I'm unattractive . I recall walking in front of her one day, and then she told me that I walk funny, despite never saying anything before. I'm am really confused as to why she would say things like this.
How do you say something nice to your best friend?
“I value you and our friendship so, so much. You don't even know how much happier I am when we can laugh and forget — momentarily — about all our problems. I know that you don't really need me, and I know that I don't really need you. We could survive without each other. Yet, we've stuck with each other trough the tough parts and pretty parts of life. So thank you for staying around and enriching my life. Thank you for being you. Thank you for all the laughs. Thank your for all the support. Thank you for being my best friend.”
Why does my best friend doesn't treat me like her friend?
Case 1: Theoretically, best friends are those who do not need to meet repeatedly in order to prove their best friendship. If both of them sit over a bench without even saying a word and walk with a feeling that it was the best conversation they had: that is best friendship.So it depends on your situation. Since I do not know your circumstances and terms of relations here is where case 2 comes in.Case 2: She is not your best friend and wants to use you whenever she is in trouble. And maybe she feels that you are readily available to her and you will come running like a rabbit after her if she shows you a carrot from a distance. So if she has got this feeling, it is because you have done such things which have made her feel so. You have given your vulnerability and accessibility to her too much that now your value is down.So depending upon the situation you are in, chose the one right for you and change yourself accordingly.
My best friend never says I Love You?
Damn, that sounds like me - I blurt out lovey-dovey messages to anyone and everyone on facebook except to my best friend :/ coming from someone who does this - it is just our personality.. I find it awkward saying "I love you" to my best friend because we are like sisters and it's just who I am. Although around other people, there is pressure to say certain things in a certain way because they have different expectations and don't know me as well as my best friend. I guess there's no pressure to say things like that with my best friend, she knows how I'm like.
Why does my best friend act like superior to me?
Any time, especially in front of guys, my friend argues with me or tells me that im doing something wrong or critizes me in some wyas. Sometimes she laugh sarcastically as if to say, "why are you so dumb?" And sometimes shes be mean about questions i ask. Don;'t get me wrong, im not that dumb. I mean i get good grades in school but theres some stuff about life that i dont know and she acts like she knows it all. In reality i think a lot of the time shes jealous of me. Things llike this ahppen all the time iwth her and i, things that maybe she doesnt take notice of but hurt my feelings. We always fight about stupid stuff and we just got over a fight. I love the girl and i couldnt imagine a life without her but its hard talking to her because shes probably going to do the same thing. I think the reason she thinks its "friend protocol" to tease each other is because she never had a great best friend when she was little. she argues all the time with me. im kinda upset.
How do you react when your best friend says something really hurtful to you?
Some great advice so far. I've had a similar situation and I ended up leaving the friendship. I felt really bad about it, but I also believed ( and still believe) it was the only thing I could have done.There is value in a long-standing friend, and to the extent possible you should try to preserve your friendship. However, toxic relationships exist because one or both parties feel like they can not leave a relationship that no longer enriches them.It's possible your friend said something mean but meant it “innocently.” Perhaps she was trying to give you honest advice, or maybe she didn't think what she said was insulting. Maybe she just let her mouth get ahead of her brain, or maybe she's going through a rough patch and felt a subconscious need to elevate herself in someway.Or maybe not. Maybe this friend does not value you, or feels entitled to put you down, or really doesn't like you, or can never ever admit making a mistake. Maybe she's purposely pushing you away or maybe she just likes putting people down.If you value this friendship, you should make an effort to find out if this falls into the first group or the second. How? You made a good start by telling her how you feel. Her response that you are too sensitive doesn't bode well, but it's possible she needs a little time and distance to gain perspective. If, after a few weeks or months have passed and she's still not wiling to take responsibility for hurting your feelings, move on. Some friends aren't meant to last a lifetime.
What is the worst thing your best friend ever said to you?
She told me that she would see me in a few days. Usually, there’s nothing wrong with that, and at the exact moment she said it there wasn't even anything particularly wrong with it; that didn't come until nearly a day afterwards.It was for Mother’s Day weekend, and she (my best friend) was leaving for the week to go see her mom, who lived far enough out-of-state that you couldn't have driven there in less than at least a day, but not far enough to warrant buying a plane ticket and flying there. She left on a Friday and that was the last time I ever saw her. The last thing she told me was that she would see me in a few days. This never came to fruition.The next time I saw her, she was in a casket.She’d been hit by a drunk driver, someone in a white pickup truck. I've learned the driver’s name since then, and I've even talked with him. He seems like a decent enough fellow so I won't be mentioning his name here.As it turns out, she’d been hit and killed on impact on Friday night, but I didn't find out about it until her mom called me the next day. Her last words were the worst thing she ever said to me because they were a promise that she would see me again, although she never did. I know it wasn't her fault, but I just wish I’d have really been able to see her again.For me, the experience serves as a reminder that nothing in this world is certain, and that our lives, everything we know, can be taken away in an instant with absolutely no warning.It's been a little over a year since that happened, and I still miss her every day.