Why does my bf treat me the way his ex treated him?
We've been together for almost a year and I know he loves me, but sometimes he treats me like how he said his ex treated him. For example, he said she wouldn't text him back or talk to him for days at a time...and he does that same thing to me. When I ask why he doesn't text me back he'll say something like "well you didn't ask me a question". I always text him back as soon as I get his text and I always answer his calls, but if it were flipped I know he would be upset if I did this to him. He's also told me before that he'll never give 100% of himself to someone because he did for his ex and she left him. What I don't understand is they were only together 5 months and that was almost 2 years ago. Why would he treat me the way she treated him if it hurt him so badly? He told me sometimes it made him cry when she would ignore him, and now him doing it to me makes me sad because for awhile he'll be really close to me and call me every day, ask me to hang out very often then it seems like he catches himself getting closer to me and starts to distance himself by not calling me and making plans with me less. When I talk to him about it he just justifies it in some way and makes it seem like I'm just being sensitive.
Why does my ex gf treat me like a stranger?
I was her first love and longest relationship. She decided to have my child but we are no longer together. We haven't been together for about a year but we interact everyday. I still love her.... But she distances herself from me and avoids me and is on a hunt for a man. Why does she treat me like a stranger when we have so much history together
Why does my ex treat me like crap?
I'm in the middle of a divorce. Divorce means that we are not going to ever be a couple again. We are however needing to communicate about details so that things move along smoothly. We made some verbal agreements, but because my ex has a track record of not keeping his word I am having the agreements we made (we both made them) put into our final divorce decree. So I wrote him an email today to inform him that he'd be receiving those papers and that he needs to sign them and send them back to finalize the divorce (which I think he now wants more than I do). I didn't add or subtract anything I just had my attorney draw up the guidelines. I get this email back from him like all the sudden I am the biggest slime ball in the world and how he might have to get a lawyer after all. Which is fine if that's what he wants to do. I really don't care. I did try to call to assure him that I wasn't deviating from our discussions but he refuses my calls and generally treats me one step lower than the dirt under his feet. I am glad we are getting divorced, but I cannot shake the feelings of upset I have from being ignored by him. I left my whole life behind 9 years ago to marry him and I supported him financially for almost the entire marriage. He is a loser, I just don't understand why he treats me like such crap when I am not really doing anything to warrant it.
Why does my ex treat me like I’m her enemy?
So she broke up with me, went for another guy and told me to fuck off. But what I don’t understand is why does she treat me like if we were enemies, she doesn’t look at me when we cross paths, even if we are right in front of each other and it’s impossible for her not to notice me, like there’s this really small hallway in school that I saw her in, she was going the opposite way, but not only that people were making projects on the floor so we had to walk around each other to walk to our destination, and basically needing to notice each other, and it is impossible for her not to notice me, yet she didn’t even look up she kept her head down like if I had hurt her or like she hated me, which I don’t understand why she’s the one that ended it all shouldn’t she be the non caring one? And why does she behave this way? I’m tired of the awkwardness of it
Why does my ex boyfriend treat me like crap?
So me and my ex were together for 7 years but we ended up breaking up cause of my infidelity and now we are friends and have been for 5 years and we recently became friends on Facebook but when I leave comments on his timeline he ignores them but he will comment on his friends and exes comments but not mine. Also, sometimes he will call me and say he needs my help for something or he will ask me if I need help with anything or sometimes he will buy stuff for me and my children..Why is he being this way ?
Why does my ex treat me like crap but treats the ones who actually did him wrong better like they didn't hurt him?
I have happy news for you you can fix it..when your partner start disrespecting you and treat you like crap that’s mean he’s taking your love for granted, he has power over you,and he know that you will obey him like a slave,because in his mind you’re a weak and won’t do shit to stop him and mark my words if you let him continue controlling you like a puppet he’ll cheat on you and can even physically abuse you.That’s why nice girls are boring and nobody respect them because they won’t stand up for themselves,and when they get insulted they start apologizing,clinging,crying instead of fighting or walking away and that’s make them more annoying,nobody want someone like that..Solution :Never ever let someone disrespect you,remember you’re unique and deserve to be loved..Respect and love need to be earned you don’t give it that for free !1-Start ignoring him,respond with shorts answers,don’t give him sex,do it for a week,he will notice and if he really loves you ,he will start asking you questions,when that happen tell him that you’re thinking about breaking up..He will freak out and of course he’ll make sure that it won’t happen,you know like the old saying “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”if he doesn’t love you then that’s another story.In the future when your partner start showing disrespect,be strong and show them who is boss..either leave,fight,or ignore,and never apologize for something you never did,if they care they will chase,if they don’t then good you just dodged a bullet.Relationships are made to make you happy not otherwise,if your partner is toxic leave..
Why does my ex treat me like garbage when he's the one that dumped me?
Simple, your Ex treats you like garbage because you let him. You are over thinking it. Most likely because you are both hurt and because you may still have some unresolved issues with the relationship. He broke up with you, you owe him nothing. Do not give him attention, do not communicate with him. Yes, it might be difficult because your cousin is tied to this whole thing as she is family. Still, stop talking to him. Justifying to us that you were trying to be a good girlfriend does nothing to disprove that you made a mistake picking the guy and that he is a scumbag. Do yourself a favour and try to drop the issue. Yes, it is not going to make the pain go away just like that, but it is a first step. Admit you made a mistake. Admit that you acted foolishly. Admit that maybe you acted a bit dumb about the whole thing. Okay. Done? Yes, say it to yourself, once you have done that. Stop. Period. Now, stop feeling bad for yourself and try to focus and what you are going to do moving forward. How you are going to focus on yourself. What are you going to do with your cousin, again moving forward. It is not easy, but you have to take it one step at the time, one day at the time.
Why does my ex Girlfriend treats me so bad?
she sounds like she's playing games. If she was really in to you, she wouldn't have broken up with you. She told you that you two could remain friends. That doesn't mean you two will talk much. At the same time, she still wants you to want her, so she looks at you a lot to see if you are paying attention. Then in front of people she will be mean. It is confusing isn't it? She is playing hard to get. If you act interested, she will act like she wants nothing to do with you. The moment you start ignoring her, she will start trying to get your attention again. She's not worth it because she is playing games.
Why do I still miss an ex who treated me so badly?
My best guess is that you like to think you have grown and matured as a person and:you subconsciously want to try it again, thinking that you are better prepared to deal with his behavior. He’s grown too and probably plays all new stupid games.you never got closure and are still seeking answers as to why he did the things he did. There are never any answers to be had, as he probably doesn’t eve know why he did the things he did.you are feeling strong and have some fantasy of reenacting the whole situation all over again with you in the driver’s seat. It’s for closure but again he’s not the same person you remember. Just as you have grown, so has he in his own dark way.you have discovered that moving on is hard work and it’s sometimes easier to deal with the devil we know. As long as you are searching for something new, you have hope of finding a good, kind, caring man.you secretly think all his abuse has tainted you as a person and no one will ever truly want you. Not true of course, but it explains you revisiting the ex who abused you in your mind frequently.Heck, the list could go on and on. The thing is, as long as you are vacillating over your ex, you will find it hard to move forward. And, trust me, you deserve to move forward and put this behind you.