Why Does Nobody Like Me?
From the long winded novel, I am confident of the following things: 1) you have a confidence problem 2) you don't talk much 3) you don't have fun much 4) you don't show your smile 5) you are too tensed My advice is as follows: 1) stop overgeneralising and stop being dramatic 2) relax 3) be yourself more, but hold back on unattractive things 4) be more open and socialise more; be more welcoming and hospitable 5) realise things can only get easier if you talk more 6) be more fun and active 7) get along with people and be a little more easy going If you don't feel like what you are doing is you or someone you would like to be, stop. If the things you do compromises your integrity, values, or what you want in life, stop. If the above restrains you more than it does liberating you, stop. The problem I have with girls is they are too socially apprehensive. They may have the most attractive personality in the world or they even have the most interesting thing to say, but when you try to bring that out of them they act weird and awkward. It's like saying, even if you are gifted with amazing talent, if you don't used it, it makes no difference at all. Likewise, if you don't talk or say a single thing, nobody would ever know. It's really not that hard talking to boys, and you would be surprised at how open some of us are. Most don't reject girls over every single thing they find wrong with them. If you have manners and are considerate to others, you should be fine with most people. In fact, you may have problems with shy guys as oppose to getting rejected. Most guys would prefer a decent personality and average looks over an atrocious personality and super hot looks. If you have applied everything, but still don't see much difference, feel free to either message me or post up another question. Hope this helps
Why does nobody talk to me at school?
It just feels like, before someone even talks to me, they take one look and decides that I'm a nerd and they don't need to bother to talk to me. I may not be outgoing, or good at initiating conversations, but how can I just prove to these kids at my school that I'm not the stereotype they have labeled me already? How can I be friends with them, or at least get them to respect me? I really don't need any lecturing or preaching. I'm aware that these kids are judgmental and shallow, and I don't need to change myself, blahbity blah. I know that, but I just need to survive school.
Why does nobody like me at school?
It maybe because you keep it real . You say and do what you feel without any hesitation . You can see through the fake faces put up by your schoolmates and react accordingly . If you really want your classmates to like you ,you should start keeping certain things to yourself EgMe : your dress looks so pretty ! (Even though I don't like it )Classmate : thank you so much .She likes me nowClassmate 1 :I like your dress .Classmate 2 : thanksMe : This dress looks better on Priya .You will be hated .You need to show that you are friendly too . Engage in conversations ,tell them your point of view . Sometimes such feelings are in your head only & people do not actually feel that .
Why does no one want to talk with me?
It always feels like that people in school, my classmates have no interest in talking with me. They are nice and such, but they just wont talk with me, starting a conversation unless I try to talk with them. And then the conversation is like, very "steal". I know that I used to be very very asocial in the past, that I've never got to learn to know them. And I also know that I talk very quietly, but lately I've tried to talk in a higher voice...so I've tried to improve myself. But I am a very nice person, I do not look very bad or anything. I'm also pretty good student in school... I do not understand why they are like that. It is really difficult to find topics to talk about. Sometimes I think maybe it is because I am boring to talk with...Or maybe it is because I am like, the only one in my school that look more "emo", and all others are like R n' B. But I am not emo (there is nothing wrong being an emo either). We have nothing in common. Please help me, it is really difficult to be in school when you feel left out.
Why does nobody want to spend time with me?
Oww.. That is kinda sad. Just give it time to get into the group if you want to. All it takes is time. They will grow to like you and get used to you. But don't change yourself to be like someone else or fit in. I just thought of a great idea too... Tell them that you wanted to go see this movie and you wanted to invite them, make it a cool movie like 2012 or something cool and "boyish" like that. If they say that they don't want to go, ask them if they want to go see a different movie or want to do something else. And they only say Hi to you, probably becuase they have been a group for a little while and they just need to get to know you better. Don't feel stressed or depressed about it, it'll be fine, make new friends that are like you if it doesn't work out with them. But i think time will really make a difference! GOOD LUCK! :)
Why does nobody ever want to talk or message me on facebook?
I can't believe that you are worrying about that, just ignore it, be happy with yourself that's what matters :)