I'm an uncle and my 12yo niece gets changed sometimes in my presence. Is this ok?
Basically, like if we went swimming or if she gets out of the shower and takes off her towel to get changed and I just happen to be present, she just gets changed as no big deal and I just go about my business like no issue. My sister in-law was fine with it several years ago. All of a sudden, she like flipped out. My niece came over my house and her and I went swimming. After we got done, we went and got changed in the same room. When we came out, my brothers wife, her mom, happen to stop by and started to question. I looked at her like she lost her mind. I mean, yes yes, maybe it does not normally sound appropriate but I look at her like she is my own kid and I mean, her naked is totally not even a second thought with me. I mean, well, you know what I mean. Its just like, whatever. Not a big deal, I don't pay it any mind. So my sister in-law calls my brother. He agrees to a point but also says if its not an issue, why make it an issue.
My boyfriend suddenly changed...does this mean he is gradually breaking up with me?
My boyfriend and i been together for 3 mons. In the first weeks he is sweet and initiates text all the time. We only communicate via text as he is lazy calling me. We spend quality time only once a week. Now things changed like he never text that often i confronted him through text and phone call asking why he is ignoring me and he said i worry too much and that i should relax myself. He said the reason why he is acting this way is because of pressure at work. He said he will call but did not. When i text him about hows his day been...he replied in a nice way but does not want to talk because he is tired. He said that sometime i over react to tiny things...like texting. Its been two weeks now that he is acting like this. My friend said i should give him space maybe he is really pressured at work but i am not convinced. Is there a problem in our relationship? Do you think he is doing this deliberately to push me away and so i initiate the break up?Is this his way of breaking up?
My uncle was a quiet person and he has suddenly started talking a lot. He is alcoholic but he hasn't been drinking for a month or so. Is this change in behavior a sign of any mental illness?
It is because he is used to alcohol, giving up alchol that soon really is Dangerous ITis nothing to do with mental illness ask him to continue taking alochol and ask him to stop it gradually things will be alright. it is the same with psychiactric medications and infact they are real dangerous too , will change the whole system , infact this is one more indsutry of money making , never ever take psychiatric medications in life, go for natural remedies if not go for homeopathic medications
What is that one word which changed your life completely?
I’m what you would call a logophile- I love words. I know may fair share of them, but there’s one I could never forget.Kalopsia.Kalopsia is the delusion that things are more beautiful than they actually are. When I first learned this word, I was by no means in a good place. I hated every little thing about myself. And hating yourself can really change how you see the world- my family suddenly felt like a curse, strangers in the street seemed dangerous, but the biggest difference was how unbearable the world seemed. Well, my world. I wanted to leave; escape all the things about my hometown that hurt my eyes.And then I learned kalopsia. It put everything in a new light- and probably not the one you might think. It made me question.It made me wonder if kalopsia had made me see the world prettier when I was a little girl, and it had worn off, or if maybe I was under its influence and the world was really even uglier.It made me wonder if people got kalopsia when they looked at me; if they saw me as some sort of bombshell. It made me wonder if the people at school that everyone had crushes on didn’t appeal to others for a reason.It made me fantasize about an alternate universe where kalopsia was reversed, and everything we saw as ugly was the definition of art there. It made me wonder what “beautiful” even was. Everyone seemed to have a different idea of what it was.I spent so many hours just asking myself questions, and answering those questions with more questions, until I finally drew a conclusion.I was outside, alone, letting my brain slip into memories of the playground in elementary school. There were dandelions all over it, just like the ones on my lawn I was looking at. That’s when it hit me- dandelions are weeds. They suck the life out of other plants, but to me, it’s just just a sunshiny flower.Kalopsia depends on perspective. To the artist, graffiti is a masterpiece, but to a cop, it’s vandalism. Everyone has a different idea of beautiful.Kalopsia changed my life because it doesn’t matter. To someone, I’m pretty. To someone else, I’m not. Same goes for the world, and everything in it.So why worry about it?
Do male dogs change after they mate for the 1st and only time?
What will change in him if I let him mate? Nothing. Will it make his marking worse? Nope, but, it won't go away. Marking is cured by proper and consistent house training. I have an unfixed dog, in 11 years he has not marked in the house once. House training means - urine indoors - not allowed. Will he suddenly always wish to mate after one time? Is this a human or a dog? Answer that and you will have your answer to this. Even after his neutering, will he remember what he did and keep marking? Yep, i could almost guarantee it.
My uncle's dead body's face had turned severely black and his ears were completely blue. Was he poisoned?
Most necrotic aftermaths after a person dies of lack of blood to any of the.major organs can produce a sight that does not resemble the person at all.Often a bloat on features, a blackening of the skin and a blueness of certain areas are common and are not symptoms of poisoning.If you had genuine reasons to suspect foul play then an autopsy should have been organised as soon as possible as most poisons leave only small traces behind and can dissipate as the body decomposition takes hold.Things to look for with poisoning is spasmodic rigidity, foaming at the mouth, unusual preservation over time and irregular stomach contents.What you describe so far is consistent with an exploding heart which ruptured the blood vessels and caused pooling across the body.
How has your perspective on life changed as you passed through various ages?
My uncle dying changed the whole perspective for me, in regards to things I find important. It’s been 8 years now, and in that time all of the choices I’ve been making were affected by the fact I became as aware of, that life is such a valuable possession which can get lost on us in an instant. Nothing other than dying is irreversible and as long as we are alive we have the possibility to correct mistakes, show our appreciation for the people we care about, make decisions to improve the quality of our lives, live in the present but also take past into account and make good choices for whatever may happen tomorrow.What I wrote is more of a change in my understanding of life, and there were also 2 changes I went through on an emotional level, that altered my outlook as well as behavior.Realizing the irrelevance of pettiness, being “right”, keeping my pride, not being the one to call 1st etc. - death is a threat to all of us and I want to live every moment knowing I showed love to all of the people I care about, or generally that I was a decent human being towards anyone I may encounter in the course of my day. I don’t want to be a negative influence to anyone and that became my top priority in human interaction. I’m still dealing with anger issues occasionally, but that way of thinking was what started turning me into a mellow person who is always ready to compromise.I loved my uncle so much, he was like a parent to me, and before he died it was completely unimaginable to me I could live without him around. The main thing his death taught me is I can live through anything, no matter how painful and hard the experience is, I have the potential to live through it and come out stronger in the end.