Why is everyone better than me?
Well,do you have all your limbs attached ? You are literate since you wrote this question.You also have a fancy smartphone and a laptop.All the above ,by default,put you above millions of unfortunate people in the world.In this cut throat world,consumerism culture and to an extent media makes our vision of ourselves skewed.We notice the fallacies but not the virtues.We engage in incessant discussions with ourselves about how bad we suck,or how bad we F'd up. While some thought should go into why you failed at something (personally I don't like the word and I rather use the phrase 'not achieved the goal yet'),continuous pondering on it or comparing with others is a futile exercise.While it may sound clichéd ,all of us have something we are naturally better then others,and some people find that 'leverage' pretty early in Thier lives while some are late bloomers.The key is to never stop looking and continuously making new experiences.untill you realize “holy sh**t,I am awesome at this”. Achievements are achievements irrespective of the age they are attained.Dont let the world fool you into believing that you should be doing/having something at a particular age.You are the protagonist of your story and you will always be.
Why do I think everyone is doing better than me?
I know this won't be a very satisfying answer, but two very powerful factors come to mind:You are comparing your internal reality to the outward projections others provide--their carefully managed, desperately positive outward projections designed to make them appear strong, capable and independent. Consider the number of people you are comfortable sharing any of your actual feelings with, and the much smaller, probably zero, number you share all your feelings with. Face it: your perspective inside your own head is stacking the deck.It's very likely that you aren't examining one person at a time and comparing their "success profile" with yours, across the board. It's more likely that you are noticing where this person is outdoing you, and somewhere else that person is, and so on. If you are comparing yourself to everyone else's max, what do you think the effect of that will be?The sad fact is, there's no way to win this comparison game. I've known several fantastically successful, unimpeachably great people in my life. To the extent they are satisfied with their lot, it's not because they feel superior to others. Rather, they enjoy their capabilities. And this is an avenue for satisfaction that's open to anyone by 1) concentrating on their strengths, and 2) growing their capabilities by setting ambitious but realizable goals for improvement. Neither of these requires "getting ahead" in any broader sense.Losing makes you unhappy; winning, per se, doesn't make you happy. To quote the sage, you cannot lose if you do not play.I hope that you'll work toward getting out of the game. It's bound to end badly.
Why is everyone advoing me now?
You must live in bigotry country. Good luck you'll need it. On the other hand, you now have carte blanche, you can do whatever you like without any fear of social repercussions, because you're already persona non grata. And another thing: Maybe it won't help, but this is a perfect opportunity to find out who is a nice person and who is an ahole. And see, as it turns out it's everybody! Good to know!
Why do i feel like everyone is better than me?
im 14 too and we all have these moments...i feel that way sometimes at times...but i think that you need to gain some self confidence and start to love yourself more and maybe youll feel better about yourself... Work like you don’t need the money, Love like you’ve never been hurt, Dance like no one is watching, Even when you're crushed in the dirt. Fight like you've already won, Daydream like you'll live forever, Don't ever quit 'til you're done. Hope like there's no word as "never." Forgive like you can’t waste your time, On grudges that kill you inside, Give like you’ll never get anything back, Be someone who has nothing to hide. Step out like you’ve never fallen, When you do, stand tall and brave, Laugh loud, no matter who hears you, Learn why joy cannot fear the grave. See beauty like it’s only the first time, Marvel at all that you see… It’s too big a world not to wonder, How you and I came to be. Savor each breath that you take, dear… 'Cuz time, honey? It just moves too fast. And above all, my friends, remember... To live...like this day is your last. =)
Why do everyone treat me so badly?
I think that your ready for the next stage in your life, and are seeing things more clearly. Other people know when someone is different and a lot of kids just can't stand that you may have something going on. Jealousy, ignorance, spite, all of that stuff is coming into play. I went through it a long time ago, but its still the same thing, just the clothes and music are different. If you have aspirations of going to college, junior college, or a certificate program, ask your school counselor about it, and then find some other kids with the same kind of hopes for the future. Team up, make some friends, and stick with people that want to be somebody in the future, not in the short life span of high school. You sound like your on the right track, make it work for you, and really take advantage of what you can while your there. Be somebody who is happy, healthy, and WISE!
On fable 3, Why does everyone hate me?
I am trying to earn money to save everyone for the end. I'm in the middle of making all the important decisions and have bought all possible real estate to generate income. I have a wife in Bowerstone market, so i go there often and I saw that some people didn't like me. I started doing relationship quests to make them like me more. While some of them like me more, others hate me more, no matter what I do. I was chatting alone with a furniture store seller and i got jasper congratulating me for making people fear me. Help! I don't know what to do!
I feel like everyone is doing better than me in life?
Hi, J. :) I'm 17 (female). I can relate to how you are feeling. I attended a high school in my town where I was the best academically. Due to a decrease in numbers, I had to switch schools this year (my Grade 11 year). This new school is highly competitive and I feel as though my classmates are "not human." There are dancers, swimmers, singers, writers... etc. Some have been in intense competitions. I do play soccer and I love it. I can't say that I'm not intimidated by these people. My other school was much more laidback. I feel like a gimp sometimes. I slipped into a partying routine because of personal problems as well (not to get off track). What I've learned that may be of help to you is that there are these inhuman specimens out there. Everywhere. Remember that you are only seeing their exterior. All people have faults (even the inhuman). Focus on your writing talents and tennis. You seem very modest. Do not undervalue your talents because this will diminish them. Best of luck at college. Be confident and have fun. :) -Nicole
Everyone from high school is doing better than me?
I deleted my Facebook long ago (3 years ago or so) because I used to get depressed about how successful they all were at university and life. But I was curious earlier today and looked up all of my classmates. Turns out all I have to do is Google their names and instantly I get postings from high-ranking universities about how they're studying math and computer science, or how they're finding a cure for cancer or how they've written articles for the universities or how they're studying astrophysics and business. I get so depressed because I feel worthless when I compare what I've done with what they've done. I can't imagine what I'd do if I saw them in public and I swore that I'd never go to a high school reunion. How do I stop feeling so worthless when they're doing so amazing in life...?
Why does everyone always laugh at me?
I'm always laughed at in a cruel way. From what I'm doing to what I say. I'm always laughed at school because either someone's joking on me or someone has said something really mean. I mean they laugh at everything I do and say. Even my parents laugh at me. They do it just to be mean. I don't mean to be funny. I'm not doing any weird, bizarre, or crazy. When they laugh at me like that it makes me feel that I'm not normal. That I'm awkward and really hate myself.