Why is my sister so immature?
Hannah wasn't her friend, she was just another girl we met. They were the same age, but she was much more mature. And we didn't really sign up for the same plays. I love acting more than anything, it's what I plan on going to college for, and I wasn't going to let my bratty sister get in the way of me doing what I wanted, which was being in the musical. I live in a really small town, so there's not a whole lot of opportunities that dont' cost $$, school plays are one of them. We have local theater groups, but they usually cost $$ for an audition (they give the $$ back if you don't make it). My cousin's done a few of their plays and I'd LOVE to sometime.
So worried about whether or not I'll ever have a son. I have a daughter. Immature, but some advice please?
I'm so worried about the future. I know I sound very trivial and immature, but as the father of one little beautiful angel of a daughter, I painfully long for a son. I always grew up feeling that being a dad would be having a son. I learned to enjoy this having a daughter, but in the macho world I live in, I need some help. All my guy friends have sons. I feel like they look down on me as if I wasn't manly enough to have a son. If I was to have two daughters, I will have this feeling doubled. I feel that they will look down on me in a way (stupid I know) and sort of feel bad for me... just like I'll sort of feel bad for myself. One of my guy friends, his wife is pregnant with his second son... I feel so jealous. My sister has a daughter, and is pregnant with her second. Doesn't know the sex yet. They want a boy. I want her to have a boy, because she's so sweet, and deserves all the happiness in the world. But I still feel jealousy towards the possibility. Please help me with some advice so I can have the strength from now until my next child, to reduce my anxiety and fear (and caring what others think) as well as jealousy. Sorry for being so immature, but these are the feelings I have innately... and I'm trying my best.
My single father is mentally immature and dates my friends. How can I convince him to stop?
No doubt he is feeling great about himself that he is still pulling girls your age. I think that most guys would love to have this problem and it would be a huge boost to his ego. He probably couldn't care less why your friend is doing it so telling him she is only after his money will not help.Talk to him and tell him that you are very uncomfortable with the noises and whatnot. I would not call him a pervert or anything because she is of legal age. Ask him how he would feel if you brought a guy home and could hear his little Princess getting banged out on a regular basis. If he says that he wouldn't care then I would say that there is something unhealthy going on and I would seriously consider moving out. Otherwise, give him a chance to fix this.If he comes arounds and sees your point of view ( I hope) I would also tell him that you think it is great that he can pick up women around half his age, but after he is done with his current girl, your friends are for now on off limits. He should consider any girl you bring around, or even know, strictly off limits. Hopefully he would not want you dating friends of his, or guys from work (that are his age), so he should understand and agree.
Y r guys my age so immature? (im turnin 17 in August)?
Having been around idiots my entier time in High School, I understand. Why? I'm not gay for starters. It's just the fact that when you have reality hit you HARD, things change, mostly your personallity. Plus, it was just freaken annoying to be within eye sight of them. I was raised by my father and I had an older brother. That's not saying I didn't have a 'Mother' figure, I'm just saying for the most part, I was raised and taught properly by my father and I not only looked up to him, but respected him as I got older and realized how hard everything must have been on him. Because of that, I was very mature for my age, starting at around 14 or so. I realized what idiots others made out of themselves by "swinging their wang" around, if you know what I mean. I never saw the point to it and it only showed me that they only thought about being "better" than anyone else at whatever. I was immiture just to have fun at times but when I knew when I needed to stop, I did. The unfortunet thing about todays world that I'm seeing is each generation seems to be getting more and more lazy and just want everything given to them rather than have to work for it. You want to see how fast a guy will mature? If they start being stupid, give them an ultimadum. Tell them to either start acting their age or you're done with them. If they continue, just leave them. You deserve better. You don't have to really do it, but it is only a suggestion on what might make them "grow-up". I know I would stop being an idiot if my non-exsistant girlfriend told me to stop. But that's just me.
Why should I bother cleaning my room?
Go ahead. Call me an immature teen, but I never quite understood the obsession. As long as nasty stuff like dirty clothes and food/dishes are where they belong, I honestly don't really see the point in cleaning. I don't invite people over anyway, and I think "clean" ends up looking creepy and fake. I don't wear shoes inside the house anyway, and my floor isn't completely covered with stuff anyways, so it can be swept and mopped when needed. Otherwise, I just don't understand why. I have the rest of my life to be a miserable adult with a 9 to 5 why can't I kick back and sit in my room as-is? It's not like it smells. Plus, with everything out, I actually find things faster since I don't have to remember what drawer it is stuck in. (which is really inconvenient since I have an unusually bad memory). I don't see any reasoning that goes beyond, "I say so." I'll wash the dishes and feed the pets and all that jazz, but I don't think my room really needs it. It's not like roaches abound.