Why is my mom so mean to me?
So sad to hear this. Some moms are jealous of their children because they think the child is better than them or they have a better life than they did. Some moms resent having to take care of their children because they want time to themselves. Others feel bad about themselves so they take it out on their children.Can you ask her, “What am I doing wrong? Why are you so mean to me? What did I do to you? Why did you have me? Can you stop being so mean to me?” Let her know that she is being mean. Sometimes people are mean but don’t realize it.Know that it’s your mom’s issue and you will someday find a spouse who loves and appreciates you. Don’t let her B.S. bring you down.
Why is my mom such a jerk to me?
Why is my mom such a jerk to me? She always expects me to be all nice or something but that's the exact opposite of what I am! She gets all mad at me and then gets me in trouble just for being upset. No matter now hard I try to control my anger she gets me in trouble, when she's the one who made me mad in the first place! Then she says rude things like that I'm always mean or that I have no feelings. Nothing I try has helped. I don't even do anything wrong. I hate my life because of the way she treats me. If I said that, she'd start ranting about how "spoiled" I am. I don't even want material stuff, though. All I want is to have understanding people in my life! Is that too much to ask?! Everyone I talk to just uses that stupid reverse talk like "yes you do," if I say I don't so-and-so or "no you don't" if I say I feel a certain way. This whole situation is my life and it's driving me insane! I don't even want to talk to her. I'm afraid that she'll just continue being a big jerk
Why is my mom being mean to me for no reason?
So today I woke up around 1:50pm and I didn't know my mom was out so few minutes I heard the door and she came in and she looked at me and she started yelling at me saying oh did I mop the floor and I told her that I forgot(hello I just Finish waking up) and she said hurry up and do it so I got water and the mop so I was about to start and she was like that's not how u do it and I told her I know that and she said "oh imma break your mouth if you keep talking to me like that" few min later I was moping and she was like your so dumb you can't start from there I wonder why you so dumb so I hurried up and moved to the living room so on purpose she made me do the kitchen all over again so then my older brother started talking her and she was all calm and wasn't mean to him and laughing the. So I was in my room and she came In and threw my brush at me and said not to leave it there.so she said that she wanted to do my hair so she started blow drying it and she started pull hard and she said that am the one that be breaking my own hair when I take good care so she started burning and I told her to stop and she said hold the pain so when she was done she asked me which side my bangs go but she didn't say it like that she just said which side and I told her I didn't know what she was saying and shE started screaming and calling m stupid and shE got up and threw the brush at me again and told me to clean up. Why is she so mean but not mean to my older brother when she mad he plays with her and when I try to joke around with her she gets all serious both my brothers play around with her sometimes cause she so mean I don't call her mom just by her first name none of my brothers call her mom cause shE so mean and and when ever I get mad at her and start talking rude to her she threatens me saying that she gonna break my mouth and put me in the hospital cause imma be bleeding she doesn't give us privatcing cause is her house and can do wat ever beside my mom is 34
Why does everything my mom says and does annoy me?
LOL. I honestly think it’s a combination of confirmation bias, familiarity, hormones, evolution and nature.You see it a lot with kids going through their teens and parents. It’s like, nature is preparing you (and them) for the separation that’s about to happen, so you can embrace the freedom develop your own life, and have a family of your own, and they can give you that freedom without their hearts completely breaking.So, what happens on your side, is that you get super-annoyed by everything your mom says and does, so you start looking forward to being independent.What happens on your parents’ side, is this incredibly adorable, loving child, who they love more than life itself, is now acting like a porcupine, ready to spew porcupine quills at them, whenever they say or do anything.So, your parents start looking forward enough to a cease-fire, that they don’t try to stop you when you decide it’s time to fly from the nest. Although they’ll always be there to catch you if you fall instead of fly.Basically, if you thought they were super-cool always and they were utterly besotted with you always, there’s no way you would ever let go of each other. And that might hinder your natural evolutionary process as you grow from a teen to an adult.Also, as you grow from a child to a teen and from a teen into an adult, you expect greater freedom and responsibility, and you want to be treated like an adult. For a parent who’s been responsible for you, from the moment of conception on through babyhood, toddler years, childhood, teenage years, etc., they can have a hard time letting go of that feeling of responsibility and that feeling that you’re their child (emphasis on child), so often that period of separation is necessary to change the relationship from parent-dependent child to something more equal.After the teen years are over, once the child is in their 20s, or sometimes later, (sometimes much later, depending on how rocky the parent-child relationship was), you’ll find that the relationship between you and your parents gets strong again, and they no longer annoy you the way they did when you were in your teens. That’s when you’ll start valuing them again. Or, at least, they’ll annoy you in a different way. LOL.
My mom is ignoring me. Why is my mom being such a b*tch?
Just wait until you're not living at home anymore.
Why is my mom so mean to me sometimes?
At times my mother could be very nasty towards me. We could be sitting in front of the TV, or quietly enjoying a cup of tea, and I would ask her something quite harmless, and she would viciously hiss a short snappy answer at me. For example, I asked her one day if she could show me how to thread her sewing machine. I needed to sew a quick straight stitch. And I have to admit that I was quite worried about the way she answered my question, as I had never seen that side of her before. To my innocent question my mother viciously hissed back… “Boys don’t sew.” I left it at that, but I have never forgotten it.Now that I am much more mature, I seriously think my mother was suffering from some sort of a severe hormonal imbalance.However, to you I would say… You will be old enough to go-it-yourself one of these days, and you will be able to choose how much time you want to spend with someone who can sometimes be so mean to you!!!Good luck
Is My Mom Being Irrational?
Ok. So this happened erlier today. I have a PS3 and it needed an update. So, as usual when it needs an update, I checked the option turn off when finished, and left to go upstairs to the kitchen to have dinner. As I left, I told her I was leaving, and the PS3 is on. While making dinner, I got an intercom call from her, and she said to come downstairs to check out my desk, because she thought something was burning up. Because my mom has a bad sinus infection, the real smell was a skunk outside the house. So I go downstairs, to find everything off (My computer, PS3, TV, TV box, everything. I didn't see the red light on my PS3, and it was flipped off from the back. She had turned it off during it's update. Now, I am in the shithouse for being pissed that she destroyed my PS3 that I spent MY money on, NOT HERS. She says that "it was your own damn fault because you left it on and it was burning up!... GO AHEAD! FIRE ME! WHY SHOULD I GIVE A F*** ABOUT THE HOUSE BURNING DOWN?!?" And an argument ensued, So I am grounded for 5 months and she refuses to buy me a new PS3 to replace my unfixable one that she broke, do to her idiocy and unwillingness to let me look it over first, like she originally said. Is she being irrational? I think I should have every right to be pissed, because that is 8 months allowance to replace, and 5 months allowance being revoked because Im grounded. Also, I think I should note that she left her computer on for a week straight, and this afternoon, she restarted it because It froze, and the harddrive was wiped. So I opened it up, took out the hdd, fixed the computer, salvaged the data on the hdd, wiped it again, and restored. And that happened a mere 2 hours before I was yelled at for leaving a PS3 on for 30 minutes. Talk about hypocracy.
If my mom is 43 and I will be 21, how old was my mother when she had me?
She was at least 23 years old or older.Y = your ageM = mom’s ageB = mom’s age at your birthConsidering you are not yet 21 then your maximum age is 20. This because the original question states you will be 21, not that you are or are about to be 21.43 - 20 = 23 (M-Y=B)You could be a newborn or just about to turn 21.