She didn't say yes or no when I asked her out.?
I asked a girl out that I work with were friends, i like her a lot so I asked her out, but she did not really say yes or no, more of a I Don't Know. I told her that at least now she knows. What can I gather from this, will she take the time this weekend to think about whether she wants to start a relationship. When I see her next week what should I look for her in her behaviour towards me, if she makes no menion of it can I assume shes not interested.
Why doesn't she love me back?
I know exactly what you’re going through my anonymous friend. I fell in love with a woman who doesn’t love me and just wants to be friends. There was a time when I thought she was interested. We even started cuddling and holding hands for a while, I took her out to the movies and she let me put my arm around her and she rested her head on my shoulders. She slept over at my place and begged me not to let her go. She’s one of the most beautiful and fun girls I’ve ever met.Then suddenly she wanted to stop cuddling because we were never really boyfriend and girlfriend to begin with. We never actually made it official. Then when I tried taking things to the next level with her everything came to a halt. And now she doesn’t show me the kind of affection she use to. I miss the cuddling and I miss holding hands with her. I want her to love me and show me affection but she just won’t do it.This is still too fresh to be talking about because it’s only been a couple of weeks since she stopped letting me hold her and be with her. It’s as if she’s passively trying to cut me out completely but still being friendly to me. The rejection is still hitting me like I’m being stabbed in the heart.When I first met her, she was like a “damsel in distress” her life was falling apart around her and I was there for her whenever she needed me, when she cried on my shoulders, I was there to comfort her. I still remember the first time she let me cuddle with her. I remember how it felt when we were spooning in bed and she was still sleeping with me.Now I’m alone again and just having a bunch of friends doesn’t feel the same as it use to, I’m not looking for friends, I’m looking for a woman, but the woman I love doesn’t love me back. I want to be with her, but she doesn’t want anything to do with me. I had a very hard time holding in the tears at my work, people were asking me if anything was wrong but talking about it was pointless because it’s not like they could convince her to love me or do anything about it.I know what it feels like to love someone who doesn’t have the same feelings for you. You’re not the only one who is going through these problems. The real world does not reward loyalty and acts of kindness. Being a knight in shining armor will only give you pain and loneliness. Those fairy tale romance movies are nothing but garbage.
How do I know if a woman rejects me when I ask her out because she was actually busy?
Oh, this is an easy one. I have given advise to a ton of people over the years and this question comes up pretty often.You do what I call the "Acid Test." The acid test is basically this:You ask a woman out. She basically has two options:She says "yes" and goes out with you.ORShe does not go out with you and will generally give you a reason why she cannot. Sometimes she will be clear (great), sometimes she might not be.If her answer is vague... Assuming this is the first time you are asking the girl or that you know she is not lying to you, then you accept her answer as fact. Perhaps she is very busy.However immediately after that, this is what you do:You ask her “When would it be a good time for us to go *insert whatever plans you had in mind.”If she likes you, she will try to give you an exact time -- "Next Saturday I will be free." If she says something like "in about two weeks," in a flirting manner ask her when, specifically but don't be pushy, tell her that "you might be free that weekend, perhaps the Saturday but you can discuss details at a later time." If she is okay with it, then give her a window that you can confirm with her.If she still cannot give you a time, at that point you have come clean about your intentions and she will know it, thus if she wants to go out with you then she will call you back because she ultimately wants to go out with you.If she does not like you, she will be vague and will keep it vague. Remember not to press her decision. If she is vague then right there you have your answer.If that happens then respectfully and gracefully bow out and keep your dignity. Do not pester her or cling to the idea that all of the sudden you will ask her and she will be like, "But of course!"She knows you like her and if you keep on asking her then you will only look desperate and you will be wasting your time.At this point, your best bet is to just move on. It is better for you and chances are, she will also want you to move on too.
She seems to ignore me when i ask her to hang out?
You should ask her on an actual date. Girls love feeling special even if you don't think she's special..if you like her, take her out and if she flakes on a date then she's probably just a *****. Hang out is really broad and if you don't make it clear when and where then she probably thinks you're not being serious. And this is just me, but when a guy I like starts asking me to hang out and not wanting to do anything exciting or fun the first time we hang out, or I'll ask what we should do and he says "nothing" I get really turned off and start to feel not so attracted to him. And after a while he just becomes annoying and I stop talking to him all together. So, just make a big gesture if you really want to get with her.
Why won't she talk to me anymore?
we girls are very complicated, but so are guys so its even. but anyway, IKD whats wrong with her. she seems kinda shallow. cause that's rude to just go with you to homecoming and then ignore your existence. and you seem like such a nice guy. i don't understand her either. ask one of her friends, maybe they'll tell you. or you could ask her. i hope thing's work out. you seem really nice. hope i helped
Why won't she give me a straight answer?
I asked a girl I like, who definitely likes me too, to go to homecoming with me. She said she would, but then said she wasn't sure if she was gonna go or not. Like a week later I asked her again, and she said she still wasn't sure. Then I asked if there was anyway i could convince her to go and she said "maybeee". Why won't she give me a straight answer? I am getting really stressed out about this so how can I get her to go with me.