He talks to me one day and ignores me the next day?
Everyone says that he likes me.. He flirts with me often and we talk and text a lot. But recently he talks to me one day and then ignores me the next day..? He keeps doing this and it's so annoying. One day hes all sweet and nice and everything and then the next day he just ignores you and doesnt talk to you or anything and pretends you're not there. say I talk to him he ignores me or says 1 word. If I try to text him he says: cant talk. bye. and then the next day he talks to me like nothing happened. He's also a "man whore" I guess you could say.. He does flirt with a lot of girls but I just dont get it.. What does this mean? :/
Why do guys talk to you one day and then like totaly ignore you the next(GUYS PLEASE HELP)!!?
Let me help ya here... Three scenarios why basically. 1) You are a hot/nice girl. - Guys avoid you after the first chat to find out if you dig them or love to chat with them. Gives us this thrill that this hot chick comes to me and not some other guy ard. You may call it EGO trip. 2) You are a average girl. - Guys avoid you cos they need to chase that other girl and cannot be spending time with you as that girl may mistake his interest. - And you are not that girl's close fren. - And you are a weird one and tt guy fears you may like him. 3) You are a whinny/talkative type. - I hate these ones. Ask your fren if you are one. Best advice for you - IGNORE them. They will come back running. Just be nearby and keep to yourself (Pls pretend to be doing something not important so that they can disturb you.). Guys wont let girls idle. Heres my 15yrs experience of youth.
Why guy stare one day and ignore next day?
i think (90%) i know why. he is trying to get your atention more. im guessing he really likes you. let me ask you, what do you feel when he totally ignore you? it makes you want to go ask him right...? so that's what he's hoping you'll do. maybe he got tired of saying hi to you but got no better respond from you, so he's hoping you notice the change he's done, and you finally go talk to him... what you should do is either a) talk to him (like he wants you to do) or b) totally ignore him, and in another couple of days, he gets tired, and say hi to you again. c)IF you like him, you can make him jealous, being extra-nice to other guy-coworkers, if he cant take it, he will talk to you again. (i know using others is bad, but is your choice O_O ) EITHER ALL THIS OR I COULD BE WRONG! (10%) maybe he heard something about you that he didn't like (im just saying).
For guys, why do you ignore the woman you like after the first date? Even after you said you want to see her a few more times in the next month? Why show intention & then disappear?
I’m a guy and I’m guilty of doing that, here’s why.I’d been texting a classmate for a month now and it was nice until I realized I was the one starting the conversation and keeping it going. I freaked out a little but thought that maybe I hadn’t given her the time for her to want to text me, so I stopped texting her at all. A week passed and she hadn’t texted. Didn’t put much care to it and went with my plan of asking her out. I thought that if she was just texting me back to be nice she would definitely reject me asking her out on a date. She didn’t.After our first date I thought that perhaps she would reach out to me saying that the evening was nice or something of the sort. It didn’t happen, so 3 days later I texted her saying I enjoyed the evening and would love to take her out again. In my head she was bound to be a little more interested in me and start texting me. NOTHING.She agreed to a second date but still no outward interest from her. Here’s where I decided to distance myself a little. So now I’m not texting her same as before because I don’t want to seem desperate for her (I am but I want to be subtle.)Anyways, what I’m trying to say is that don’t make it harder for him (no pun intended.) And I’m not saying you are deliberately trying to make it difficult for him, but we men can’t take hints.So take the initiative for this once and reach out to him, we love when you women seek us.
Would ignoring a guy make him be more interested? ?
Okay ignoring would work on two different situations. Depending on who the guy is. Lets say, One is a "Nice guy" and one is a "Jerk". If you ignore a "Nice Guy". "Nice Guys" are caring, nice, always there for you, and they would often be needy/desperate. Therefore, they would like only you and think there's no other girl. So ignoring them would make them keep coming back but hurt them as well. A "jerk" really if you want to ignore them. They'll be like "I don't care" you ain't the only girl out there. I'll go for someone else. Cause ignoring shows a sign of disinterest. If the guy is not desperate for you and you ignore him he'll just walk away. As personal experience, girls have tried to ignore me as a "hard to get". I didn't care, I just walked. Few days later they start talking to me again. Cause the girl will crack first before the guy crack if hes a "jerk". But if hes a "nice guy" he will keep talking to you, and trying to get your attention. While the "jerk" could care less. In this case, your dealing with a "jerk" I don't recommend you ignoring because I highly doubt he'll care if you ignore him. He'll just find another girl, because ignoring is a sign if disinterest.
Why is he nice to me one day, but ignores me the next?
There are many possibilities. You shouldn’t feel sad about the situation. You don’t know what the problem is.He is just like that. Yes, he may be a person who is slow in opening up to new people. His nature is not that much extroverted. So, just do your thing, talk to him and work it out.Mood. Maybe his moods change due to some problem he is having. This is not about you in any way. There can be some family trouble or a personal problem. So, he is just a bit upset.He is not sure. He likes you, but he is not sure that you like him back or not. Even, it can be that he is not sure about himself. He is just thinking about the circumstance.The best thing you can do now is go and talk. Talk with him. Talk bout anything-hobbies, movies and other fun stuff. Don’t be insecure. Confidence is the key.:)
Why would a guy ignore a girl all of the sudden?
the guy i talk to on facebook suddenly started to ignore me... before that we talked on facebook every day and he texted me so did i .. we met three times already.. and we are planning to go to six flags.. and now he does this to me? why? what should I do? but he is not mad at me.. he told me that.... Please help??? i am very confused! also he started to ignore me like for 4 days now... He doesnt show up on facebook so often.. and today when i asked him he is is mad he said no and then said that there is nothing I did that he will be mad at... what should i do? I feel so mad now... and i just want to let him go... is it a good choice?
Why does my guy friend ignore me all of a sudden?
Ok so I have a guy friend. I've been hanging out with him for a while now. Were kinda really close. We've known eachother for 3 months now and he sends me a text almost every day asking for homework. Ever since he found out about me and another guy going to homecoming for school (I also kissed this guy which I told him too since we talk about things alot) hes been all of a sudden talking to me less. He's actually avoiding me now and I asked him why he won't talk to me or if he's mad but he just says that nothing is wrong. I know something is wrong for sure. Then I texted him why he's ignoring me and he said that he has to for no reason. What should I do?? He's a great friend and I can't lose him because he's one of my besties. I've also asked him If he likes me but he just says no although his friends say he's madly in love with me.he's pretty good at hiding now. So what should I do???
Why do guys start ignoring girls after showing all the signs he likes her?
I would like to add one if it is not answered already.Normally what happens when a guy likes a girl is that he will show all the signs that he likes her. If it so happens that after all his efforts, she finally starts to like him too. Now she reciprocates her feelings and all of a sudden he starts ignoring her. I presume this is the scenario the question was based on.Well the first advice I can give you is that “guys are complex creatures too and girls are not the only ones” :PAnd the explanation is the first time he started to fall for you, he felt that you were the best girl in the world. You were a challenge to him and he thought getting your attention was his main priority. So he did all those things to gain your attention. Now you have fallen for him so you start reciprocating to his efforts. Suddenly, he will feel that he has conquered you and you are no longer a priority. I guess it almost like a climax and after the climax, you lose your interest which is kind of what happens in this case too. Then he starts ignoring you and starts looking for the next girl to conquer.Based on my experiences, I can say the guys who do this are mostly attention seekers. They just want to get your attention that is all and it disappoints them if you fall for them. How I know this is because I am also one of those guys and it is very hard to focus on what I really want sometimes :)))